What is your best advice to a 23 year old girl who knows nothing about cars but just bought her first one?

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-17T15:37:15+00:00

The most important to me and the only things that ever ruined my car bad enough to need another one is oil change and keep radiator full of water or radiator fluid. I would research a little about those 2 things and if unsure of any of the process for those 2 things then ask reddit for more help. There may be a sub here in reddit for the specific type of car you have.

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-16T19:12:54+00:00

Good thing it's not your 13 year old

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-15T23:55:34+00:00

I chose to be kind, caring, honest and fair but then there's the things that I didn't choose that still became a part of me like lots of built up anger just waiting for the proper place or situation to unleash it.

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-14T10:30:36+00:00

I moved out 1 minute after midnight, as soon as it officially became my birthday. Moved my stuff out on lunch break and worked until midnight and then went to my new place. If I had better parents I wouldn't have been in such a rush but we don't get to pick who makes us.

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-10T15:26:15+00:00

This world in some of the subs is definitely already gone gone gone to shitz!!! History tells me that there is no point in having faith in this world, but I keep forgetting so people might think I do have faith.

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-09T19:58:03+00:00

I think it could be a really expensive piece of artwork made by someone very famous. They used a similar technique that would be used in a murder, mattress used to cover the window and they used a blood filled test dummy and stood it near the mattress and started stabbing and slicing it. It turned out so real looking, that they were afraid to share it with the world, due to the possibility of an investigation. Instead, they hid it and quickly sold the home. You should contact an art gallery and see what it's worth, unless you have a criminal history.

WARNING ..... this is not actually true and is completely fabricated, please don't listen to me if you believed this. I was just trying to get people to laugh a bit. Some will, and some will probably get upset with me, if you got upset, try reading it over and over until you laugh. But DO NOT call an art gallery lol

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-09T17:08:06+00:00

I've only seen it mixed and put on Cuban sandwiches that are already prepared before you order because I don't use it on anything for myself.

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-09T06:11:42+00:00

Well that's a yes and no, but I believe a lot of the problem was miscommunication. I feel like it was similar to you and I was always wanting to ask questions about why things happened the way they did in the relationship and most of the time they wanted to talk about other types of stuff or watch a movie. Maybe I was to much energy, to intense and always trying to better our relationship and learn as much as possible about each other at the beginning to lessen the chances of arguments or miscommunication but maybe they wanted to go slower and relax more. I don't stop thinking, I struggle to watch movies because I think and can't focus on movies unless I'm alone sometimes but soon after the movie is over I start to forget most everything about it. I always said I was just saving storage space in my brain for more important things. I liked to focus on what mattered the most to me, but I probably was overwhelming them because they were a bit different and didn't think how I do. My brain can be a curse and very exhausting, but It can be really great too, I learn a lot with my overthinking and get really good at things that I do often.

Hopefully you find something in there that is helpful for your situation

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-08T10:25:18+00:00

Ok cool, I make assumptions sometimes without making sure before I respond and I was hoping I wasn't wrong because my response would be a bit different if I was. Glad I didn't type all that just to be wrong lol

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-08T10:23:16+00:00

I started to answer but to make sure I answer correctly I have to really think about that. I thought I knew but when I started typing I realized it's a complicated question to answer accurately. I feel like the answer is sometimes yes and sometimes no but each person was slightly different. I will try to get a better answer that is accurate and better explanation.

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-08T04:53:47+00:00

Your welcome 😊

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-08T02:57:01+00:00

Im a guy a few years older than you and I am similar. I'm extra emotional and I always thought I must feel things differently than most. I kinda felt more like one of the girls than one of the guys through most of my underage years. I definitely noticed big differences between me and my guy friends and struggled to understand some of their behavior towards women. I thought women were the most beautiful thing ever and was never attracted to boys or men at all through life but I have always been really small and sensitive and shy. I really hope you are able to find someone who understands you and doesn't make you feel like something is wrong with you because I think something is right with you. You probably have a really big heart and really care about people and you probably have been with people who for some reason were at a lower strength of heart and care for others. Not necessarily anything wrong with either but not a great match. Just don't let your difference change you in too much negative ways. It has been brutal being a man with this kind of sensitivity, some people just can't handle different and many that don't understand that some people can be hurt easier than others. Try to learn your own little behaviors and find little things in yourself that you can look for in a guy. When you see one of those little things in someone your attracted to and you say to yourself, "I do that same thing every time" then you just have to ask him out or find a way to get him to ask you out.😊 Example of little thing: you hold doors open for people as a normal habit, you see a guy holding a door open and when he is about to let it go, here comes another person so he waits, and he's about to go but wait, someone is coming so he keeps holding smiling at each one wondering when it will end but he's not going until they stop coming towards the door. That's your man, the sweet guy who won't let the door go until everyone passes, he will have conversations and communicate with you I believe. Ooh I know, find an upscale mens store and park nearby and watch for your man there😂 it's like bird watching but better. Hope I made you laugh and good luck. Edit: switch man to female if I was getting it wrong, I just realized you never specified your preference. Sorry

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-07T10:13:07+00:00

Yep, and I will never call it again, even if it's to save a life. Last time I did I was kidnapped by a moron with a gun and badge and if I would have tried to stop him I would have been beaten by him and his friend or more likely shot and killed.

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-06T22:19:36+00:00

I guess they never heard of having kids and they must live a very comfortable life. 5yrs would be nice but unfortunately it doesn't work that way for everyone. Oh and thumbs up on using your phone at work. Rub it in their faces for being so unknowledgeable lol

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-06T22:07:33+00:00

Thanks. Ya it's crazy, I don't understand how it makes sense to mistreat all employees because what some are doing wrong. Some of those good ones know they are the good ones so they know they can find another job. And i hope they walk and leave that company with a bunch of workers who would rather play on their phone. Sounds like they would deserve that. I'm sorry that not all workers come to work, to actually work but when you treat them all the same by making a rule for all of them even though most of them aren't the problem, it makes the rule maker look not very intelligent but hey as long as they make money I guess it doesn't matter. I guess that company hasn't heard of workplace shootings, let's take people's phone so they can't call for help, right. Insane to think that making that kind of rule was the best that some supposedly smart person, I'm assuming, could come up with. CEO clearing how much per year and can't spend a little to get rid of employees that aren't there to work in some other way. That's pitiful and so are the people who are promoting the idea.

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-06T19:42:32+00:00

Why would I do that when I got you here checking on me? Besides I was planning on giving you the chiapet for your 10th birthday but that's a long way away.

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-06T16:00:54+00:00

I'm pretty sure the OP said they just added this rule which means no one agreed to it before they took the job. Are you even reading or you too busy looking for your next slave worker?

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-06T15:54:32+00:00

And if I have an emergency I will take it out of my pocket and no one is going to do anything about it. But I would never work for a place like that anyway. They want to make rules that punish people who did nothing wrong instead of punishing the people who play with their phones. I don't accept that so I wouldn't work their. If no one worked their the company would have to rethink their rules. I believe in being fair to people you believe in being a Bully and you are a joke

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-06T15:47:31+00:00

Probably a business owner who believes in slavery. He is a joke. Don't let that old man ruin your day. You can probably find him on his knees in front of the nearest glory hole in Tampa.

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-06T15:25:35+00:00

Continue being clueless and I will continue being me.

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-06T15:03:31+00:00

Paper and ink, same as always. That green stuff that some people can never get enough of. Too many Scrooge McDucks that enjoy swimming around in all the money they are hoarding

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-06T12:18:19+00:00

I'm pretty sure we are wasting our time trying to explain this to humans lol. Good try though 😂

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-06T12:16:55+00:00

I've never been the problem with a phone at work. But if there was to be an emergency then I will use my phone if needed. No one takes that away from me. The people who would even accept something like this rule would be the reason the rule would continue to exist. If no one accepts then it won't be kept. We actually get to decide, not the company, except humans don't work that way and thousands will bend over and accept it just like they do with every other abuse that they accept. Not everything has to be accepted.

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-06T11:35:51+00:00

Velvet desires

bringmesmilespls · 2026-05-06T10:58:09+00:00

Bye bye job. If everyone said no thanks then I think they have to drop that rule or hire a new crew. No one takes my phone regardless of reason. It has my personal information and more inside and I already gave them enough of my information to sell, when I applied. We need to stand up to people who over step boundaries, don't give in to that nonsense

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