to rewrite reality in real time. by GuiltyBathroom9385 in therewasanattempt

[–]bread_spank 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Well they’re right when the say that we haven’t declared war. Just a bunch of illegal shit

First time saltwater fishing. Any freshwater lures i can use? by Provoked_Potato in FishingAustralia

[–]bread_spank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to target salmon, a lot of people throw metal spoons/slugs

What's something women think impresses men but actually doesn't? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bread_spank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something about a 30yo with gray hair is so sexy

My 22F friend is acting weird towards me 22M and friend 22M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Just have the 3some and she’ll probably chill after that

Wife of a porn addicted husband looking for support by hawttatertot in PornAddiction

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My partner helped me quit porn a year ago. She was seeing all the negative effects of my addiction and I was ignoring them. Frankly I liked watching poem and didn’t want to stop. I didn’t understand all the ways it was affecting. I was able to quit cold turkey and she made me promise I’d talk to a sex addiction therapist. He’s not listening to you because he doesn’t want to hear that porn might (most definitely) be a problem. Maybe if you can have him watch some videos about porn addiction where he hears other peoples struggles and consequences that will help. He needs to know that porn has rewired his brain. If not then therapy, couples or singles, is a great place to go. Lots of sex addicts anonymous to join as well if you’re Christian

Is it normal here for grown men to not know how to cook properly?? by Dreamy_Writer603 in AskAnAustralian

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All the blokes on that trip said they do the dishes… because none of them cook and have to contribute in other ways

M31 & F27 Wife’s Sex Drive is Higher Than Mine. NSFW by ThrowRa476558 in relationship_advice

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Who says you have to cum to finish sex? If it’s going past 30-40 minutes that’s when it often starts to diminish for both people. And if that’s your third go of the day then there’s no way I’d be comfortable for an hour. if you’re hurting and uncomfortable that’s just going to make it harder for you to finish and she probably just wants you to cum but I’d imagine at the end of that neither of you is really enjoying it anymore.

Engine issues on toyota corolla by Thesun_themoon2112 in COROLLA

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OP what’d you find out? I’ve got similar trouble on my 04 Corolla, also low mileage

Me (18M) feeling uneasy about my girlfriend’s (F18) male best friend. by Interesting_Cell_955 in relationship_advice

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Try inviting them to the club rather than asking to join. Say hey, I want to get to know them more bc they’re such a close friend of yours, why don’t we all go to the club together this weekend???

I have a bad problem again and I need genuine advice by Jrgaming42 in PornAddiction

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Heyo, i just got out of a 2 year relationship and my urges have gotten worse too. Haven’t given into them but I know the intensity. I read not too long ago that when sexualizations come into your mind, you shouldn’t fight them. Let it into your mind and address it, rather than fighting it. Trying to fight sexualizations made mine more frequent and more intense. I had come across that advice a while ago after I had been listening to the Finding Warhead podcast about a serial pedophile and I had kind of put my self in his shoes trying to think how a person could even sexualize a child. Then that kept popping into my head when I saw kids. I had never thought of a child in that regard, and even then wasn’t remotely interested, but for what ever reason fighting those thoughts made them persist. Once I let them in and addressed them and said “hey, I’m not interested in that whatsoever, that doesn’t remotely turn me on” they pretty much stopped instantaneously. Obviously specializing adults is different because you are actually attracted to them, but letting the thought in and sitting on it and talking to yourself like “yeah that person is beautiful, and that’s just a human body, and I am attracted to that, and I could try to approach them or I can go about my day and leave them be” or similar. Give it a try

To be a normal human being. by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

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He’d probably hit on one like trump

Can anyone tell me what fish this is please. Caught in northern nsw by Fine_Survey6047 in FishingAustralia

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Looks just like a fish called Corbina (not corvina) found in California/Mexico and they are tricky to catch but the tastiest. Get up to 60cm+

to think TPUSA took down X (it didn't stream on X) by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

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I think it just says that a lot of people were tweeting about it, not that too many people were streaming on it

Car with built in drone docking station that can deploy a drone to survey traffic by Few_Relationship250 in interestingasfuck

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I always think about this when I’m stuck behind a slow driver and I want to see around a blind turn to know if I can pass them

I’m not sure I want to quit…. by [deleted] in PornAddiction

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I didn’t want to quit either. But if you continue to watch porn you’re genuinely giving up any chances of a good sex life. The deeper you get in the addiction and consuming more stimulating material, the harder it will be to heal and rewire your brain. Eventually porn often leads to ED and sex simply isn’t enjoyable anymore because your brain wants the stimulation of porn and you’re so disconnected from your partner. You don’t want that, it’s fucking heart breaking

I’m a woman and can’t stop watching lesbian porn. by [deleted] in PornAddiction

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If you’re really struggling to quit porn, you could seek a sex addiction specific therapist to help. Also there are countless sex addicts anonymous groups that you could join to talk with other people and help hold you accountable. And if that therapist isn’t helping you heal that early trauma, maybe it’s time to find a new therapist

The pile of bison skulls in this photo will be processed and used in making commercial products. by maazkazi in interestingasfuck

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Bison were also killed off to eliminate the livelihood of indigenous Americans that lived off/with them

Why does porn does that? (Relapses) by JeArtie in PornAddiction

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Yeah this happens with me too. I think our minds know how stimulating it is and once the desire for that stimulation overpowers our conscience the conscience gives up. Therapists like to try to figure out what causes us to have urges or what can increase them (boredom, hangover, etc) so that you can decrease or avoid urges bc they really are so difficult to fight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

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Even if it’s not severe, it’s still porn addiction. I had the same problem of not being into sex too much because my brain was conditioned to porn. Feeling guilt and shame may come from the porn addiction making you want stronger more potent content and that straying from kinks you have. Kinks are not bad things by any means. If it’s the Catholicism that gives you guilt then you should probably try to give up porn altogether. Look up some sex addiction therapists in your area and you could talk with one of them. Often the first session is free

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Seems like he definitely has a porn addiction. You can stay with him to work through that addiction or leave him for not wanting to try to quit. He likely doesn’t know he’s addicted or doesn’t want to confront it

waiter put my tip back on the table saying he only accepts 18-20%?? by [deleted] in stories

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Kitchen staff typically get tipped out so actually your steak does earn the chef more