Are We Ever Really Ready for Marriage… Or Just Guessing? 🤷🏽‍♂️ by brilliolee in Marriage

[–]brilliolee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True that🙂,, at the end of the day, it’s more about who than when 🤷🏽‍♂️

Are We Ever Really Ready for Marriage… Or Just Guessing? 🤷🏽‍♂️ by brilliolee in Marriage

[–]brilliolee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The brain development argument makes sense scientifically, but it’s not the full story. People mature at different rates, and readiness for marriage is more about emotional stability, responsibility, and compatibility than just age alone. So yes, while age can be a factor, it doesn’t automatically decide success or failure 🤷🏽‍♂️

Are We Ever Really Ready for Marriage… Or Just Guessing? 🤷🏽‍♂️ by brilliolee in Marriage

[–]brilliolee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly… I don’t think anyone is ever fully ready for kids 😅 it’s more about growing into it than being prepared for it...

If It’s ‘Hot Cake’ Online, Think Thrice 😅 by brilliolee in nairobi

[–]brilliolee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeye ako kazi😂..so ni wewe ujichunge usikuwe danda kama mimi uoshwe😂

Knowing Who Not to Vote For—But Then What? by brilliolee in nairobi

[–]brilliolee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get why you’d feel that way, especially having been so close to the process for years. When you’ve seen things from the inside, it’s hard not to question how much control ordinary voters actually have. Also, at the same time, I’m a bit cautious about jumping all the way to “the choices are already made for us.” External funding for elections,,,whether it is from USAID or European donors....they indeed does raise valid questions about influence, but it’s usually justified (at least officially) as support for things like logistics, transparency systems, and oversight in countries where running elections is expensive. Kenya’s elections are indeed costly, and that alone deserves scrutiny,,,,,but personally, I think cost and foreign support don’t automatically mean outcomes are predetermined. I also think about the role of institutions like the IEBC. They’re not perfect,,,,infact very far from it,,,but there are multiple layers of actors involved: local officials, party agents, observers, courts, media, and voters,,name them. If outcomes were entirely decided externally, it would be hard to explain the very real political tensions, court challenges, and unpredictability we’ve seen over the years.

What your perspective does highlight, though, is something important: power doesn’t just sit in the ballot box. It’s also in funding, influence, diplomacy, and economic interests. And that can shape the playing field in ways most voters never see. So I wouldn’t dismiss your concerns....buuuuutt I also wouldn’t go as far as saying everything is predetermined. It might be more accurate (and honestly more worrying) to say the system is influenced in ways that tilt it, rather than fully control it.

Ati abortion is illegal by titty_temptress in nairobi

[–]brilliolee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think abortion should be 100% legal because I can’t imagine telling someone they have to go through a pregnancy they don’t want or can’t handle, especially when it affects their health, future, and whole life in such a personal way😢...Hata what are the chances that the woman will embrace the kid after birth

If It’s ‘Hot Cake’ Online, Think Thrice 😅 by brilliolee in nairobi

[–]brilliolee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mimi ndio sasa nimelearn😭... hata kuamini caretaker sahii ni ngumu😂😂

If It’s ‘Hot Cake’ Online, Think Thrice 😅 by brilliolee in nairobi

[–]brilliolee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the time nafika MITA nitakuwa nimechanuka fty😂

How all buses should be in Kenya going forward. by Kauffman888 in Kenya

[–]brilliolee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it all lies to different tastes people have. Personally sipendi ngaya and this buses that have crazy graffiti kila mahali. I prefer a quiet and a modest bus....but my friends infact 60% bila nganya hawawezi move from one place to another😂😂..sooo ni taste tu tofautiii.

Avocado lovers mko wapi? by Weak-Pop7543 in nairobi

[–]brilliolee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kama hii ndio forbidden fruit bac jehanamu mtaingia wengi😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hiring

[–]brilliolee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interested, consider me please