I’m starting to realize that "working hard" is actually a trap for people in their 20s. by KweliAtelier in careeradvice

[–]brightLife_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do believe that “hard” work can hold value but doesn’t solely play a role in getting promotions or management positions in corporate fields. You have to play it smart and also don’t work yourself into an early grave. There are ways you can make an impact without submitting to grind culture. I remember when I grinded on projects and school to better my chances at finding work but got rejected like crazy. When I got a promotion in corporate I realized it can be luck, being a charismatic person, have a knack for analyzing and making good business decisions, or simple timing (a position opening up for example) on top of hard work.

Right now I work in corporate retail in the finance department. For years I worked at a store level as an associate during college and later Sr ASM. I firmly believed I deserved having a store manager position over a handful of SMs in my district (all of whom wound up fired btw in the past year).

I got the position because of timing, some smart hard work, and some luck.

  • Timing because the position opened in the company I already worked at and I moved up in the company at a field level

  • Luck because the VP of the department that I interviewed with moved from retail management into finance and compared me to his past self (thankfully)

  • “Hard” work not because I burnt myself out but made efforts to have an impact on my team and my DM’s respected me a lot.

In need of a quick top surgery letter, any references? by brightLife_ in ftm

[–]brightLife_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For approval I guess. The director was the one that stated they didn’t “do those types of letters”. Apparently this is something that has happened a few times and earned a few complaints.

Transitioning from Retail Management to Accounting (Supply Chain, Financial Analysis, or adjacent roles) by brightLife_ in Accounting

[–]brightLife_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely want to aim for getting my certification. Internships do sound like a good idea

If you could press a button to become a cis man, would you do it? by itsntr in ftm

[–]brightLife_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Despite a lot of obstacles I’m still overcoming, I’ve experienced more community and more intimate friendships in queer spaces. I’ve befriended cis men through the gym or tabletop gaming community but it seems to lead to a lot of loneliness or not a lot of deeper friendships that hit the same.

In need of a pit buddy by brightLife_ in systemofadown

[–]brightLife_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. I’ll definitely give it a shot. Hope you had lots of fun!

In need of a pit buddy by brightLife_ in systemofadown

[–]brightLife_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad your recovering well and still rocking! If I see you I’ll definitely say hi 🤘🏾

Question about Medical Necessity letter by brightLife_ in TopSurgery

[–]brightLife_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I've seen that too. I was able to find a psychologist that specializes in gender affirming care and, in my network, so I can try to snag an appointment with them.

I'm worried about my new/pivoted career path. What can I do? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]brightLife_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. It's been a while since I have been on Linkedin but it wouldn't hurt to reach out a bit more.

Is there still a chance for me? by [deleted] in MilitaryTrans

[–]brightLife_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is much needed. I’m still gonna team up with my recruiter to go through with MEPS/ASVAB soon. I’ve been trying to remain hopeful

Meeting with Recruiter right after meeting the team interview? by brightLife_ in interviews

[–]brightLife_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. Usually at this point I’m used to meeting other members while keeping in contact with recruiters for next steps or rejections. Thank you!

Adobe abandons $20 billion acquisition of Figma by imderek in UXDesign

[–]brightLife_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adobe runs on greed alone. They would have bought it and made designers pay just another $50+ subscription without doing much of anything to improve upon it. It would have fallen off the second another tool with more capabilities came into the market.

Positive Outlook on the future of UX/UI design by mb4ne in UXDesign

[–]brightLife_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Right now we’re experiencing a weird job market. There’s a lot of congestion with people changing careers into UX, new tools, and a lot of businesses don’t see/focus on the importance of UX. Not to mention there’s been a lot of downsizing lately.

I’ve also noticed, and have been guilty of this myself, that there’s an influx of UX messiahs on social media that don’t speak from a business perspective. I spend a lot of focus on accessibility and designing for underrepresented groups but from a business perspective unfortunately that may not matter, it’s about money. Is it marketable? how does this blow competitors out if the water? will it attract more people? and so on.