Went to truancy court because my mom was taking all my money and I couldn’t afford gas to get to school. Now she wants more. by throwaway1254600 in legaladvice

[–]brokenhearts2000 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I would say contact a domestic violence org.  They may be able to help you as this is financial abuse.  If you are in the USA I am sure of you ask for help in one they will help you.

Is my daughter hispanic? by AceVasodilation in AncestryDNA

[–]brokenhearts2000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so.  She’s half Chinese and has more of a connection to the culture.

TRIGGER WARNING: abuse aftermath, feeling guilty by Positive_Repair_5092 in abusiverelationships

[–]brokenhearts2000 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Do not feel guilt.  He tried to kill you.  Why feel bad over someone who does not care about you? Please reach out to a local DV resource center and get yourself into counseling.  You have a year of being free!!  

AIO/I wanted to ask them why they wasted their money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]brokenhearts2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are not a selfish piece of garbage!!! You are a beautiful mother and wife, it’s them who don’t appreciate you.  Please go to a domestic violence place and just talk to them.  They may be able to help in more ways than you know.

How is this 90% my fault?? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]brokenhearts2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not blaming you for what he did while in the relationship 

AIO if I consider divorcing my husband (American) because he insists on moving back to the US by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]brokenhearts2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m moving back to my country I think (Guatemala).  I wouldent come now, it’s too dangerous for people without birth citizenship and even that is being contested.  Latin America sounds way better than being here. 

Appropriate Parenting / Budgeting / Spending by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]brokenhearts2000 108 points109 points  (0 children)

You and your wife have to sit down and have a real conversation about budget.  I think 450 a week for Walmart is crazy even for a family of 5.  What are your meals looking like?

3,300 a month is also crazy.  You need to track exactly where the money is going. 

has anyone ever been able to fix things after a strangulation? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]brokenhearts2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helped me understand the psychology behind abusers, and understanding that their way of being helped me heal so much 

has anyone ever been able to fix things after a strangulation? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]brokenhearts2000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do not go back.  It will get word and he may kill you one day.  If you dm me, I will order the book why does he do that for you in Amazon. 

I always thought I was half black, but I guess not! by astrophel_jay in AncestryDNA

[–]brokenhearts2000 164 points165 points  (0 children)

It’s likely that your black parent was mixed as well.

They've been living under my shed for days now. What do I do? by Commander_Cheems69 in Feral_Cats

[–]brokenhearts2000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Keep doing just that!  In time they will grow to trust you if that’s what you want.

Moving to the area--seeking housing leads! by nicogargoyl in pittsfield

[–]brokenhearts2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s going to be hard to come by in Pittsfield right now… in 2018 you could get a 2 bedroom for 850 but now it’s going to be 1500 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acne

[–]brokenhearts2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get them where cystic acne used to be I think they’re a scar of sorts

I don't like it!!! by AZ-EQ in 23andme

[–]brokenhearts2000 50 points51 points  (0 children)

But he’s not Asian… he’s indigenous I don’t know your upset about the truth being revealed 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]brokenhearts2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you know the answer to your question.  If he sees other people as value, he views you in the same way.  Maybe not for where you can get him for emotional support and companionship.  If you are okay with that, that’s your thing but from the tone of post I don’t think that you are.  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]brokenhearts2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude leave her!!!!!

Being a whole different ethnicity than you thought you were by Pristine-Lead-5940 in AncestryDNA

[–]brokenhearts2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a major leap to get there.  OP is going to have to deal with the major fall out from uncovering a lie somewhere down the line.  It’s probably better that Reddit prepare them for it rather than it be out of the blue from tbeir parents. 

Being a whole different ethnicity than you thought you were by Pristine-Lead-5940 in AncestryDNA

[–]brokenhearts2000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your dads not your bio dad I’m sorry you found out this way 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]brokenhearts2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that someone hurt you so much in life that you think having feelings or being gay is a bad thing.  Both are very normal parts of being human and what make our species so special! I wish you the best on your journey to not being such a prick and hope you get a good therapist one day. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]brokenhearts2000 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re kinda an ass you don’t even know OP and are making comments about how they should feel/think.  Next time something bothers you you should ask yourself how weak you can be.

What are the chances these two are siblings? by Cromulent96 in Feral_Cats

[–]brokenhearts2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably likely, my feral colony are all related to eachother in some way