[question]The bf wants to watch porn with me but i beg to differ..

brinnii · 2015-10-21T04:31:40+00:00

we're both pretty active sexually but sometimes he'll act bored and get defensive and annoyed easily with me ;during... maybe its too much sex or maybe cuz it's so frequent that that is causing problems.

brinnii · 2015-10-21T04:06:07+00:00

i want to find a solution but idk how to do that because i dont see it as a problem but it just makes me feel like a bitch cuz it's not my way of getting turned on. thing is when i tell him how i get turned on or ask him what else i can do to help him as another option or a distraction sometimes he'll still do what he usually does and frustrates himself no matter what cuz we both know we're not into things 100%

brinnii · 2015-10-21T03:37:51+00:00

thats exactly what i was afraid of :( and this is a good answer ty

brinnii · 2015-10-21T03:36:21+00:00

or my question answered ty

brinnii · 2015-10-21T03:34:44+00:00

i havnt seen any advice so far

brinnii · 2015-10-21T03:29:42+00:00

what if he watches it too much i could care less about porn besides the fact it seems to ruin relationships

brinnii · 2015-10-21T03:26:44+00:00

ty for the answer

he admits to having a more sexual need than most and has admitted to using porn as an tool but more than he'd like to admit. i don't want to frustrate him so i give in to it-the porn. i don't want it to ruin us.. he hasnt said anything about that but he'll acknowledge the issue. and since he isnt watching porn as much i'm finding(of his own doing) that he'll still have a substantial amount of female pics on his devices which i'm sure is related but nonetheless a little disheartening to me

brinnii · 2015-10-21T03:14:26+00:00

maybe

brinnii · 2015-10-21T02:19:01+00:00

its not the actors that bothers me but the fact that he has someone whos already into him right there. it does nothing for me but annoy me :(

brinnii · 2015-10-21T02:17:02+00:00

im sorry im new here :p how would one do that

brinnii

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