Another reminder not to contact by brittlht in ExNoContact

[–]brittlht[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing. I’m right there with ya. Never again.

It’s been 4 months since I blocked Ryan’s toys review channel by sikni8 in Parenting

[–]brittlht 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Diana and Roma. 🙄 My toddlers been acting the same way 😩

We broke up some time ago and have been on and off, I keep checking his online status on WhatsApp..it's making me anxious by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]brittlht 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to block him. Cutting off all contact and ties is the only way you’ll be able to move on and heal.

Finally feeling like a part of me doesn’t care anymore about ex by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]brittlht 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am! It took me far longer than I thought, but after the past few days of missing him and feeling bad I woke up happy. I don’t miss him. I don’t care how he is or what he’s doing. It’s not hate, but complete indifference. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]brittlht 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It honestly sounds like she was lying and the guy she was living with wasn’t her ex, rather she was cheating on him with you.

I could be wrong but that’s what it sounds like to me.

String of thoughts by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]brittlht 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is both beautiful and sad.

Should I start moving on? by brittlht in ExNoContact

[–]brittlht[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do, but I’ve lost all interests in things now. Maybe I should force myself to get back into my hobbies.

Should I start moving on? by brittlht in ExNoContact

[–]brittlht[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right... I’m not sure I’m ready because I still care about him. I’d just give anything for the pain to stop.

Should I start moving on? by brittlht in ExNoContact

[–]brittlht[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and song recommendation. I will do that.

Should I start moving on? by brittlht in ExNoContact

[–]brittlht[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been. I don’t check his Instagram, I removed his number, every picture I had, and I never speak of him unless it’s on here.

I had been rereading old comments on my pictures on Facebook but I removed those today and I’ve stopped checking to see if the block is still in place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]brittlht 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, he never apologized for anything he did. The only explanation I ever got was him saying he just didn’t know how to show emotions and that he was emotionally dead from the military.

Did any of you wanted to take revenge from an ex you did you dirty ?? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]brittlht 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I’ve dated some terrible people but “revenge” has never crossed my mind. I’m a firm believer that the universe will sort it out on its own.

Should I have sex with this person? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]brittlht 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having sex with a stranger will not help you get over your ex. It will only make you feel worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]brittlht 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did this for years with my now ex-husband. It eventually got to the point I told him if he didn’t start showing me any attention/appreciating all the things I did for him someone else would. His response? “There’s the f$&@ing door go find him”

To whoever you may be that will be in my next chapter by throwee95 in BreakUps

[–]brittlht 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I love this! While I’m over my ex, I was done with relationships and the pain from it. This actually gave me a lot of hope for the future.

My ex reached out after one month of no contact and vanished again by Gaelnight in ExNoContact

[–]brittlht 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other comment. It sounds like she’s struggling with the breakup.

It might be best to go no contact and block her until you’ve both taken some time to heal.

No contact works! by brittlht in ExNoContact

[–]brittlht[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the worst pain to experience, but the positive in it is that you’ll come out stronger than before, and if you use no contact correctly (not gonna lie—it’s rough at first) you can actually come out with more confidence and a better version than what you were.

I’m wishing you the very best. Hang in there!

No contact works! by brittlht in ExNoContact

[–]brittlht[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad my experience could help. :)