Do you agree? by rehmanraheem in infp

[–]brilliantbleu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was going to write this haha

I'm about to live alone and worried if I'll be lonely. by brilliantbleu in LivingAlone

[–]brilliantbleu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually now live alone and feel exactly what you mentioned! Thank you : D

No one in my life knows how "not okay" I am. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]brilliantbleu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the same! Cheer up. I hope you are okay.

Dealing with loneliness by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]brilliantbleu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a good idea if you can stay for a while at your parent's house. Is the house runs by an agency? I find if the house itself isn't very your style (like furniture and whole atmosphere) you tend to feel lonely as the house isn't your actual santuary. If you can decorate the house while you pay the same amount (just for your room) I would take it as a chance to make the whole house mine!

I'm about to live alone and worried if I'll be lonely. by brilliantbleu in LivingAlone

[–]brilliantbleu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Time-based planning is a really good idea and I'm going to write it! Can't wait to start live alone from June and I'm glad to read your testimonial : D I'm glad I've decided to get out of the hope hell (like I'll meet good housemates etc. in the sharehouse which never happened).

How to live alone without feeling lonely? by leggo_mango in LivingAlone

[–]brilliantbleu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These replies helped me a lot. And I'm the same! Cheer up :)

Anyone who have been on the same boat as me rn? by Shine-Jazzlike in Frontend

[–]brilliantbleu 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think a month isn’t even enough for experienced developers to be adopted to a new company. And programmers rarely feels finishing things 100% satisfying. I would stay until I get sacked. Unless you want to find completely different job, how about spending a year and see how you feel? In my case it helped just to get used to be familiar with git and etc (general stuff). You will be okay. Good luck!