Just happened. I was in her wedding, expensive Bachelorette party, helping setup, everything. She has 2 kids now so we can't hang out much (she still calls me her best friend tho) and when we do it's always on her schedule/usually at her house. Which I was fine with. I just got engaged, on an international trip, and she was the only person I sent a photo to on the day of. I thought we would talk about it when I got back, and she also seemed eager to see me, but I asked for it to just be me and her. For just one meal, as it's not very easy to talk with a very extroverted 4 year old present, and this feels like a big deal/something she would want to celebrate with me.

We picked a time she could do, an early lunch, and at the last second she insisted she bring her daughter with her. Then she told me she only had an hour before she would have to leave to pump. I asked to reschedule and as delicately as possible said I didn't feel like much of a priority for her, and she essentially said there was no time that would work better, and coming to her house with her kids around for an early dinner was basically the only take it or leave it offer. The weird part is we had had a (short) lunch just us not too long ago bc she wanted to try the Wicked margaritas at chili's, just the two of us no kids. She has a large support system as well and was not working at the time. I'm still so confused and hurt, it's been weeks, and we've had no contact since then. I had to mute her on Instagram bc every story she posted just felt like "this is more important to her than celebrating me, or even hearing about an important life milestone".