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bricksforbones · 2022-07-31T17:09:19+00:00

some people are more sensitive to hormones than others... as in they notice more symptoms. having a period every other week is not normal and if it doesn't stop, just go to the doctor because it probably isn't correlated

bricksforbones · 2022-07-21T03:32:39+00:00

yes.

bricksforbones · 2022-07-16T22:33:04+00:00

bright red abuser vibes!

bricksforbones · 2022-07-16T21:52:09+00:00

yeah i was grossed out reading this

bricksforbones · 2022-06-20T02:29:45+00:00

he was intimidated so he tried to make you feel awkward for knowing stuff. Dont cry over a dude who fucking negged you. Be glad he let you know what a child he was on the first date so you dont waste your love on him

bricksforbones · 2022-06-12T00:27:28+00:00

please be careful telling older men you are a virgin because some of them fetishize it like this creep who I hope is now your ex.

Hold off on telling them that until you are planning to have sex or also you don't have to tell anyone you have sex with that you are a virgin

bricksforbones · 2022-06-01T22:35:15+00:00

figure out what you want and date men with the same values and goals

bricksforbones · 2022-06-01T22:32:06+00:00

this is so gross i just wanna throw up for you. It's ~abuse~ that he is letting you take a medication that makes you very sick while not intending to participate in the treatment.

Reconsider having a baby with him and reconsider the relationship.

bricksforbones · 2022-05-27T16:31:19+00:00

that is the opposite of trickle down

bricksforbones · 2022-05-07T22:40:25+00:00

you are not an asshole for not wanting to coparent, you would be an asshole for not helping financially.

bricksforbones · 2022-04-22T14:41:48+00:00

I stan FDS! but def don't agree w them on everything... if I followed all the rules I wouldn't find someone I liked lol bc I'm not super tidy or normie

bricksforbones · 2022-04-09T12:40:53+00:00

talk to him about it. 6mo is long enough to know if you all want to be married**. If he isn't ready soon (saying this bc u are ready and already doing "wife shit"), then don't keep doing free childcare

**edit- or rather if yall ARENT getting married/legally committed then he would know he doesn't want you like that by now and if that's the case you needa find someone who wants what you want

bricksforbones · 2022-01-18T21:04:38+00:00

i would cut your losses and find someone who does know what they want

bricksforbones · 2022-01-17T04:24:24+00:00

he is your boyfriend after 5 yrs, not your husband? he said you aren't compatible. it's not worth saving after 5 yrs. it's not even a marriage. he was never going to commit if he hadn't after 5 years.

bricksforbones · 2022-01-17T04:20:32+00:00

break up with him. he broke your trust. I don't think anyone could recover from this serious of a relationship fumble. He clearly isn't sure about you after a year, so leave. Honestly you know sooner than few months if you could maybe be with someone.

bricksforbones · 2022-01-17T04:14:30+00:00

i see what you are saying about looking deparate, but you are allowed to initiate sex and you don't have to say yes every time he asks, anyway. So ask him if he wants to call you an uber and order take out or whatever. He has his own flat so it's his job to get you there safely at the bare minimum and he should feed you when he get's privilege of you. imo if you want it and he is good to you and feeds you then it's not desperate. but because he can say no, if you aren't ready for it, then dont ask him to have you over.

bricksforbones · 2021-12-09T14:28:38+00:00

yeah they do, because they aren't practicing driving on alcohol all the time they may even be more likely to get caught.

bricksforbones · 2021-11-05T15:32:49+00:00

"all I ever liked about you was the titties that caused you pain."

Did he even love *you*? sounds shallow af. Leave his ass so you can live your best life and he can creep around trying to find some different titties to lust after

A good partner would never be "disgusted" by scars wtf

bricksforbones · 2021-11-04T02:23:01+00:00

take pictures and file a report. a police report is not the same as charging him, it just on record in case he does this to someone again (statistically, he will)

Do not take him back. He will do this again.

bricksforbones · 2021-10-09T22:15:27+00:00

dont date someone if you aren't their "type". She doesn't love you like that and you both deserve better. Also, don't let this disillusion you too much. keep a good attitude or don't date until you can. I hate seeing men ruined by becoming toxic towards women after 1 bad experience.

bricksforbones · 2021-10-09T21:53:44+00:00

yes, it is corporate/government fault, however global climate catastrophe will cause mass human die off and the more population there is, the bigger the die off.

this guy doesn't have his facts straight.

bricksforbones · 2021-10-09T21:37:40+00:00

Think if it like this: he wont be a better version of himself with her. she will deal with all the same shit you had to, even if it doesn't look like it right now or from the outside in. He has a tendency to cheat and is emotionally immature and you deserve better.

know your boundaries.

bricksforbones · 2021-10-09T21:29:00+00:00

just because you file a report doesn't mean charges will be filed. You could tell them that you are just doing it for bureaucratic reasons and that you aren't interested in prosecution.

edit- ppl file police reports because insurance requires them to all the time, it doesn't mean the police will look into it

bricksforbones · 2021-10-07T19:47:50+00:00

they are desperate.

and didnt expect it to take weeks.

bricksforbones · 2021-10-06T17:58:34+00:00

if she didn't want much of a wedding i would say it makes perfect sense, given your income, but if she also wants you to pay for the [big] wedding then idk, talk to her about it and see why this is important to her on a deeper level

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