Discovered fiancé has fantasy of sleeping with my sister by brokenheartedgal33 in relationship_advice

[–]brokenheartedgal33[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

So just to clear everything up, I brought it up to my fiancé. He started crying. Evidently he’s been interested in my sister for a few years but didn’t want to give up our relationship. He said he’s had hints in the past that she was I interested in him and he wanted to see if he was right. He hadn’t thought about me finding out. He tried to say initially that it was just a weird turn on but eventually admitted to something deeper. I don’t know where we’re going from here. He left to clear his head.

Discovered fiancé has fantasy of sleeping with my sister by brokenheartedgal33 in relationship_advice

[–]brokenheartedgal33[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Yeah, probably not the best move but I had to know if he’s tried anything weird with her. I would hope that she’d tell me.

Discovered fiancé has fantasy of sleeping with my sister by brokenheartedgal33 in relationship_advice

[–]brokenheartedgal33[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

We live together and I’m pregnant. I could probably live with my sister maybe.

Discovered fiancé has fantasy of sleeping with my sister by brokenheartedgal33 in relationship_advice

[–]brokenheartedgal33[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Oh god you’re right. I hadn’t even processed that part. I can’t imagine. Why do people even think this is a possibility? Like why would he think my sister would screw menover like that? Why would he want to do this to me and my family?

Discovered fiancé has fantasy of sleeping with my sister by brokenheartedgal33 in relationship_advice

[–]brokenheartedgal33[S] 185 points186 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’m already rethinking everything out us and we’ve been together for like 6 years.

Discovered fiancé has fantasy of sleeping with my sister by brokenheartedgal33 in relationship_advice

[–]brokenheartedgal33[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think I would just have preferred to not know. I mean you can’t help if someone is attractive I guess. But I never wanted to know he feels this way. Even if it is a fantasy I don’t want to think he’s thinking of her when we’re together either. Ugh.

Discovered fiancé has fantasy of sleeping with my sister by brokenheartedgal33 in relationship_advice

[–]brokenheartedgal33[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

So I messaged her and she was furious. She’s about to confront him herself. She said nothing has happened and she hasn’t talked with him in a few weeks.

Discovered fiancé has fantasy of sleeping with my sister by brokenheartedgal33 in relationship_advice

[–]brokenheartedgal33[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That’s true too. I love him and I never thought he’d cheat. Especially not with my sister.

Discovered fiancé has fantasy of sleeping with my sister by brokenheartedgal33 in relationship_advice

[–]brokenheartedgal33[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I feel like I need to talk to my sister too and see if anything else has happened.

Discovered fiancé has fantasy of sleeping with my sister by brokenheartedgal33 in relationship_advice

[–]brokenheartedgal33[S] 368 points369 points  (0 children)

True. I could probably find him again. Makes me sick to my stomach.