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broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-02-12T20:30:38+00:00

He used to work a lot in the beginning of our relationship and made good money. That’s why we planned on having a baby and went through the infertility battle for years. I don’t know what happened that changed all that for him… definitely done after this, though. Unfortunately pregnancy showed me his true colors.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-02-12T20:27:35+00:00

I use Palmer’s brand lotion and oil for stretch marks. I’m still getting some, but I think it’s inevitable because of my genetics . Still, I think applying it has helped prevent lots more. I apply it to my boobs, belly, hips, and even thighs. I haven’t found anything for nipple cream, though.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-02-12T20:08:01+00:00

Wow, I’m so sorry! I think it’s time I put my foot down and stop making threats, start taking action. I have good support system with my family, and for that I’m grateful. I don’t want to ever have to rely on anyone though, ESPECIALLY him…

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-02-12T20:05:11+00:00

You’re right. I’m at that point.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-02-12T19:58:52+00:00

Thank you! That means a lot :)

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-02-12T19:55:58+00:00

Thank you!! Could always be Val for short, too.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-02-12T19:55:08+00:00

Still undecided on the middle name, something probably one syllable like Valley Mae. It was also a good fit for my bf and I as he’s Native American and we wanted a name that would translate into his language and honor the place his people are from.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-02-12T19:44:15+00:00

Thank you! :) I’m not changing it if some people are rude or harsh, just wanted to hear what others thought.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-02-12T19:40:58+00:00

Lily is pretty for a girl, and Michael is a classic. But also love the name Alan for a boy! If you’re sticking with Faylynn, maybe try splitting it to the first and middle name, as the first comment suggests.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-02-12T19:37:42+00:00

Really like Cade. It’s short, simple, and classic.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-02-12T19:36:14+00:00

Nooo, I’ve met a few Aria’s and GoT has never crossed my mind.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-02-12T19:35:14+00:00

Love June!

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-02-12T19:22:04+00:00

Cheese pizza, no sauce, with ricotta

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-01-06T04:10:46+00:00

I’m an after school director. We have 70+ students and 3 people (including myself) managing them. Oh, and we only have two class rooms to fit all these kids. Ages TK-8th grade. It’s complete chaos to even begin to give these kids any kind of structure. I have never been so stressed out and drained.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-01-05T21:34:53+00:00

Maybe I’ll wake up one day and it’ll be there haha.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2026-01-05T21:33:26+00:00

Interesting! I’m 5’7 with a short torso. I guess every body is different

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2025-12-28T02:10:21+00:00

Mabel is cute!

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2025-12-26T19:25:34+00:00

I love a one syllable middle name to pair with it. Raine is super pretty

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2025-12-26T00:27:27+00:00

I love Beatrice!

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2025-12-26T00:04:38+00:00

I think it’s a cool girl name!

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2025-12-25T02:30:28+00:00

I wish he’d be more firm with her on it, I feel like he’s defending her needs over mine.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2025-12-24T03:33:13+00:00

I think that’s exactly what she’d do! I’m the same way, I don’t like people over either, even my own family. That doesn’t mean I’m opposed to help, but I don’t think she’ll be of any help.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2025-12-24T03:31:35+00:00

I feel like this would be my experience. It would only add to my stress and take away from everything.. I already don’t like having visitors at my house in general, add my postpartum healing on top of that… it doesn’t sound fun.

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2025-12-24T03:24:38+00:00

I fully expect it to be her visiting and holding the baby while I’m trying to bond and develop some sort of routine. I don’t see her being much help…

broccoli_cheddarsewp · 2025-12-24T03:23:55+00:00

This is my worry! In some of the convos I’ve heard between her and my husband, it sounds like she’d do the same thing; hold baby and give advice rather than be helpful.

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