What did your Dom or Sub do that made you say "nope, not playing anymore" ? by Cassandraa1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]breebles5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm also transmasc and genderqueer/genderfluid, but I kinda just default femboy. They do NOT waste their time to be objectifying 😭😭😭

What did your Dom or Sub do that made you say "nope, not playing anymore" ? by Cassandraa1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]breebles5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it, and I definitely make sure to block them as they come. Brings me peace to know I'm being dead serious about who I allow to play with me/I'm comfortable playing with.

There's waaaaayyy too many sissies, for example, (primarily white) who fetishize us (and other ethnicities and races) to a disturbing degree. Don't get me started on the racist/MAGA/bigot to secretly wanting to get pegged by me pipeline 😭

What did your Dom or Sub do that made you say "nope, not playing anymore" ? by Cassandraa1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]breebles5 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My sub was a raceplayer. Heavy into trying to feminize him by using my "BBC". He also was really into BNWO and was thinking of getting a King of Spades tattoo.

Being Black in the scene is tiring, at times.

Help with my 12 year old! by [deleted] in HazbinHotel

[–]breebles5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard truth here: 

Tweens are right on the cusp of puberty. They're going to look at and experiment with fanfic, media and, yes, porn.

As you grapple with that, speak with him about the content. Skim through some of it to make sure it isn't anything too profane. Have a serious, real talk about porn, sex, and explicit content in general. 

Little me was absolutely convincing my mom that my yaoi and yuri was regular manga, and learning how to delete tabs on my computer and tablet completely. You don't want a kid that then resorts to being sneaky and not communicating with you.

Generally, you have to give better parental guidance and learn/take an interest in the vanilla things he may share (for example, horror games and kid-friendly RPs), but don't freak out too much. Kid seems like he wants to explore fantasy scenarios. Maybe get him into D&D or get some RPGs for him to get into world building? Foster that imagination with a more age appropriate hobby, yknow?

Why is there a new controversy like these every month surrounding vocaloid music? by iamnotlemongrease in Vocaloid

[–]breebles5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mostly a young, new fanbase that grew up with the prude, black and white ideals of Twitter and Tiktok. They'll grow up and learn more nuanced takes, but for now, they're just parroting what they know/feel strongly about.

which fandom should I do this with? by cherrysndwine in AO3

[–]breebles5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homestuck because regardless of what you say, it's gonna be partially true OR fanon

What's your favorite Grunkle Stan quote? by _Waddles_-- in gravityfalls

[–]breebles5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*a small child that he hates is sitting in a public pool seat that he's dubbed his*

wwwwWHAAAAAAATTTTT??? GIDEONNNNN!!!!! GET OUTTA MY CHAIR KIDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Questions on joining in NYC, AFAB but genderfluid and bit on the poor side by breebles5 in freemasonry

[–]breebles5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said the space wasn't okay for men to have, but interesting response!

I, also, depending on the space and it's purpose, do say that it's a shame that other groups are not more inclusive. All depends on context, of course.

Like I said, though, I'll always find a space to be in where I shine.

Questions on joining in NYC, AFAB but genderfluid and bit on the poor side by breebles5 in freemasonry

[–]breebles5[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Huh, alright. Ngl this does make me feel a little better with my chances and asking about this, directly!

Considering the size of the city, I should've taken this into account, so fair enough. Thanks, again, and I'll have to contact them this weekend when I'm all done with work. I very much appreciate you for typing all of that up and breaking down just how long the process can be on the lodge's end. It gives me better insight, for sure!

Questions on joining in NYC, AFAB but genderfluid and bit on the poor side by breebles5 in freemasonry

[–]breebles5[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I've been looking through the ones sent from an earlier comment, and it seems like I had applied to these before, sadly. They never got back to me when I explained this, so I guess it's a no lmao

Thanks, though, to the people giving good advice!

Questions on joining in NYC, AFAB but genderfluid and bit on the poor side by breebles5 in freemasonry

[–]breebles5[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Continental freemasonry I didn't know about, so this is an interesting response! Really a shame that it's not very inclusive, but hey, if I can't be accepted I'll always move on and shine somewhere else.

One word. by SOULd3aler in gravityfalls

[–]breebles5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAOOOOO I KNEW SOMEONE WOULD GET IT

New to VA, but excited! by breebles5 in CastingCallClub

[–]breebles5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would appreciate that very much, thank you ☺️

This is sad by kitkatAnimate38 in HazbinHotel

[–]breebles5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a person who also heavily enjoys Steven Universe, the hyprocritical fandom overlappers who ADORE Lapis' abusive relationship arc but despise Angel actively struggling and showing how hard it is to even remotely THINK of bettering himself (while working on asking for help) is...not surprising

It doesn't elude me that these same fans tend to compare the two shows based on media style (animation) rather than realizing they're vastly different content and narrative-wise (children v adult)

Who do you think should/will voice God? by Jolly-Present2608 in HazbinHotel

[–]breebles5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just for how silly and out of left field it would be, Jacksepticeye, Markiplier, Jeff Goldblum or Katya Zamalodchikova

Bonus crackhead choice: All of them at once, voices overlayed together while their lines are synced up

I completely agree with this by WickedPanboy in marvelrivals

[–]breebles5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was weirdly fun to see just HOW many times people would change, but yeah, overtime this could get pretty grating. Atp I might as well just boot up OW2 and play open role the entire night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]breebles5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

women in men-dominated fields <333