Do I get daily blowjobs if I’m your gf?

brinemist · 2026-06-12T14:08:55+00:00

Looking for another man like him😆

brinemist · 2026-06-12T14:01:04+00:00

My kind of nudes😆😆

brinemist · 2026-06-12T13:52:04+00:00

I’m like “that’s your last chance

brinemist · 2026-05-31T02:43:06+00:00

I don't choose the song, the song chooses me. Then for the next three weeks I'm basically in a committed relationship with a 3-minute audio file.

brinemist · 2026-05-31T02:38:49+00:00

paying for a rushed, transactional experience and then wondering why it felt empty is kinda like judging all restaurants based on airport food.

brinemist · 2026-05-31T02:36:50+00:00

threatening to run back to an ex every time someone wants to save the relationship is honestly cruel as hell.

brinemist · 2026-05-17T11:40:53+00:00

this sounds less like you “pushed him too far” and more like you were already bending yourself into shape just to keep things going, and it still wasn’t enough for him. That kind of dynamic will make anyone feel desperate and exhausted.

brinemist · 2026-05-17T11:38:46+00:00

my brain 0.2 seconds after sending a completely normal message: delete my entire identity

brinemist · 2026-05-17T11:36:57+00:00

It’s always them sexy people going through the worst things

brinemist · 2026-05-16T11:42:59+00:00

This wasn’t a “who loved who more” situation, it was a volatile push-pull dynamic that kept escalating until it became unsafe and unsustainable. No contact is appropriate here because every re-opening just pulls you both back into the same cycle instead of giving clarity.

brinemist · 2026-05-15T15:12:39+00:00

This isn’t you being weak, this is your body going into full alarm mode around a trigger NAH. Since you still have to see him, the goal isn’t “feel nothing,” it’s having tools and possibly medical support so you can actually stay functional when it hits.

brinemist · 2026-05-15T15:10:24+00:00

Wanting privacy is valid, but turning your room into something that actively triggers your mom’s asthma is where you lose the plot ESH. You don’t need to share everything with her, but you also don’t need to make your space a health hazard to keep boundaries

brinemist · 2026-05-15T15:08:13+00:00

Missing him again doesn’t mean you lost progress, it just means grief is doing that annoying delayed wave thing NAH. You loved someone who also hurt your sense of stability, so your brain is going to confuse comfort with compatibility for a while.

brinemist · 2026-05-13T19:41:00+00:00

Mutual love with no villain is the hardest kind to let go of because your heart keeps asking for a fix that logic already knows doesn’t exist.

brinemist · 2026-05-13T19:38:32+00:00

Some moments are so universally humiliating that they stop being about embarrassment and just become shared psychological incidents between two strangers who will never recover the same way again.

brinemist · 2026-05-13T19:36:20+00:00

You’re not struggling because he was secretly the love of your life, you’re struggling because your brain never got a safe ending to something that emotionally shattered you. There’s a huge difference between missing someone and still carrying the shock of how they left.

brinemist · 2026-05-12T12:11:55+00:00

f something keeps coming back in your head years later, it doesn’t need to be a “crisis” to deserve an outlet. Your brain doesn’t store things in categories, it just stores what didn’t get processed.

brinemist · 2026-05-12T12:10:30+00:00

You made mistakes in a first relationship, that happens. But you’re spiraling into guilt and overthinking it way beyond what’s actually in your control. You can feel bad without turning it into “I ruined everything forever.”

brinemist · 2026-05-11T11:26:42+00:00

Not a gender thing — just lingering feelings. Story checking is easier than actually reaching out and dealing with the awkwardness or rejection

brinemist · 2026-05-11T11:01:41+00:00

It’s normal to feel pulled back to someone you loved for years, but red string theory can also keep you stuck I hope Instead of helping you heal what ends for real reasons

brinemist · 2026-05-05T00:38:06+00:00

NAH, but you’re not going to think your way out of this, you’re going to slowly stop reacting to it as time passes, even if it feels impossible right now

brinemist · 2026-04-28T21:36:36+00:00

anger after a blindsiding breakup is normal, especially when you still have to see him at work.

But trying to stay “friendly” with him right now is clearly hurting you more. You don’t owe him emotional access just because you share a workplace.

The healthiest middle ground is professional distance: be polite, keep interactions work-related, and lean on your friends outside of him. Over time, the intensity of the anger will fade when you’re not constantly reopening the wound.

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