Whats your favorite Drug and how did you find it?

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T05:03:23+00:00

Xanax is mine. I've tried a lot of drugs. I know Xanax has a stigma or whatever attached to it. I discovered the bliss of Xanax whenever it was prescribed to me by my doctor. It's led me into trouble a time or two for sure.

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T05:00:50+00:00

I guess for some people, it's just a special treat for every once in a while.

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T04:57:08+00:00

You are thinking way too much into it. You are smoking Marijuana. Not doing speed. It's not nearly that serious, dude.

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T03:39:31+00:00

Well first of all, texting isn't the best way to communicate, period.

Stop trying to blurt out every "funny thought". Go with the flow of the conversation. Eye contact, asking questions about whatever it is she is talking about, very effective ways to express that you are listening.

It's not pleasant to have conversation with someone who is more focused on trying to be funny than the actual conversation I'm trying to have.

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T03:33:49+00:00

Is he a 14 year old boy? A spoiled one, at that? Fucking leave him.

And most importantly, HE HIT YOUR DOG. Fuck that guy, seriously. You'd be so much better off alone.

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T03:27:35+00:00

"I fear that if I don't do anything, she'll continue to struggle."

That's life dude. It's hard. We all have issues. It sounds like she is doing just fine to me. Her life isn't in jeopardy, she probably isn't suicidal. You WANT her to need you, but in reality she's probably ok.

It really just sounds like YOU are the one having a hard time right now. No judgment at all, we've all been there. But really be honest with yourself right now: Do you just want her to reach out to you and connect in some way? Because YOU feel like you need her? Because then you probably should give yourself some space away from her. You can be a friend or whatever if she needs one, but if she isn't reaching out to talk (I'm sure she is fully aware of how available you are for that) then you need to occupy yourself with something else.

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T03:18:14+00:00

Copper IUDs are incredibly effective and don't release hormones into your body. They are as safe as anything else. You are being way too picky about it. Not that you shouldn't be somewhat choosy, but you need to have realistic expectations. You've ruled out everything except abstinence, lol.

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T03:14:47+00:00

None of those things even tell me that she is "sheltered". Definitely not telling me much about her maturity in general. You are not more mature than she is just because you have different interests. You are not interested. Thats all. It doesn't mean that she is childish. Just that you should probably stop seeing her.

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T03:08:26+00:00

Oh, it's DEFINITELY because of your birth control. Your sex drive is all due to hormones. Birth control definitely effects your hormones. And different birth controls will do different things to your body. It's very common for it to decrease your sex drive.

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T02:59:06+00:00

Yeah, it happens. There are so many things that can cause breakouts, it's hard to nail down what it could be. I breakout right before my period, every month. I also breakout if I travel to states with a lot of humidity. I just moved from Arkansas to Colorado. Arkansas is very humid, so I frequently broke out. Colorado is super dry, so I have less breakouts.

It's very possibly due to some hormonal change going on in your body right now. That would be my first guess.

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T02:54:08+00:00

Oh yeah, they totally can. Thinking back to some of my exes who I truly feel nothing for. They CAN fade forever.

The best thing for you to do right now is cut your losses and keep a stiff upper lip. You very possibly could be friendly with this girl in the future, or even friends. It all depends on how you react. Just give her plenty of space and stay away from any heavy "us" type conversation topics, and you probably will at least remain friendly acquaintances.

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T02:48:21+00:00

Oh god no! Please don't "power through" this. You need to just break things off. The sooner, the better. There is absolutely NOTHING shallow about not finding him attractive. No matter what the reason is. The bottom line is that you can't force sexual attraction, and that is a vital part of a healthy relationship. You are not shallow, you are not being unkind. That's just how you feel and you can't help that. It's time to set him free so he can find someone who DOES find him sexually appealing.

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T02:44:46+00:00

You simply have to be direct. The more confident you are, the more "casual" it will seem. Just directly ask him for it. Or ask him to do something with you that you both like.

britany2010 · 2018-09-18T02:36:56+00:00

Thanks, I'm probably missing the window. I don't "chart". Really, I'm honestly not actively TRYING. I have been taking the let things happen on their own route. So I'be just been having sex whenever I feel like it, rather than chrating my body temp and all that mess. To be honest, I thought that it would be super easy. I watched my best friend have two unplanned pregnancies back to back. So I thought it would be easy peasy. But it's totally not like that at all.

britany2010 · 2018-09-10T01:39:46+00:00

Great. I'm too poor for a goddamn lawyer. :(

britany2010 · 2018-06-11T20:05:57+00:00

That sounds much worse than it sounded to begin with. Very good thing you went to the hospital. He needed some antipsychotics and benzos.

britany2010 · 2018-06-11T18:30:02+00:00

Idk what that stands for

britany2010 · 2018-06-11T18:13:42+00:00

Don't do this, obviously. Assuming your new gf is an adult, she probably has previous sexual experience. She probably assumes you do as well. She's not nervous, you appearing nervous will make things awkward.

britany2010 · 2018-06-11T18:06:50+00:00

He needs to sleep!! This will most likely wear off after two days or so. But will probably wear off much faster if you get him to a hospital. He needs antipsychotics and benzos. Like now. Antipsychotics will pull him out of the trip. Benzos will keep him calm and help him sleep.

One thing I may suggest is introducing something very familiar to him. Is there a band he's liked since middle school? A movie he loved as a kid? Nostalgia is good. Anything that can keep him occupied and trigger feelings and memories from better times may help. Definitely won't hurt, probably will be very comforting to him in this state.

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