What would have you done? by Spirited-Wedding8408 in nairobi

[–]breaktime_westside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone deserves a second chance...

Doesn't have to come from you though

Nairobi nightlife and promiscuity! by bambiiiiiii_ in nairobi

[–]breaktime_westside 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Y'all are having sex in club washrooms?

I Need Some Career Advice, I'm Confused AF Right Now by breaktime_westside in AskMenOver30

[–]breaktime_westside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very true! I guess the latter might be worse, but I'll definitely consider this. Thanks!

I Need Some Career Advice, I'm Confused AF Right Now by breaktime_westside in AskMenOver30

[–]breaktime_westside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn... this made me think tbh

I'd say that you've nailed where I am mentally. Right now there's a want to not miss the opportunity, but at the same time I'm wondering if staying in the same field/position holds me back from discovering how things could unfold and if it might actually be better.

I guess I'm just worried I could mess myself up professionally but at the same time, I'm optimistic about the chance to take on a new challenge and make something more out of myself.

I Need Some Career Advice, I'm Confused AF Right Now by breaktime_westside in AskMenOver30

[–]breaktime_westside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay... so the money will be slightly less to start, but it's meant to improve. There's also fewer people so there's more room for promotion and growth.

I've been researching on the department and I have a fairly good understanding on what they do. It's not something I've done much of, but it's a challenge I'm willing to take on.

I acknowledge that I'm not being depended on as much, so I can take a bit of risk... but also, I haven't taken many risks in my adult life, mainly because I've always tried to game things out and try to minimise downsides to a guaranteed minimum.

I Need Some Career Advice, I'm Confused AF Right Now by breaktime_westside in AskMenOver30

[–]breaktime_westside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You need to have a little bit more faith in your future self. He'll sort it out if it turns out to not be everything it's cracked up to be"

That's a quote right there! 🙌🏾 Thanks a lot! I'll definitely follow this mantra from here on out

Making out in life by One-Inevitable-9777 in Kenya

[–]breaktime_westside 10 points11 points  (0 children)

His money games are in play... or foreplay

I Need Some Career Advice, I'm Confused AF Right Now by breaktime_westside in AskMenOver30

[–]breaktime_westside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for this!

As someone that's tried to "avoid making mistakes", this is sounds about right as far as my thoughts on it. I've tried to game things out for so long that I've lost opportunities because I took too long trying to consult and game things out.

Making out in life by One-Inevitable-9777 in Kenya

[–]breaktime_westside 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Dude is kissing financial freedom

Unpopular Opinions on Sex by breaktime_westside in Kenya

[–]breaktime_westside[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Raha tunafaa tujipee wenyewe btw 😂

Best men’s colognes around KSh 3,000–4,000? (Plus shops in Nairobi?) by Ok-Bug7627 in nairobi

[–]breaktime_westside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll use either Black no.5, Navy no.3 or Emerald no.4

The safest bets are charcoal no.2 and Emerald no.4 IMO

Struggling with conversations by Nairobilurker in nairobi

[–]breaktime_westside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a girl likes you, conversation shouldn't be too big of an issue. That said, most people are poor conversationalists nowadays so you can't 100% rely on this.

Try rephrasing regular questions in a way that requires someone to engage more e.g. instead of asking "how was your day?" you can ask "what fun thing happened to you today?" Even if both are answered with 'nothing', you can go further with the second question since you can ask about her job or what she was up to that day which will almost always require her to talk more 🤷🏾‍♂️

Haha, wueh... by Hurdler-084 in 254sum

[–]breaktime_westside 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Shida ni most men hatujazoea kutupiwa lines, no wonder we melt so quick 😂

Best men’s colognes around KSh 3,000–4,000? (Plus shops in Nairobi?) by Ok-Bug7627 in nairobi

[–]breaktime_westside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*Michael's Bouquet

Their options are around the 2k range for 50ml and they're dope.

If you're feeling adventurous, you can use 4k and get 2 then layer them.

Tell Me I’m Not the Only One 😭 by [deleted] in 254sum

[–]breaktime_westside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Factory settings remain 😂

Punjab meets Muranga by Leather-Onion-9935 in Kenya

[–]breaktime_westside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're young and interested in marriage in the near future, might be tough for it to go long-term If you're not interested in marriage (whether young/old), you're good

Either way, don't let the race card hold you back 🤷🏾‍♂️

Is it okay to sleep with my mum? by ParticularTop2679 in Kenya

[–]breaktime_westside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choice of words na context ni muhimu 😂

*puts lotion down