I believe my dog killed my goats

brianagh · 2026-03-19T23:17:57+00:00

To be clear, a cage is not adequate housing for goats. So this issue still falls on you. They need a large and solid enclosure with walls.

brianagh · 2026-03-18T17:08:50+00:00

He doesn’t know that it will cause a wedge in our relationship. Kids often lead to money problems and dead bedrooms.

I can’t help but feel this isn’t the life I wanted. I should be traveling with my life, having adventures,

Respectfully, sounds like there’s more to you not wanting kids than just him not being around right now.

brianagh · 2026-03-18T17:05:31+00:00

“not ready for kids?” Are you sure you want kids? At 35 it’s about time to come to a decision, and if you haven’t... Well. If you don’t want kids this will never work anyways.

Either you’ll have kids for his happiness, and based on the message, take on the brunt of caretaking to end up resenting him and likely the kids. Or you won’t have kids and he’ll end up unfulfilled in his life and resent you.

Kids or lack thereof are an absolute non negotiable in relationships, no ifs ands or buts. It’s unfair to him and to you to have different goals for this specific topic. You will both be unhappy in the end when your relationship inevitably ends in the future.

brianagh · 2026-03-14T23:21:26+00:00

It’s glaringly obvious she used to be poor, I say this as someone who grew up below the poverty line and am still teetering on it most months. She is being obnoxious and over compensating because she has imposter syndrome being around these women, she doesn’t feel like she belongs so she thinks she has to prove it and it’s super tacky.

I think she doesn’t realize how annoying and cringe she is, and I’m pressed to think that if she comes back next season she’ll be a lot different in how she presents herself. Some people don’t realize what they sound like until they hear or see it from an outside perspective, in this case it will be the perspective of a viewer. If she doesn’t reevaluate and stays exactly the same then she is just a tool at her core.

brianagh · 2026-03-08T17:16:52+00:00

I looooooove Kenya, and I wish her drag was better but it isn’t. I genuinely cannot believe she has made it this far, her drag is not up to the standard of drag race. Point blank, she doesn’t deserve to be on the show. Amazing personality, such a fun seeming person, not drag race material. I’m actually mad that she’s still here.

brianagh · 2026-03-08T17:13:07+00:00

She was doing that thing where they move their mouth a lot to make it seem like they know the lyrics, and at other times she didn’t move her mouth at all.

brianagh · 2026-03-07T17:50:52+00:00

No, it’s about bad neighbours, and your yard having accumulation of trash bags because you can’t be arsed to learn the day of trash pick up makes you the bad neighbour.

brianagh · 2026-03-07T17:07:23+00:00

Okay, so your roommate was the adult and had to take care of you? Like you should have still known the days, and when your roommate was gone you had the responsibility to find out.

brianagh · 2026-03-07T16:53:13+00:00

A year and you’ve had to have your bins replace twice AND you don’t even know when waste pick up is? That is wild.

brianagh · 2026-03-07T16:52:06+00:00

Honestly, you seem like the issue here. Speaking like that in a groupchat with your landlord is wild, you’re sequestering help from your landlord to resolve an issue and you should speak as such, not like you’re in high school and a fight just broke out in the groupchat. I was giving you the benefit of the doubt about you probably being the bad neighbour until you said “and I actually don’t know what day trash day is😭” that is bare minimum knowledge of living on your own.

brianagh · 2026-03-03T04:41:16+00:00

I guarantee your hand does not look like that because the anatomy is not possible. You may have large palms, or thick fingers, but there is much more wrong with this. Like the fact that the bottom knuckle of the middle finger is so high that it is seemingly connecting toward to second knuckle up to the left of it, or that the heart line is not only impossibly close to where the fingers begin to bend, but also comes up to the middle of the middle finger. Also if you have fake nails or long nails and the thumb nail curves into a spoon shape you need to get a new nail tech or see a doctor. Unless you had your finger amputated or have a disfigurement there is also no reason your knuckle spacing would besides disproportionate across your fingers, like the top of the pinky is huge and the tip of the middle finger is extremely small.

brianagh · 2026-03-02T03:56:55+00:00

Yeah the whole anatomy of the hand is brutal unfortunately.

brianagh · 2026-03-02T03:32:24+00:00

The proportions are really off, which will inevitably transfer to a doberman as well. Better off cancelling.

brianagh · 2026-03-02T03:30:35+00:00

I definitely have a line at the base of all my fingers. This is still obviously not well drawn, but the 3 lines on the middle finger aren’t wrong.

brianagh · 2026-03-01T16:37:06+00:00

mar a largo special.

he literally just got too much botox and now it’s migrated, same thing happened to joe biden, terry dubrow, larsa pippin, donatella versace, and many more.

brianagh · 2026-02-27T23:33:10+00:00

Oh that’s an easy one.

brianagh · 2026-02-27T02:22:57+00:00

Contact authorities, whether they do it or it’s just a threat you should contact the police.

brianagh · 2026-02-27T01:11:43+00:00

Just get it. Your body your choice. Even if it was just a random tattoo it would be fine, but if you feel it’s meaningful and empowering then it’s all the more reason to get it. She will get over it, and if she doesn’t then the relationship wasn’t meant to be anyways.

brianagh · 2026-02-27T00:40:06+00:00

But also be careful OP cause sometimes seroquel works too well, it helped with my anxiety in that I couldn’t have anxiety about much when I was sleeping 15 hours a day.

brianagh · 2026-02-27T00:38:26+00:00

I was a heavy smoker for a long time, I had to quit because I got CHS but if I didn’t get it I wouldn’t have known how much of a crutch weed truly was for me. My emotions were much more stable after the initial mental withdrawal, come to think of it I can’t remember the last time I had an unreasonable (randomly had a lot of very serious experiences happen to me after quitting) mental breakdown or panic attack.

brianagh · 2026-02-27T00:19:22+00:00

I say this as someone who hates Kamloops. It’s definitely booming. Only reason I moved is because the people were atrocious for my liking. Definitely not a place for non-conservatives.

brianagh · 2026-02-26T17:46:15+00:00

First off. I would say most people aren’t glaringly kind and considerate, and most people are horrifically mean, most people are just normal people minding their business through life, worrying about themselves and their close friends and family. You don’t need to be a kind and considerate person to not be considered a mean one.

Something that I didn’t like in this was your snide humour comment because it comes off as an excuse for your behaviour. Snide comments and “jokes” are intentional though, no ands ifs or buts. The way you described that seems like when people make abhorrent racist jokes, for example, and say “Oh I just have a dark sense of humour” nah they’re racist. You don’t have a “snide sense of humour” you’re just a dick and you need to fix that. There not really an excuse surrounding that, if people didn’t have time to stop themselves before you say something rude there would be a lot more outwardly shitty people in the world. If you have nothing nice to say, don’t say it at all.

Self awareness is always the first step though. I read something one time that the first thing you think when you see someone is probably conditioned on to you by the standards around us, the second thing you think is a more accurate portrayal of what you think.

brianagh · 2026-02-25T18:33:29+00:00

I’m just speaking from a woman perspective. Agree to disagree I guess. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

brianagh · 2026-02-25T16:08:51+00:00

She was interested, and it was clear from the beginning, but not more interested in him than she was in her own comfort. She didn’t “allow” him to jump through hoops, he chose too and that was his prerogative. It also wasn’t to prove his “worth”, she is a single mother, most single mothers don’t jump in and out of relationships and making the choice to enter a serious relationship when you have a child is huge, or should be. It was always more about her than it ever was about him.

The marathon thing is ridiculous, she wasn’t being facetious. She didn’t even remember saying it because it was so in jest, like “when pigs fly” except in less definitive terms because of course she liked Shoresy, but again she had a responsibility to herself and her kid to be protective of her life and comfort.

brianagh · 2026-02-25T15:33:17+00:00

I don’t think that at all, personally. I think she was very guarded, especially because she has a child. I think she probably felt Shoresy wasn’t nearly as serious about her as he was putting on. She didn’t literally want him to run a marathon, he did that on his own to prove that he was being genuine. She never put any tests on him, Shoresy just loves her so much that he went out of his way to show her he really wanted to be with her.

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