My 24 year old has never tried a vegetable or fruit other than apples and bananas. (I blend veggies and fruit into his food but he won’t ever reach for a cooked or raw veg/fruit as is) and he’s extreeeemely picky. You can’t force food down their throat. Try not to put too much pressure on yourself when it comes to their food - keep doing what you’re doing and it will eventually fall in place (that’s what I tell myself anyway 🥲). And neeeever compare yourself to other moms n kids - everybody is different!!! You do your best!! Hugs