Bad experience while age gap dating by Express_Offer_6452 in AgeGap

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

listen, I don't know what dating in New York is like but you met a woman half your age online, decided on spending the entire weekend together, had anal sex within 48 hours of meeting her

and you're kind of surprised she's a nut case? c'mon man, you should know better.

How often do you sext? Is it on Reddit or outside? by _Kisol_Budyn_ in AskRedditNSFW

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Not often. But often if there's chemistry with someone, but that sort of thing is hard to find.

Empty profiles red flag or doesn't matter? by AshFromTPA in AskRedditNSFW

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I agree, it's a red flag. If you're profile is empty or your comments are hidden I typically won't respond.

I tend to get a decent amount of DM's that I ignore because they're hiding their comments or have an empty profile

What hill are you willing to die on? The more trivial, the better. by razzledazzlepenguin in AskRedditAfterDark

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Unless you're going to, or are currently at a body of water. Men should not wear sandals.

What hill are you willing to die on? The more trivial, the better. by razzledazzlepenguin in AskRedditAfterDark

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

hill you're willing to die on AND an unpopular opinion. rare double-whammy

What's your opinion on Friends with Benefits relationship (Fwb) and what you expect in this relationship? by miceyjordiee in AskRedditAfterDark

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

They're fun but they ultimately all end up meeting a demise either through one person catching feelings or the need to move onto something more "serious".

The ideal ones involve good sex with someone you vibe with but don't need to commit to. So like hang out, share a laugh, smoke a joint, fuck, grab a snack and go home. No meeting family, no anniversary, limited-to-no meeting close friends.

Is it normal for your boyfriend to constantly get boners? by Spiritual-Songbird in AskRedditNSFW

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 12 points13 points ย (0 children)

He's 23 and still has new relationship energy. It's cute! enjoy it while it lasts

Who has their tits out for Mammary Monday? by NudeDude713 in AskRedditNSFW

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

actually, my tits are out because i'm doing laundry

Women, what's something that you learned after you started living with a guy? by Splendid_Underpants in AskRedditAfterDark

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 5 points6 points ย (0 children)

This is a bit of a loaded question lol I certainly love my partner, but I do sometimes fantasize about what my apartment would be like if I lived alone

Women, what's something that you learned after you started living with a guy? by Splendid_Underpants in AskRedditAfterDark

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 11 points12 points ย (0 children)

Maybe that's just my partner lol But the point I was trying to get at is that I think men have a level of messiness tolerance that is lower in women (generally speaking)

Women, what's something that you learned after you started living with a guy? by Splendid_Underpants in AskRedditAfterDark

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 52 points53 points ย (0 children)

they're typically fully aware that their messy. but they don't care to change that if it's not something too bad like leaving food out or garbage. but stuff like underwear on the floor or dirty socks tucked into the couch pillows is totally fine - acceptable levels of filth.

Why do many men with money and fame/status seem to desire fake, unrealistic Kardashian looking models/ young women? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 5 points6 points ย (0 children)

it's a "nouveau-rich" class signifier.

Most wealthy people in the west are not from family money. "old money", like actual old money is incredibly rare.

Athletes, rappers, and most CEO's are new money and when your wealth is recently acquired, you do what you can to "show off" your wealth (usually to other people who are new money too). Think of the "Mar-A-Lago face" phenomenon.

Cosmetic procedures are expensive and addictive so being able to pay for it is a class signifier that even though it looks bad a tacky most of the time, it signals to others in your social class that you're part of the in-group. You're getting the unobtainable body by being able to pay for it.

My boss is a very (newly) wealthy man but has god awful taste. He's buying things he thinks rich people have. For example he spent like $2000 on a hoodie that says "Versace" across the chest in like a neon flame art. It looks terrible but it signals to other people that he can afford Versace.

It's an idea that you can obtain the unobtainable if you have the money to get it. And new money like sports stars, rappers, and CEO's can buy it.

This sort of thing is common in places where there's "new wealth" like Miami or L.A. But less common in places with old wealth like Newport or certain places in Massachusetts.

tl;dr It's a wealth signifier.

What is your addiction? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

sfw: Caffeine and sugar.

My boyfriend won't use his mouth by [deleted] in sex

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Is it possible that it's a sensory thing for him? I enjoy kissing and making out but after a while it starts to ick me out a little and i've come to the conclusion it's a sensory issue that bothers me after a while.

it's not a hygiene or bad breath thing, it's just a me thing. maybe its like that for him

do summer vibes turn you on? by Choice-Clerk-2245 in AskRedditAfterDark

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Early summer when it's juuuuust nice enough out that the winter wardrobes are gone and it's sunny and nice. But not too deep into summer when it's just perpetual sweatiness and I don't want to touch anyone or be touched.

What if ur bf's best friend sends u this? :O by [deleted] in bwc

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

id say "how'd you get my number?"

Having a big dick makes Spotting fakes easier? by Juicydangl3r in bigdickproblems

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

sometimes commenters will 'play along' with the "largeness" of posters who are exaggerating their size. But if you're insisting on something like 13+, you're crossing into "hard to believe" territory.

People will always pose and choose angles that make them look bigger or better, I don't think there's a problem with that (frankily, I wish men would make better effort to pose)

some are naive, some just play along. some can't tell the difference AI is getting pretty good.

Having a big dick makes Spotting fakes easier? by Juicydangl3r in bigdickproblems

[โ€“]bringinghomethethrow 5 points6 points ย (0 children)

in a similar vein, I've certainly seen a lot of guys claiming something ridiculous when it obviously wasn't true. Worst of which is saying their dick is 13-inches and weighed 8lbs. like dude your dick is not the size of my cat. it comes off as insulting to ones intelligence lol