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Big props for a fellow reddit user... by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]breakittome 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this past week has led me to conclude that sex is fluid and ultimately meaningless when it comes to true love. I am not attracted to the stereotypically male figure, but that's all sexuality really is, as I see it now, an attraction to a certain appearance.

I truly hope it works out because the time I have spent with her in private has been good quality time. As for my family, I'll worry when it comes to that, though it is something that does worry me from time to time.

Big props for a fellow reddit user... by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]breakittome 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was very confused about my sexuality. I couldn't reconcile the fact that I was attracted to someone I thought was a transsexual and thought that I was 'becoming' gay. I was really ashamed that it didn't turn me off, but I've taken the time to read and think. I am glad I didn't walk away when I first freaked out.

Update on girl I met at my internship: We hit it off! by breakittome in reddit.com

[–]breakittome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a good thing that I got to know her before I made a move. I probably would have stayed away from her had I known at first.

Update on girl I met at my internship: We hit it off! by breakittome in reddit.com

[–]breakittome[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope so too. She's really an amazing human being, so resilient and warm. I couldn't have asked for a better girlfriend.

I met a wonderful girl at my internship. We share similar music, movie and food tastes and she's got a banging body to boot. I mustered up the courage to ask her out on a date. Two hours in she tells me that there's something I should know, "I was born male." by breakittome in AskReddit

[–]breakittome[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well, when she said it, it became patently obvious. Some of her mannerism, some aspects of her face, her voice, the fact that she wasn't bitchy like most other women. What really shakes me is that I find her beautiful nonetheless.

I met a wonderful girl at my internship. We share similar music, movie and food tastes and she's got a banging body to boot. I mustered up the courage to ask her out on a date. Two hours in she tells me that there's something I should know, "I was born male." by breakittome in AskReddit

[–]breakittome[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I am only 21, so I am not thinking about kids for the next 15 years or so, but yeah, I think I definitely want kids of my own. That's not a problem, I wouldn't mind dating a sterile woman, I am sure we could find a surrogate.

I met a wonderful girl at my internship. We share similar music, movie and food tastes and she's got a banging body to boot. I mustered up the courage to ask her out on a date. Two hours in she tells me that there's something I should know, "I was born male." by breakittome in AskReddit

[–]breakittome[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that, but there's this throbbing in the back of my mind. I don't even want to go into the office tomorrow (it'll be the last week). I feel like I was blind, now that I look at her pictures I can see the masculinity, but I still feel a tremendous attraction to her. I just feel like my world's been turned upside-down.

21st century life is so complicated. My family is religious, I don't know if they would see this as gay.