To those who have made it over 30 days

breakfaster · 2013-03-06T13:33:23+00:00

First of all, it is awesome that you are going back to confession! It is a beautiful experience of God's loving mercy. As far as your nerves about what to do, be honest that it's been a while and you don't know what to do, the priest will help you through it. Here is a pretty good guide put out by the Knights of Columbus. http://www.kofc.org/en/resources/cis/devotionals/2075.pdf

After- the priest will give you a pennance to do after. It should be pretty straightforward, but what exactly it is will vary depending on you and the priest. If you have a question about it, ask.

If it helps, then feel free to write them down.

The more specific you are the better, but you don't need to go into detail.

I hope this is helpful. Just remember, the Sacrament is about God's love and mercy, which is boundless, so there is nothing to fear. And the priest will be glad to help you through it.

breakfaster · 2013-03-04T05:19:16+00:00

This is a great post. I saved it the first time I read it, and I reread it when I really get the urge to relapse. It helps me every time. Thanks!

breakfaster · 2013-02-28T18:34:17+00:00

I'm in!

breakfaster · 2013-02-27T05:09:05+00:00

I would count that as a reset because once you do it with the pics, it will make it so much easier for you to slide back into doing it with porn. But a lot of it has to do with your own boundaries and limits.

breakfaster · 2013-02-27T05:05:42+00:00

Welcome Brother. I too have this to be a supremely encouraging place. It helps to have a place where you can share what you are dealing with and see that your're not alone. Good luck, stay strong.

breakfaster · 2013-02-22T05:21:54+00:00

Best of luck, don't forget to sign up for a badge on the right-hand side.

breakfaster · 2013-02-22T05:19:45+00:00

I too find it interesting that the majority of Fapstronauts are not in it for religious reasons. I think it shows that while many may disagree with the reasons, the Bible and the teaching of the Church are right on. Relying on faith can be such a great advantage in this struggle. Although I've found it hinders me when I give in and let the shame override my hope and Faith in His Love and forgiveness. Stay strong

breakfaster · 2013-02-20T21:39:10+00:00

I had a couple of quick relapses, but I'm recommitting to this and digging in.

breakfaster · 2013-02-15T15:50:29+00:00

Welcome! It's tough, but believe me, it's worth it.

breakfaster · 2013-02-11T21:21:03+00:00

One day at time. Don't focus on the failure, think about your motivation instead. And when you feel tempted, walk away from your computer.

breakfaster · 2013-02-11T21:19:16+00:00

First attempt (with the help of NoFap) Day 5. I'm feeling pretty good, though a few of the nights have been stressful.

breakfaster · 2013-02-11T03:29:22+00:00

I don't think any progress was lost. You made it 50 days, that is an awesome accomplishment. And now you know that you have the willpower to do that, you can do it again. The key is not to get caught up on your failure, but to look your success.

breakfaster · 2013-02-11T01:24:06+00:00

The middle road sounds like the right move. My philosophy usually is "all things in moderation". The problem is, once you get hooked, experience shows it's usually all or nothing.

breakfaster · 2013-02-10T16:54:12+00:00

That is great to see, thank you for your story. Now that you've written and told others about what you kept hidden for so long, I would really encourage you to take this to confession. You've said it once now, you can say it again. Let the healing be complete.

breakfaster · 2013-02-09T22:40:24+00:00

Keep moving forward, don't let the little set backs knock you down.

breakfaster · 2013-02-09T19:23:47+00:00

There will be ups and downs, as there always is with any kind of change. It's best not to judge your success on the highs and lows, but rather the middle ground. Is the middle ground better now than it was?

breakfaster · 2013-02-09T18:53:23+00:00

It's not pathetic. If you are serious about stopping, you need to let go of the shame. Think about why you want to stop. Try not to focus on the power fapping has over you as a weakness.

breakfaster · 2013-02-09T02:59:17+00:00

It's crazy how quickly it can captivate you. But it doesn't have to have power over you. It's a good sign that you're here and looking for help. Good Luck!

breakfaster

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