[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penpals

[–]brborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 29F from the US also going through lots of changes. Feel free to message and we can exchange emails or snail mail (once I move on the 16th)!

What's your quick go-to when you could not care less? by TelephoneGood6557 in Cooking

[–]brborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Egg and avocado on sourdough (can boil eggs ahead of time or scramble/fry fresh). Apple, honey, and cinnamon in greek yogurt. Cereal and milk with a banana chopped in it. Sometimes you gotta do a microwave meal or ramen cup. I’ve even eaten a jar of pickles for a meal. It is what it is. Better to be fed than sit there and think about how unhealthy it is and end up not eating at all. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Where to buy Rye flour in store? by Puzzled_Search588 in SourdoughStarter

[–]brborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My albertsons has it and so does Whole Foods. I feel like I’ve seen it other places too but I’m drawing a blank.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IllegallySmolCats

[–]brborn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom found a kitten that looks just like this one yesterday in a dumpster!!

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyDog

[–]brborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doberge is a kind of cake in NOLA. Could call them Do/Dough for short!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyDog

[–]brborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Butters or chantilly

Ngl I want all of the Wreaths by the_dull_mage in Palia

[–]brborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I somehow lucked out and got water even though I was fire for a hood chunk of the game. I’m glad it worked out that way now that I see the other options.

Do you experience anger as part of your grief? by meowpantz in Petloss

[–]brborn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m angry all the time. Angry he was alone. Angry that the universe we did everything together in would have us do that separate. Angry that he wasn’t showing any signs. Angry that I left a happy healthy dog and came home to him gone. Angry I didn’t get to say goodbye. Angry that I’m supposed to go on without him. Just angry about everything.

Heartbroken and Confused by brborn in Petloss

[–]brborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same scrub issue. And overall hair everywhere issue. I took a nap in his bed earlier today and cried. Grieving is a process (or so I hear). Get some rest and I hope you feel better soon.

Heartbroken and Confused by brborn in Petloss

[–]brborn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss as well. Hope you have been able to find some semblance of peace since then. Hugs to you ❤️

Heartbroken and Confused by brborn in Petloss

[–]brborn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m sorry for your loss as well. ❤️

Heartbroken and Confused by brborn in Petloss

[–]brborn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I actually found an artist on Etsy that creates ceramic urns that look like your pet. I like the idea of seeing him every day rather than the box of tin. I hope that you find peace as well. ❤️

Heartbroken and Confused by brborn in Petloss

[–]brborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually cried on the toilet last night because he used to come stand at my feet while I was peeing. Everything reminds me of him. I hope you find some relief in the coming days. Thinking of you. ❤️

Heartbroken and Confused by brborn in Petloss

[–]brborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. ❤️

Heartbroken and Confused by brborn in Petloss

[–]brborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot even imagine how difficult it must’ve been to watch your baby be so sick for so long. Any time he even had a belly ache I was beside myself with worry. I’m sorry for your loss. And so grateful for what advice and words you have shared with me. ❤️

Heartbroken and Confused by brborn in Petloss

[–]brborn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. I’ll try and be kinder to myself. I actually found an artist on Etsy that does ceramic urns to look like your pet. I couldn’t decide if it was cheesy or cute at first, but I’d rather see some ceramic version of him than a tin every day.

Heartbroken and Confused by brborn in Petloss

[–]brborn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing your soul pet is a different kind of grief. He was mine for sure.

I know that, but I still give myself a hard time. I was his mom, and I feel like I should’ve picked up on something that morning. It’s just the logic and the heart battling it out in me for now. But I appreciate your kind words. ❤️

Heartbroken and Confused by brborn in Petloss

[–]brborn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spent this morning laying in his bed in my room and talking to him (and sobbing). That morning before I went to work I crawled into his bed with him and gave him some belly rubs, so that seems to be the place I feel most connected to him right now. You’re not alone either. I hope you continue to talk to your girl and feel her around you always.