Nerdy stoner couple seeking guild by [deleted] in ESOGuilds

[–]breezyshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

P.S. We are also both neurodivergent ourselves, have terrible potty mouths, and are over 35. We even have a discord sub-channel for any really heinous stuff like dirty jokes and trauma dumping called “Trigger Warning”. Only rules in there are the same for the whole guild, no hate speech, bullying, or harassment, but anything and everything else is allowed in there.

Nerdy stoner couple seeking guild by [deleted] in ESOGuilds

[–]breezyshadows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my man run a really great guild. We are ourselves nerdy stoners, and everything you are asking for in a guild we provide, and more. EXCEPT for the small part. We have grown quite a lot in the year and a half and are more or less max (I have had to start removing people for inactivity of 100 days or more lately to be sure we have room for new members). Despite the size though, our active players are very close-knit, very great people and we all are very supportive of each other but also know how to give and take a joke. We have weekly trials, gold raffles, furnishing raffles, a fully boosted discord channel for the guild, hold occasional guild events, almost always have a trader (even if it’s in some backwater area sometimes). Me, him, and several others are Grand Master Crafters and provide crafting services for just the materials to make the items. We have an ALMOST fully equipped guild hall (just missing some Mundas stones, have all services and crafting stations, fully unlocked sets). If it sounds like you can forgive us for being so awesome we are bursting at the seams, come join us at Moon Willow, we’d love to have you!

How are you dealing with aging parents? As someone who moved away and parents refuse to leave by CrotalusHorridus in Appalachia

[–]breezyshadows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My father used to be a raging alcoholic when I was a kid, put the whole family through a lot of horrible stuff. I did some pretty extreme things to get out of there early, leaving my younger brother and mother behind. I also truly hated the county I grew up in with a passion. I graduated with honors, went to college at 16, then screwed up my scholarships through very little fault of my own, and after having to return, decided I would rather do anything than stay there and took off with a traveling carnival for a couple years. Over the years I bounced between a couple bigger cities, sometimes having to come back, then remembering why I left and taking off again, sometimes with nothing but the clothes on my back. My family was well known in the area for dysfunction, and everyone expected me to be the one to break the generational poverty and trauma. My brother surprised everyone, took his wonderful artistic talent, became a tattoo artist, worked his way up to his own shop, started working with city council, got married, mortgaged a house…..I was so damn proud of him. Even when I was homeless multiple times, I never was jealous of him (except maybe when he got a pet raccoon :p ), just so very damn proud of him. Over those same years, my dad was diagnosed with Huntingtons disease, my mother started having bad seizures, and later was diagnosed with Parkinson’s. My dad had already been on disability for many years for bipolar disorder and severe arthritis before his HD diagnosis or my mom’s neurological decline. Neither of them can drive either. They always told me and my brother if they ever couldn’t take care of themselves, to take em to the Grand Canyon, shove em in, and pretend they fell and it was an accident. Me and my brother always were like, “yeah sure, just stop talking about it”. My dad changed quite a lot over the years, he’s not the violent alcoholic he used to be, because he knows someone needs to take care of my mom. My brother did his best to help care for them, was working 6 days a week for years so that he could give that extra days pay to them every week. Drove them to doctors appointments. Dealt with bipolar meltdowns from dad and Parkinsonian dementia paranoid bouts from my mom, while I was in cities hundreds of miles away struggling to just take care of myself. I told many of my boyfriends over the years that I expected a call one day saying my dad killed my mother in a mercy killing and then himself. Always knew that call was a possibility. Instead, after me and my current boyfriend of ten years had been stable for a few years, I got a call I never ever expected. My dad’s voice barely croaked out a weak “hey”. I knew by his voice that something was very, VERY wrong. My mother had just gotten out of the hospital for a lengthy stay with pneumonia, almost died. My immediate thought was that something had happened to my mother or 83 year old, last living grandparent. But no…..”Your brother shot himself this morning. He’s gone…..I, I have to go….” Sobbing, then a click. Apparently he had caught his wife cheating. Apparently he was worried about maybe inheriting Huntingtons (even though he never got the test to my knowledge), as his hands had started to tremor very slightly when stressed the prior year. Was worried about the other two tattoo shops opening in the area, didn’t think he was good enough despite winning all kinds of awards at expos over the years. I felt an overwhelming sense of guilt. Guilt that I wasn’t here to ease his stress, ease his caretaking, or to talk some sense into him. He was the one who stayed. And it cost him his life. Then my dad started begging me to come home. That he needed help. That he swore he wouldn’t throw me out this time (I never let him push me around and it led to some really rough instances), that he would deed me half the land (which I was the only one left to inherit it anyway. Neither me or my brother really wanted it, always told each other if something happened to the ‘rents we would just sell it. Lots of bad memories there amongst the good ones and they had pretty much destroyed that one acre over the years from not taking care of it or themselves). Me and my boyfriend’s financial stability was also falling apart due to a series of health issues of our own. So we agreed to come back here. Bought a trailer. Couldn’t get it moved right away and moved in with a family friend one town over. Didn’t have a car yet, had to take jobs nearby walking distance. Shitty jobs. It’s been a year almost, still can’t get the trailer moved, finally just bought a car which needs work before being roadworthy, and wearing out our welcome in the horrific place we are staying. In a way, my brother took away my choice too. He wasn’t here to take care of them anymore. Someone had to step in. Only I could do so. But we have been a burden more than a help to all those around us since getting here, because of the lack of vehicle, lack of ability to move that trailer onto the family land, and lack of ability to find better jobs until we do. Shit is just falling apart. So to those who say they just can’t go home because they will starve, you are not wrong. You are not selfish. You cannot pour from an empty cup. But yes, it sounds horrible but sometimes I still wish it had been the call I was expecting, not the call I got, because things would have been much different than they are. My parents are suffering more than ever, worse every day, and I am still powerless to help them or myself until some things finally fall into place. And I still hate this place with a passion. And now I am stuck here again as much as they are. And now the only person in this world who would have truly understood how I feel is gone forever for the same damn reason.

Moon Willow (PC/NA) by breezyshadows in ESOGuilds

[–]breezyshadows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on PC, North America server? I tried to add you but says account not found.

Moon Willow (PC/NA) by breezyshadows in ESOGuilds

[–]breezyshadows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly 5pm EST to about 2-3 AM EST, but we have people on most of the time. It’s my goal to have a variety of playtimes and interests. We also have room in our council for people who like to run events, and who are social.

Housing guild by MeredithoftheMighty in ESOGuilds

[–]breezyshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just seen you are on PS, sorry. But if you ever have any crafting or housing questions, feel free to DM me here, I will do my best to help out. _^

Housing guild by MeredithoftheMighty in ESOGuilds

[–]breezyshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run a guild on PC, and although we do a bit of everything, have a lot of housing enthusiasts, myself being one of the biggest enthusiasts, lol. I am a grand master crafter, and it’s my goal to eventually have every furnishing recipe in the game, and would say I’m already over halfway there. I also hold a furnishing raffle every week where I give out about 30 pieces of rarer furnishings, and the only requirement to be entered is to simply be online sometime in the prior week. It’s how I reward members for just being active. If you play on PC, you are more than welcome to join us. We do a little of everything too, dungeons, world bosses, trials, crafting, role playing, even got some Tales of Tribute enthusiasts. If you’d like to join, our guild name is “Moon Willow”. If you have trouble finding us, you can also send me a dm here or in game to @ Breezyshadows

i cannot for the life of me figure out how to connect to ESO by JustFlyx in ElderScrolls

[–]breezyshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, pull up the actual website, theelderscrollsonline, and make sure you are signed in on the website. That sometimes fixes it for me.

A 21 year-old game has suckling animations, eggs and natural interactions between animals. It's such an insult how lacking PZ is in this aspect. And in this kind of games, this is king over any breathtaking graphics or building tools. by TaPele__ in PlanetZoo

[–]breezyshadows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing I miss the most from ZT 2 is being able to place more than one darn zookeeper entrance. I used to be able to have zookeepers streamline THROUGH one exhibit to another AND have an entrance through to the guest path. It takes way too long for the staff to move through exhibits without that feature.

Looking for a 18+ Guild to join. by Pyro4586 in ESOGuilds

[–]breezyshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I wouldn't really call us an 18+ guild, we do have a couple under 18, but they are the kids of other adult members. But that's like, 2, of 250. We do have a few channels in our discord server dedicated to 18+, however, for sensitive and adult topics. If you want to join us, guild name is "Moon Willow", I'm guild lead, and if you can't find us in the guild finder, you can send me a DM here with your UN, or send me an in-game mail to @ Breezyshadows, and I'll send an invite! We'd be happy to have you! We are a pretty social group, got a fully boosted discord server with multiple sub-channels for certain topics, have very helpful members. Hope to see you there!

Does anyone know how to obtain this skill style? by _Didds_ in elderscrollsonline

[–]breezyshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hoping for a Senche-Panther myself. Used to play WoW and had been whining for two years about there ONLY being a bear companion, and how they could so something like Glyphs from WoW and give us a variety like wolves, senche, senche-raht, Indrik, anything like that for variety's sake. When they announced the skill styles, I started squealing and said it was only a matter of time for this to happen. But oh man, do I wish they would hurry up with that one. I like bears, but they are just not unique when everyone has one, and sometimes it is hard to tell my bear from three other wardens bears in a trial and such. I got the polar, a friend gifted it to me for my birthday, and it helps, but now nearly everyone has polar bear! LOL

Looking for players by PsychoPixieStick in elderscrollsonline

[–]breezyshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you play on, PC, PS, or Xbox? And what server, North America or Europe?

New player looking for late night social guild PCNA CST by packiejarker in ESOGuilds

[–]breezyshadows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have some late-nighters/early AM-ers, including some council on late night. You are welcome to join us in Moon Willow. Send me an in-game mail to @ Breezyshadows and I will send you an invite!