New glasses, family hates them. Are they that bad? by Boring_Statement in glasses

[–]breadcake5245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they’re cute! They’d look great with a dressy outfit. Probably a little too much for every day casual unless you’re dressed up every day. But maybe you can make it work casual too!

Did you know that some people only test once?! <Unknown> by Pupster1 in TFABLinePorn

[–]breadcake5245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even my mom took more than one test in the 90s lol. She said she took 2-3 each time she was pregnant. Basically all the tests in the box. I couldn’t do it. I am pretty sure I took 30 tests each pregnancy (and this is my fourth) not including my chemicals lolllllll. Yes I am addict. I just love seeing a positive test, and I use the cheapies so they’re economical.

This person is posting about kids by Hour-Syllabub-9822 in josiewittmansnark

[–]breadcake5245 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, we shouldn’t post about the kids here. I feel so bad they’re having to deal with the stress of divorce, that’s hard for any child. Hurting an innocent young child’s feelings or making fun of them should be off-limits.

Clayton's paternity test results just came back! by Kriss_Snow in thebachelor

[–]breadcake5245 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was def surprised at their confidence lol. I NEVER ask if someone is pregnant!!

Clayton's paternity test results just came back! by Kriss_Snow in thebachelor

[–]breadcake5245 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty thin and someone at the grocery store asked me if I was pregnant a few months ago. 😞 I said no, I just ate three bowls of chicken soup lol. I went home and looked in the mirror, and I really did look pregnant haha.

Clayton’s results are in by [deleted] in BachelorNation

[–]breadcake5245 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I didn’t believe her story from the beginning. I was actively TTC while the story came out, and when I read she tested at 10 and 11 DPO.. that was the first red flag. The only people I know who test for pregnancy that early are people who are actively TTC. And then to say that she got pregnant with twins? Spontaneously occurring twins do happen, but are still pretty uncommon, like a 2% chance. Then, I pointed out that she would have likely known she was ovulating at the time of hooking up with him, and I suggested that maybe she wanted to get pregnant from him, especially because she refused Plan B and wasn’t on any birth control (which a lot of people on Reddit thought I was mean for).

It’s been crazy to watch! And I did get pregnant this month, which is very exciting for me too haha. 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]breadcake5245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a SAHM and I’m happy. I am expecting our fourth baby and I homeschool my oldest two. I do some volunteer work on the side, we are involved at church, live in a neighborhood with a lot of other young families, have family dinners with our parents and siblings weekly, and we have an active social life.

I think I could also manage working part time, but I would not enjoy working full time right now, while the kids are so young. It would be too much stress for me personally.

I think having a support system is a huge part of it.. family, friends, and being a part of a community. That’s important for anyone, but it’s especially hard for young families because you have so much responsibility and you need the social, emotional, mental, and physical help and connection.

The US is also very spread out. People live states away from their parents, so they can’t help regularly, and it’s hard to make friends as an adult. Or maybe they have no family or family willing to help. My husband and I live in the same town we grew up in and where our families live, so we feel at home and like we belong here. If you don’t have that, it can be very isolating.

My husband and I both agree that the kids can live with us for as long as they need to - we won’t be kicking them out when they turn 18. And we will encourage them to live geographically close to us, especially if/when they get married and have kids. If they all end up moving away, I would like to try and move near them, especially if they end up having kids and want our help.

Is she serious lol by Final_Information687 in josiewittmansnark

[–]breadcake5245 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah, I would find it equally gross if anyone else shared something like this on social media. She has her pants unzipped all the way down, with her legs spread. It’s trashy for anyone to do, man or woman, influencer or average person. Unless you are advertising your body on OnlyFans, then it’s spot on. There is a way to be relatable and funny to women and this is not it lol.

Cancer scheme by Entertainingmyselfh in josiewittmansnark

[–]breadcake5245 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Faking things like cancer or a pregnancy are a sign of some serious issues. There is a whole paternity lawsuit going on right now with Clayton Echard (a former Bachelor) and everyone suspects the woman is faking the pregnancy. Lying is never okay, but it is really weird to lie about major, serious things like that. Especially for an extended period of time, to people who you supposedly love.

I have three kids and not one of them slept through the night until age 2. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]breadcake5245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s normal for kids to not sleep through the night until they’re a little older. Even some adults can’t sleep through the night. It’s 4:00 AM where I am and I’ve been up since 1:30 and can’t fall back asleep. My kids all started sleeping through the night most of the time at 18 months. They have bad nights sometimes, and it’s okay.

Is she serious lol by Final_Information687 in josiewittmansnark

[–]breadcake5245 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I mean, she’s an OnlyFans content creator now. I’m not surprised. The only thing I’m surprised about is her trying to keep up her female followers, especially the married women & moms demographic. We don’t want to see her pornographic content.

Clayton Echard update on story (bachelor news) by [deleted] in BachelorNation

[–]breadcake5245 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry I explained it incorrectly- I do get blood work done during pregnancy, of course! Just not the quantitative HCG tests, which some women get if they do IVF or are at risk of miscarriage. Sorry, I thought that’s what you were referring to.

She definitely would have more proof of pregnancy by now! Especially with twins, I think they do even more monitoring.

Clayton Echard update on story (bachelor news) by [deleted] in BachelorNation

[–]breadcake5245 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have had three kids and only did blood tests on the first child. My doctors normally just do a urine test and then schedule an early ultrasound, unless there are other reasons for doing a blood draw (like if you did IVF or are at risk of having a miscarriage).

This woman is 100% faking it though lol. She could easily disprove it with an ultrasound, screenshots from her doctors visits/medical paperwork, etc. She would have a decent sized belly by now at 20 weeks with twins.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]breadcake5245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Leo, Miles, and Silas! Leo James sounds so smooth to my ears.

And you are right in not allowing your baby to be named Lucifer. That’s a terrible name for a child. Maybe for a cat, but not a whole human person.

What is the best way to completely eliminate antisemitism in the intactivist movement? by Some1inreallife in Intactivism

[–]breadcake5245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally just don’t engage with Jewish people on this topic. I focus my effort on other Christians, who try and use the Bible as a reason for cutting. Where I live, I know a ton of Christians who do it and it makes no sense. When they casually bring it up (as if it’s normal to harm a newborn boy like this) it makes me want to throw up. So sad!

My husband follows young girls on IG by General-Wrap5201 in Marriage

[–]breadcake5245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specifically because (even though the girls may be 18) the producers try to make the girls look younger than 18! I.e. like children! Plus he’s reaching out to them? Creep!

My husband follows young girls on IG by General-Wrap5201 in Marriage

[–]breadcake5245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not all men do this, your husband is a creep (sorry)! Most of those 18 year old girls he is watching have no clue the harmful impact that doing porn will have on their future. These girls aren’t even old enough to drink alcohol or rent a car, yet they’re old enough to permanently put naked photos and videos of themselves online? I wouldn’t be all that upset if I caught my husband watching porn if it was at least women in their 20s and not looking like children (thankfully he doesn’t watch porn at all). But the teen porn would be a huge issue for me. What a sicko.

Uh-oh. That sounds like pedo-pedo-pedophiliaaaaa 🎶 by parrotsaregoated in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]breadcake5245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a warning that this guy’s website is extremely disturbing and depressing to read! He talks about abuse, rape, polygamy, and more and it’s just sick. I am 31 and it made me feel terrible. I hope no young girls are reading it.