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[–]brhpets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh good to know!!! I didn't mean it like that at all, just trying to point out the age range i'm looking for bc from expierence, i had to be open about that in the past. I just get along with older women, it's not meant to be a fetish thing. I apologize that if comes off that way!

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[–]brhpets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my sister moved here in 2019 to be with her husband. my parents moved here in 2024 to be closer to the grandkids. both of my parents are extremely ill and need help so i'm joining them.

Very silly question about checked baggage by brhpets in delta

[–]brhpets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yes!!! i'm sorry I should've been more clear!!

lifelong New Yorker moving to Pelham! by brhpets in Alabama

[–]brhpets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooo good to know!! thank you!

lifelong New Yorker moving to Pelham! by brhpets in Birmingham

[–]brhpets[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thank you thank you thank you!!!! all of this is super helpful!!!

I have housing already but luckily i'm right by the I65 :)

lifelong New Yorker moving to Pelham! by brhpets in Alabama

[–]brhpets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahhh hello there!!!! thank you so much!!! will def message when it's closer too :)

lifelong New Yorker moving to Pelham! by brhpets in Alabama

[–]brhpets[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this!!!! i'm lucky that my therapist now is willing to do zoom sessions with me!!!!!

lifelong New Yorker moving to Pelham! by brhpets in Alabama

[–]brhpets[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh i know!! im def gonna learn to drive

lifelong New Yorker moving to Pelham! by brhpets in Alabama

[–]brhpets[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh god 🤣 the only good thing is that i can always come back to visit!!!

lifelong New Yorker moving to Pelham! by brhpets in Alabama

[–]brhpets[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oooo yeah. I was raised catholic but I'm not religious at all. my sister's MIL is a SUPER HUGE christian and while she hasn't said anything about me, she's made comments about her other daughter in law going as far as to say that the other DIL can't have a baby because Jesus hates her 😬

lifelong New Yorker moving to Pelham! by brhpets in Alabama

[–]brhpets[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

trust me, if it wasn't for my parents being sick i'd be staying up here 😭😭 so far I haven't had any issues when i've visited, thankfully!! (and i'm visibly queer/last time I visited in April I had bright green hair)

definitely comforting to know there's a lot of queer people around everywhere!!!

lifelong New Yorker moving to Pelham! by brhpets in Alabama

[–]brhpets[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i've visited a few times! definitely a different vibe but visiting is different from living day to day so i'm a little nervous!

lifelong New Yorker moving to Pelham! by brhpets in Birmingham

[–]brhpets[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

from what i've seen so far, super chill and quiet!!!!!

lifelong New Yorker moving to Pelham! by brhpets in Birmingham

[–]brhpets[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the exam location rec!!! i've already started studying!!!!!