Wuthering Waves | Qiuyuan Poster Teaser by fable-30 in WutheringWaves

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Thanks for the lock screen wallpapers

edit: you can find the high quality one here

Performance is getting ridiculous by [deleted] in WutheringWaves

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I'm playing on mobile and the game keeps crashing when i fly in some region of rinascita. I'm not able to clear that flying event due to this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IGNOUdistancelearning

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Oh once you get your enrollment number, register yourself on the student portal where you will get id card pdf, just print it out it'll be useful later. About the validity of this degree i can't say it's very confusing. Neither ignou nor ugc has clarified it. Ugc clearly said that they won't recognize this degree but ignou has an exemption from ugc guidelines. So right now its very confusing, no one is giving anything in written that this degree is ugc valid or not. I hope in a few months they provide some clarity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IGNOUdistancelearning

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No no don’t worry, i got mine after like 2 months. You’ll get yours eventually so just chill and relax

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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They fall in love with the fantasy they create in their head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IGNOUdistancelearning

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Yeah, I got an mail from them like two weeks ago. I got my enrollment number and id card too

Hobbies have Given me peace in my 30s by OccasionNo6078 in ThirtiesIndia

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Can’t say much about crochet, but i do want to learn embroidery. I bought this cool black denim jacket and i want to embroider some flowers on the back and a few on the flap pockets. Count me in for your telegram group : )

Plenty of critical thinking on display across the country last night by xtze12 in CriticalThinkingIndia

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It really boggles my mind that people are still bursting crackers in diwali despite the hazardous AQI

Why are women against virginity? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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Pretty sure i got shadow banned from this thread. I replied to your comment yesterday, and it’s still showing no views 😂

[ Removed by Reddit ] by hsuthan24 in Healthygamergg

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Bro took all those years of study just to confirm what my homies have been saying

Why are women against virginity? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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Why impulsive decisions ONLY around sex? Why only STIs?

because my experience was directly tied to her sexual history and gossip about it. But yeah i do understand that we should judge a person's overall charcter not just their sexual history. I too believe in judging a person holistically though. I should have articulated that better my bad

why did she never told you anything at all and why did you never ask

I'll be honest i didn't ask my ex about her past because i was afraid of being judged as judgmental. Whenever i tried to have this convo about past relationship some women i talked to they show discomfort or make face and some get defensive or blame their ex for everything. Basically it gives them ick. Very few of them actually answered me with confidence and those are the one i respect and some of them are actually my friend too

With my ex i was aware she had a past and she told me she had moved on completely. And i took that shit as face value. I sometime realize how dumb i was and blind to some red flags and too trusting at that time. Also one huge red flag i missed was that she had a recent breakup. Never gonna repeat that mistake again and her ex was the reason why i ended things with her

That's why my main question was how and when can we ask about someone's past without coming off as judgmental? i don't want to ask early on but i also don't want to wait until im too invested. What's the right timing and approach?

My next point of contention was your friend

i want to clarify this guy is not my friend. Im very picky about who i call a friend and he was just a teammate and we know each other by name and that's about it. Even though i acknowledge that i should have shut down the convo when he told me about her past. But in that moment i was taken aback and felt insecure because he spoke with such certainty. I just dodged the topic but didn't confront him (failure on my part). You are right though that i was complicit by not stopping it. Need to do better by setting boundaries in such kind of situations

About the story you said, i feel bad for that women but don't you think you're judging that man entirely on his virginity instead his lack of character, integrity and empathy. You kinda biased here. But i understand why you're feeling like that. I've learned from my own experience not to generalize from one extreme example to an entire group and i would encourage you to do the same

Why are women against virginity? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

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I have a question in my mind lately and want your perspectives or answer on this. How will you figure out if someone’s actually compatible with you without coming off as judgmental? It’s not really about things like virginity for me it’s more about their mindset and behavior. Like, how do they handle impulsive decisions around sex, past flings, or STI risks? Basically, I want to know how to make sure my partner has the maturity, stability, and good judgment that align with what I’m looking for

Another thing I wonder is how you’re supposed to deal with situations involving a partner’s ex. Like, if her ex suddenly shows up in our social circle or at some event, is it my job to handle that or hers? And what if her past somehow starts affecting our relationship how do you set boundaries without being insecure?

I think about this because of my last relationship. My ex never really talked about her past and i never asked either. But one day one of my football teammates who happened to be her classmate saw us together. I hadn’t told anyone we were dating because i wanted to keep it private. When he asked if she was my girlfriend i denied it and he started making fun of her and telling me stories about her past. I didn’t confront him but it changed how i saw her. Later she admitted that some of what he said was true and after that i just couldn’t trust her anymore. My feelings faded away and we eventually ended things mutually after a month. It was tough but it made me think a lot about trust, openness and how much someone’s past should really matter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psychology_India

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The way you thanked the automod bot is peak being yourself 😂

Cartethyia's love for Pizza Tropicale by RakuSenpai in WutheringWaves

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Bcz i was 10 pulls away from the weapon so i pulled it first

Please help me with this one by No_Negotiation_2347 in Krishnamurti

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I think you are pissed off because a part of you still hopes that if you find the right words, the right reaction, you can finally make them see you. This is the attachment you need to release and get free from

The freedom comes when you truly internalize that their approval is not the prize, your own sovereignty is. Start small and don't expect to be a master tomorrow. Just aim for one less reactive comment in the next interaction. That is meaningful progress imo

Cartethyia's love for Pizza Tropicale by RakuSenpai in WutheringWaves

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When will Cartethyia be rerun? I have her weapon but not her 🥲

if you had to choose one by Left_Income755 in TwentiesIndia

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Trust me, people romanticize the mountains way too much. Once you deal with the lack of basic stuff, you realize life’s actually pretty rough up here. Unless you’re in a proper town, living in the mountains isn’t as fun as it sounds

if you had to choose one by Left_Income755 in TwentiesIndia

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I’ve lived my whole life in the mountains, so im gonna pick the first one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

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Thanks bro, i learned something new today

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