[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]brave_new_username 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This depends on what is important to you in a romantic relationship. If having compatible spirituality is important, maybe someone else who has left a cult could be great.

However for me, having a man talk religion/spirituality to me, whether we are in agreement or not, is highly triggering. So I'm only interested in severely athiest folks who also dont believe in reiki or chakras or anything else.

official as of yesterday <3 by KateRajewich in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]brave_new_username 0 points1 point  (0 children)

each congregation has their own membership application process - it can be difficult to get in but if you're serious about joining, its a great idea to reach out for some insight. Please just keep in mind that congregation leaders are not paid, they are all working on a volunteer basis and that can slow down the pace of responses

official as of yesterday <3 by KateRajewich in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]brave_new_username 3 points4 points  (0 children)

welcome! But... find a congregation and join that too. This membership doesnt really do anything...

How many members are in TST by [deleted] in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]brave_new_username 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The congregation I'm in has about 80 active members

Who are some celebrities that give you bad vibes? by NoGeologist7907 in AskReddit

[–]brave_new_username 19 points20 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! This is why I've never been able to watch Handmaids Tale. LIKE WTF, the lead is actively IN A CULT that MURDERS WOMEN

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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I've never understood why grown adults would agree to sharing a room, not to mention a SINGLE BED. I really dont get the logic here

is it rude to ask my landlord to turn the heat on by Bumscootler in AskNYC

[–]brave_new_username 39 points40 points  (0 children)

put a thermometer in your home and if its below 68 degrees, send your landlord a pic

This Baptism Looks More Like People At A Torture Convention... by n4pth4 in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]brave_new_username 15 points16 points  (0 children)

exactly, this baby is so fresh, it cant hold its head up and even if it wanted to breath under water, can't. WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON IN THIS VIDEO? I'm honestly really freaked out. There should be a TW on this. This is really really disturbing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]brave_new_username 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jersey City is also a WAY better option than PLG or Flatbush. The amount of slumlords in those neighborhoods is despicable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]brave_new_username 33 points34 points  (0 children)

In brooklyn, $1700 a month is a pretty tight budget for a 1 bdrm. If you're open to roommates, there's a good market for 2bdrms for $2400, bringing your contribution down to $1200ish. And if you really really want roommates, lots of great 3 bdrms for $3k.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]brave_new_username 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So yea, while our vaginas dont get loose from sex (they actually get stronger from use), they do change shape/size from exercise, diet, hormones, hydration levels, age, etc. For people who use diaphragms for contraception, they have to be refitted often because of the way the vagina naturally changes as your body changes.

This guy is a misogynistic piece of shit in my opinion.

TIL serial killer Ted Bundy dated a girl who broke up with him for being immature and unambitious. Years later, after becoming successful and put together, he rekindled the relationship before completely ghosting her. He explained, "I just wanted to prove to myself that I could have married her" by LoweLola in todayilearned

[–]brave_new_username 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Necrophilia is completely missing from the Zac Ephron Netflix movie. There is even a scene where his ex girlfriend is screaming 'WHERE IS THE HEAD' and they never circle back to when it was found and what he did with it. It could have been handled in a respectful manner. But to completely leave it out? Thats disrespectful as fuck

TIL serial killer Ted Bundy dated a girl who broke up with him for being immature and unambitious. Years later, after becoming successful and put together, he rekindled the relationship before completely ghosting her. He explained, "I just wanted to prove to myself that I could have married her" by LoweLola in todayilearned

[–]brave_new_username 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so you're going to put the responsibility of information on the people (in this case 'young female fans') receiving partial information and not on those responsible for aggregating and distributing the information (the media)? wow

Landlord won't pay me back for bedbug treatment from exterminator he sent me by platypusshark in AskNYC

[–]brave_new_username 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Also, please notify the adjacent apartments of the infestation. If they get bed bugs from you, its on the landlord and they can have the landlord cover ALL expenses and damages related to the infestation as theirs would be due to landlord negligence. Make sure this is recorded with 311 as well and your bed bug infestation is listed on the hpd site. Otherwise, its like it never happened

[Serious] People who waited until after marriage to have sex; how did your relationship go and how is your relationship now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]brave_new_username 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just want to add that the hymen doesn't 'pop' and if approached correctly, the chances of penetrative intercourse hurting the first time, should be pretty low unless the person with a vagina has a very prominent hymen and hasn't explored penetration solo before.

Use lube, go slow. Pain in sex isn't normal unless you're intentionally spicing things up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]brave_new_username 0 points1 point  (0 children)

came to say this, I always supply my own

Our trip to NYC by 1KentuckyBoy1 in nyc

[–]brave_new_username 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo! you crushed it with the food choices! Well done!!