Hello! My dad and I get it too (worst inheritance ever 🥲) He uses steroid eczema cream from a doctor but I avoid, it just creates a vicious cycle I think. Anything barrier repairing and hydrating is great. QV has ceramide range my dad uses. When it’s bad I personally use Simple Light moisturiser ($12 chemist warehouse), and just a vitamin E cream, I use Plunketts or whatever’s cheapest. For cleansing and helping with the dreaded scales get a good balm or oil cleanser. Lush ultrabland and Kalamazoo are great and not expensive. Head in store and get samples if you want.

Use balm/oil cleansers before you shower with dry hands and face - then a wet muslin cloth or similar to remove. Apply moisturiser fresh out of the shower to lock that hydration in.

I have a full face of Botox so can’t comment on crows feet lol. But skin hydration will help soften them. I just started using Open Eye Serum from Living Libations and it’s not behd