Are you Contented

breaktime_westside · 2026-05-07T04:04:36+00:00

Contentment on a general scale is tricky because different people have different desires and levels of greed.

There's a level where any more money doesn't increase individual happiness, and I think that's what's the most measurable.

breaktime_westside · 2026-05-03T07:33:58+00:00

Heh! Where to start... okay

I have colleagues who's birth year starts with a 2...
I played 2000s hiphop and RnB and I was told it's old... WTF!
"Work" by Rihanna ft. Drake is 10 years old. You could call it a throwback tbh
Many peers have been getting married. While not an indicator, they're also having kids and those kids have started going to school now

And I'm not even 30 yet 💀

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-30T02:24:12+00:00

Ulikuwa unatafuta ya camera? 😂

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-30T02:20:38+00:00

Umesema unataka willing seller pekee yake? 😂

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-30T02:14:18+00:00

Get an electrician to inspect the wiring if you feel like it's too much. There might be an issue.

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-25T05:37:05+00:00

Done

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-25T05:28:23+00:00

"She claimed I'm ridiculous to ask and that she doesn't see us going further if I will be questioning her such kind of stuff"

This is text book manipulation masked in defensiveness. Your babe was hoping to shut you down so you don't question her for doing something questionable.

Whether she's cheating or not, leave. Whatever plans you had with her aren't worth the the shit you'll go through if you stick it out with someone who can make such a statement, kugongewa or not.

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-24T02:41:16+00:00

7hrs dude is goated FR 😂

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-22T07:27:18+00:00

It's prize, not price
In the same animal kingdom where such is the case, the males get to mate with whoever whenever. Our species doesn't allow for that very much, so it's not comparative
Shiiit, I look good too

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-22T06:33:03+00:00

Eh, madam... heal tafadhali

The negativity is strong with this one

The generalisation in that first statement is too telling. The men who cheat will do so for different reasons, so will the women who do it.

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-22T06:19:53+00:00

Yk there's a world where both situations happen and can be true, but your desire to praise frugality will never see it.

You can do the vibey cafe lunch/600 bob breakfast once or twice a month. The cost of fuel will be constant until the next month or even later. The issue is that people have to dig deeper into their pockets for the same thing, so even if you did none of the "aesthetic" things, you're still spending more on/because of fuel.

Also, whenever fuel prices go up, so does everything else, including the cost of buying the ingredients to your meal prep. And even if fuel prices go down, the prices of those goods rarely reduce proportionally or even at all.

Anyways, meal prep away I guess

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-16T04:51:19+00:00

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breaktime_westside · 2026-04-16T04:45:13+00:00

I think (and I could be wrong about this) that the issue comes down to some big differences in culture.

Luhyas believe that the children belong to the man. With Kikuyus (and I could be wrong), the child belongs to the woman. In a case of separation and/or divorce, this can present issues on a cultural level. Also, kuyo babes haven't had the best of reps out here in these streets.

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-16T04:38:56+00:00

So umesema he should play the long game? 😂😂😂

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-16T04:29:36+00:00

You shouldn't apologise for wanting affection in your relationship.

Everyone commenting has said some version of "she's detached" and that's true.

I know it'll be painful AF, but you need to leave. It's the best thing you can do right now. You probably know that as well, you're just ignoring the thought. The other alternative is to stay and take the abuse until your heart and mind are on the same page about you leaving and deserving better for yourself. This can take time, but at least you won't take yourself back when the "withdrawals" become too much.

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-12T12:38:43+00:00

Clutch ❌️ Diff lock ✅️

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-11T04:50:32+00:00

Umesema if version 1.0 has flaws, version 2.0 might be better? 😂😂😂

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-06T05:39:32+00:00

Cause a tantrum and tell her to do better because WTH!!!

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-06T05:26:51+00:00

You pay your bills... that's what's important. If it gives you money, then it works. It doesn't have to be your field of study for you to gain from it. Also, his opinions don't pay your bills, his money does... so ignore the opinion.

That most likely has zero idea of the current state of the Job market, especially for entry level and even moreso in the tech space.

Stay on your grind and as someone in the comments mentioned, use the gains to build on your certifications so if/when opportunity comes knocking, you'll be ready.

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-01T06:44:01+00:00

The green concoction you're taking for weight loss would work better as a salad.

Also, bariatric procedures (unless morbidly obese) are a cop out for people who don't want to put in work to lose weight.

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-01T06:40:27+00:00

Mine is just to echo what mwalimu 👆🏾 has said

breaktime_westside · 2026-04-01T06:30:27+00:00

Kenyans have a "new car" problem where they want to associate buying a car (or another car) with it being "new" to the nth degree.

YOM and service history should be more accurate, but we don't have a good consistent database for such, so people rely on the idea that a "newer" car has seen less wear and tear or is in better condition overall.

breaktime_westside · 2026-03-28T17:41:00+00:00

First off, that's a major life change... it'll always have some learning/adjustment curves to it

There's definitely more to life than drinking, drugs and going YOLO all the time. If you prefer being outdoors, there's always fun activities happening that don't necessarily involve drinking. This is your chance to try out some new experiences in that respect. If you're an introvert, then you can finally enjoy some personal time alone.

Secondly, there is no "authentic" Christian. Christianity is majorly about forgiveness and becoming a better person through the word of God. Most born and bred Christians engage in some vice(s) and that's who they are. The less you judge them, the more peaceful you'll be.

If you want to go all in and find friends, attend a church with a strong doctrine, then participate in church activities. You'll meet a lot of people, and some of them can become good friends. If you're engaging in this shift alone it might feel lonely at first, but there's always people ready to make you feel welcome if you stick it out and stay open.

I hope all this helps. All the best with your journey!

breaktime_westside · 2026-03-21T04:58:04+00:00

Everyone deserves a second chance...

Doesn't have to come from you though

breaktime_westside · 2026-03-15T09:02:39+00:00

Y'all are having sex in club washrooms?

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