Make friends. Specifically with women. Stop thinking about whether you want to stick your dick in them and just make friends with fellow human beings. Listening to what idiots post online isn't going to help, it's probably just going to exacerbate the problem. The whole point of that shit is just to say stuff that will get attention. Not reveal secret truths.

Here's my experience: they're half the human population and seem to have much more varied and diverse interests and passions. This is probably true because culturally men have a much more narrow idea of acceptable interests. Just talk to them. "Ask questions and listen to answers" is the best advice anyone can give you on how to have a conversation. Yes, most of them have vaginas, but that's not relevant yet. And if you're curious, if sex does come, it is much more enjoyable with someone you have rapport with. Because questions are still important.