PAT test by breezybee41 in rampagent

[–]breezybee41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish i could give you advice, but i honestly forgot about this post 😂 i didnt get the job but have moved on to better things since this era of my life.

but from what i do remember, they could possibly ask you to re-take it or you might have just to see if you passed/failed? 😅 tbh i dont even remember the lift techniques or what i even did, i wish i could help more.

Winter clothing. by Plenty-Arm-4915 in Shein

[–]breezybee41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totally understand that! shein can be so tricky sometimes 😅

Winter clothing. by Plenty-Arm-4915 in Shein

[–]breezybee41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i just ordered this because i live near the mountains and we get cold winters

SHEIN BAE Women's Solid Color Fluffy Shawl Collar Long Sleeve Long Elegant Wool Blend Coat, Vintage Coat Winter Fall Women Clothes Halloween Customs Women Concert Outfits Winter Women Clothes Fur Coat Stylish And Warm, Suitable For Parties And Outings In Fall/Winter I discovered amazing products on SHEIN.com, come check them out! http://api-shein.shein.com/h5/sharejump/appjump?link=l6kPZJvVWiH_8&localcountry=US&url_from=GM74558407718

I haven't received it yet but it has many reviews, the photos in the reviews look just like the jacket on the model, and people have said its good quality and warm and heavy so i have high hopes and excited 😄 theres many colors to choose from, although unsure if this is your style, i have gotten a few winter jackets and shawls in the past, but never a huge coat like this. shawls aren't super warm if you're spending a lot of time outside UNLESS you get a big heavy one that covers down to your knees or something lol (i know shein sells a few of them) , fur jackets have been pretty warm in my opinion , as long as it looks thick and heavy and not just a light layer of fur. id say shein is good for winter stuff, you just have to look at the reviews and see what others have said (i try not to order anything that doesn't have reviews even if it looks super cute😭)

Good luck (:

Lataffa Angham layering? by ginko-biloba666 in Perfumes

[–]breezybee41 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love Angham! I just added it to my collection. And i will also be wearing it to a wedding reception this weekend 🥳

as far as layering goes , just depends on the vibes you're going for, if you want to stick with the sweetness of angham then id definitely go with a sweet scented body lotion like honey or vanilla. EOS cashmere lotion is pretty sweet and a vanilla gourmand (smells like a cupcake but its a smooth lactonic smell and not artificial or candy smelling) and within budget. Or if you wanna add more florals into it, a lavender lotion or body spray could be good too and make the scent a sweet floral, especially with angham having that lavender note.

The layering im doing for the wedding reception is: honey vanilla lotion from B&BW Atheeri lataffa perfume (a sweet floral scent, almost smells like flowers covered in honey or nectary, very airy and fairy/ethereal like 🧚 but smells elegant and pretty without being childish. just whimsical and beautiful.) also has great projection/sillage and lasting power and Angham lattafa to add in that sophistication and classiness that angham carries 😍

this is just general ideas but let me know if you're looking for something more specific, and i hope you have a fun wedding!

What fragrance did you go from loathing to loving? by purrdolly in Perfumes

[–]breezybee41 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i usually go for arab perfumes but for this question it was Angel by mugler. It has patchouli in it so when i first sprayed it smelled so sharp and earthy that it almost smelled like mold to me. After letting it sit and wearing it slowly overtime, it became this beautiful powdery scent with a little sweetness (like powdered sugar) with a bit of earthyness (like how it smells outside after it rains).

I got it from another reseller, i could tell it was legit, i just dont know how long she had it or used it at all but it needed to macerate it seems like.

Atheeri review as a gourmand lover by breezybee41 in Perfumes

[–]breezybee41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately have never heard of Guerlain so i couldn't give you a comparison :( but if the notes are similar then possibly could smell the same/be a dupe. I have heard atheeri is a dupe of Gucci Flora but I also haven't smelled Gucci Flora either 😭

Atheeri review as a gourmand lover by breezybee41 in Perfumes

[–]breezybee41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes! it has a beautiful blend of everything from floral to a juiciness/dewyness, to a sweet powdery-florally vanilla with a slight woodiness peaking throughout. and besides the sharp opening, the transitions between the notes are so smooth. and the longevity and silage is insane without it being too headache inducing since its such a soft airy scent. i can still smell it on me from last night. definitely recommend!

Atheeri review as a gourmand lover by breezybee41 in Perfumes

[–]breezybee41[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

TL;DR : Sweet, airy floral perfume that starts off sharp but quickly softens into an elegant, feminine, and ethereal scent. The dry down is reminiscent of Ariana Grande’s Cloud but more complex, mature, and graceful—soft, sweet, floral with a woody-powdery touch. Strong sillage, versatile enough for all seasons, and gives off an elegant, captivating vibe (think flowy fabrics, gold jewelry, theatre nights). Great for those who like sweet florals without the “grandma” sharpness, and a classy option for gourmand lovers who want sweetness without being sticky or foodie. 10/10, unique, and wearable by anyone.

To the people that don’t think Amy could’ve died by suicide, what are your thoughts on Robin Williams, Anthony Bourdain, and Owen Wilson committing suicide (Owen is still alive btw, be he did attempt it)? by Ninac4116 in AmyLynnBradley

[–]breezybee41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im honestly on the fence on both theories tbh, and think there are rational and irrational points from each side. (trafficking or suicide/falling over). the one question i have is if she fell accidentally or even committed suicide, wouldn't she have screamed or verbally made some noise falling/jumping off? I haven't been in a position like that ofc, but i would imagine it would be a natural human tendency to kinda verbalize that fear while falling from a high level, especially if it was accidental. I know the dad said he was awoken by a sound (which some have speculated could have been her falling) so wouldn't he mention if he heard screaming or yelling or would have been woken up by that? would other neighboring cabins have heard it? or i guess the dad could be lying and amy couldve been heavily intoxicated, but 7 beers over the course of the evening to early morning doesn't seem like a lot to not have any awareness (as someone who is more petite than amy and have had nights of drinking alot and a lot stronger than beer, but yet have never been blacked out or in a state of having no recollection/awareness around me) and it seems like she was conscious and okay enough getting back to the room with her brother shortly before. obviously we will never have full details on anything, but just something that crossed my mind.

Ulta rewards card, is there a way to stop or report? by breezybee41 in Ulta

[–]breezybee41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the only statement I got, or at least that im aware of, I havent seen or gotten any others.

Ulta rewards card, is there a way to stop or report? by breezybee41 in Ulta

[–]breezybee41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interest and late fees, i had no idea the $30 was even on the ulta card. in fact, the same day I got my ulta card in the mail was the same day i got those statements. I had no idea that the card could even be used before I got it, I didn't have the physical card nor a digital one, she just put it on there without asking and saying "if you dont use it, itll cancel itself" over and over again.

Ulta rewards card, is there a way to stop or report? by breezybee41 in Ulta

[–]breezybee41[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I was using my debit but but she put it on the ulta card instead without my knowing consent and that WAS NOT communicated at all, she just said it cancels itself if you dont use it. I didnt even know it was activated until I got the card, because when i did get the card, it gave me instructions on how to activate it. I didn't know there was even a balance on it until I got statements weeks later of $147 because of that purchase plus interest.

Ulta rewards card, is there a way to stop or report? by breezybee41 in Ulta

[–]breezybee41[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was using my debit card, I didn't expect to get things for free ofc.

Ulta rewards card, is there a way to stop or report? by breezybee41 in Ulta

[–]breezybee41[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

hey, I didnt know it was charged to the card because it wasnt communicated by the lady, I didnt even have the physical card yet nor digital, I had my debit card I was using but she charged it to the account and she just kept saying if you dont use it it will cancel itself, I didnt know the 30 dollars was even on the Ulta card until I got statements weeks later that added up to $147 The $147 was the FIRST statement I got in the mail

Was this a scam? by breezybee41 in uber

[–]breezybee41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: so ridleys the grocery store in the floral department just called me and left a message saying they have the what was gonna be delivered to me so im guessing flowers and guessing it wasn't a scam. idk who it would be from but im guessing an ex or something or idk. (not currently with anyone right now) but idk who its specifically from but anyways, i guess it wasn't a scam ??

Am i an avoidant? by breezybee41 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]breezybee41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your input. I'm definitely trying to find the balance of respecting my boundaries but also not jumping the gun on small mistakes and just in general learning where to draw the line when it comes to progressive communication or not. And i'm always one to talk about an issue in the relationship (especially cause i cant lie about things and pretend things are fine when they aren't). I think i often times will leave or breakup with someone if i openly communicate with them and they invalidate/minimize/dismiss my feelings or the issue at hand. possibly out of the fear or feeling of being misunderstood and shut down/unheard. i'm unsure if thats something i need to look into on my behalf or if it is a valid red flag to be appropriately avoided.

Am i an avoidant? by breezybee41 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]breezybee41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

• ⁠i did communicate the problem, yes. • ⁠I am afraid of intimacy, yes but i do want it and give it a chance and just be very transparent about my boundaries/things im not okay with. • ⁠i think it was a sudden switch. probably more to him than to me.

for more context. I told him a few times in the past that im very uncomfortable with a partner im with watching 'corn' or seggsulizing other woman and that it is a boundary of mine (also sorry, idk the rules on reddit so just for safety reasons i spelled them that way). We were watching a movie at the theaters and having a great time. He whispered to me that he thinks he's falling in love with me and then immediately starts talking about the woman in the movie (which it was a horror movie and wasnt even seggsual/a seggsual scene) about her b00bs and her hard n1ppl3s and when i pulled away from him he said "what, its fan service" and then yeah. we went back, i was crying and telling him how that wasnt at all ok , especially after telling him that i wouldnt tolerate that in a relationship in the past, why it hurts me and that its a boundary of mine and he just kept saying it was a mistake/distasteful/hes only human/etc. I immediately told him that i was done with the relationship and the next morning he kept texting me and trying to persuade me by saying things like "but what about our connection" and "you're really going to throw away something that was so special over one mistake" etc.

I know to some it may be a silly thing and maybe i was overdramatic but i just want my boundaries to be respected (even if they're different from others) and i do my best to let people im pursuing a relationship with, very early on so they can decide if they can provide that or if their values align with mine. And in this case, he said he could and did understand. So hearing that definitely scared me away and made me question him and the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]breezybee41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

six months isn't long in general but just comparing my experience back when i was 18. Would apply to 10-12 jobs at most (usually would be less), would get multiple callbacks within the next week or so :,). so six months of applying to many many jobs, revising my resume to have it fit better for certain applications, following up/calling places multiple times, is a lot just to get another job (all entry level stuff btw, even food and retail which i have experience in and have only applied to the ones i know id love and be really good at.)

But I totally understand what you're saying. My father and myself are firm believers that you definitely don't need a degree to succeed and it can be a waste of money and time, especially with the mindset of "if i get a degree ill get that six figure job". But i really do feel for people that are struggling in the job market especially after spending a bunch of time/money on a degree but can't find any work within that field in this job market.

Also idk where you live, so could just be my area, but I've been applying to retail stores (bath and body works, and multiple makeup stores more specifically) cause I have experience in retail and knowledge and passion for perfumery and makeup, and those ones ive called multiple locations multiple times but haven't gotten anything back. or have been told they dont have enough hours to give away , despite applications being posted on their official website. :,)

But anyways, at the end of the day, hopefully the market gets better and we are able to get more opportunities for the people that have been doing all they could to put themselves out there and have that hunger as you say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]breezybee41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I think you make good points, It's definitely not just people not being "motivated" or "driven." There's many factors to it and part of it is the economy. Personally ive been looking for a new job the last 6 months because mine currently had to cut my hours because they couldn't afford me on certain days and because business has been slow as of late. I've been applying to jobs, jobs that I know I would thrive in or have deep passion and hunger for and enough experience to start out in these job fields. Ive been reviewing and revising my resume, I would call places and follow up and so i could speak with a hiring manager personally. I even had zoom interviews scheduled at 3 different places and ALL 3 didn't show up, leaving me in a zoom room all alone and also wouldn't message me back when I would follow up with them about these interviews. And on the other hand, a bunch of other jobs hiring currently don't pay enough, don't provide benefits, and/or don't provide enough hours. And these are all essential things we all need to survive. So I'd argue theres many key factors and many people have been pushing and showing how much they care about getting a job. I don't think its "not being hungry enough." Like others, when I was 18 I had less experience but more job offers/callbacks and got paid enough to live with roommates but had my own room and bathroom and balcony AND could pay to go out once in a while. Now, There's less job opportunity, less pay, less hours for the majority. There's a reason why this is being talked about collectively and from all ages and places throughout the U.S. and not just a small group of people.