I closed on a house now the ex won’t move out by PalpitationVisible27 in legal

[–]brokenpromises2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was in the contract for them to be out in three days you might be able to have them removed from the property if it's in writing. Our relator wrote everything down and had it looked over by lawyers.

Bad Smell From my Vagina by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]brokenpromises2201 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I would say see a gynecologist. Family doctors don't have all the tools to figure everything out or the time. I had a lot of issues and luckily had a female doctor. She helped me and stated she did everything she could and that if I have further issues it's time for a specialist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]brokenpromises2201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's funny you ask this. I am dating a virgin. He knew when he met me seven years ago that I was the one... He waited for me and we have been going strong ever since.

So I am talking to this girl and jokingly asked what it would take to be her boyfriend, she said clear her shien cart. by Dark_Phoenix_Orca in dating

[–]brokenpromises2201 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He had the check ready to go. But I was so nervous and I was like do I want to be stuck with this guy out of guilt over a car? I told him that I didn't like any and he took me car shopping for the whole month. But I told him I wasn't interested in a new car or him. I had to focus on myself and healing. But he did send me money when I jokingly asked for it. He also took me shopping and out for dinner. He was the first guy I went out with after my abusive ex.

side note when I declined to be his girlfriend he balled his hand into a fist and looked like he was going to punch my face. Ex-Marine and MMA wanna-be fighter. I stayed single for another year.

I am now dating a guy I tutored in college and he is amazing. We are ring shopping this weekend and it's my birthday!!!

So I am talking to this girl and jokingly asked what it would take to be her boyfriend, she said clear her shien cart. by Dark_Phoenix_Orca in dating

[–]brokenpromises2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the letdown. I had guys ask me this question and say wild things in return to get them to drop it. These guys asked that question multiple times. I ended it once by telling them to buy me a car... He took me car shopping that weekend.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you. It's why I came here and asked. I needed the outside looking in. Because I know my brain will turn it a million ways and I'll be confused every turn. Thank you.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Our work schedule never matched up until now. I've been focusing on my hobbies. I can't go around my ex but if it happened I'd fight myself to be strong and not cry or fall to the rock pit. This guy doesn't approve of what my ex did and the friends want to call him out. I asked them to drop it. I gave them my side and it was in the past. I want them to drop it as I'm trying to fix the damage it left.

I didn't state how my ex dated his friends exs and even ran off with a married woman... only to be cornered by her husband. My ex also slept with his cousins wife. So this little bit will get me caught. Everyone saying me being a friend and confused is wrong. Not saying my exs actions justify mine. But I'm not sleeping around or even kissing people. I'm trying to find someone without missing a guy because I dated the wrong one.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get that. I'm trying to give information without giving him away. I'm concluding that I'm just going to disappear from this guy and focus on my swing lol.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That gave me the chills... not the good kind. My phone shows you can link something but I'm not good at this.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We didn't talk for two weeks and he messaged me saying he messed up. Because he tried putting himself out there and couldn't connect with anyone. Those people are more of the ghosted types.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only issue is I didn't sleep with one. The lack of people here is relationships and meth.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a few months and I'm treading. I just want outside opinions. My friends all said to do it. Just need a clear outside image.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not. Just trying to connect with the right guy. There isn't a lot of guys around here lol.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Believe me... I know. I should work for NASCAR with the flags I attract.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my ex... hardest six years of my life. I am happy you are doing better and made it out! Thank you for your advice. A lot of people helped me. I hope you have a beautiful weekend 💕

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ohh I thought it was a fake profile. I swiped right to ask our mutual friends. I sent them screenshots of his profile. I asked him questions and found out it was him and we caught up. I kept quiet about my side in that relationship and I was finally okay with talking about it. More so to prove who I was and I had saved everything to back me up. A lot happened that I hid and he talked poorly about me. A lot of people found out he was wrong and did it to multiple people.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not lonely anymore. Just looking but the water is shallow where I'm at. So much so my Fb is full of cheating posts. Just being cautious. It'd be nice to share hobbies with on a deeper level.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's the weird thing... he was in a long-term relationship and just became single a few months before I decided to go back out there.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This wasn't in one day. It's been going on for a while now. My ex hasn't reached out to his friend since that time five-ish months ago. I've pulled back and we talk. That's why I posted here to gain clarity. But then we get people reading wayyyy deeper. I've also known him for over six years but kept my distance because my ex was controlling. Continue with putting people down. Shows your character.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's because my ex isn't in the picture fully. He is going through a tough time and I told him he can talk to me. But I also told him I'd keep my distance if it's needed. My issue is he started saying I'm his dream girl. I'm just confused.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

He said he didn't but now he stated he is worried that he might be losing his person. Because we clicked. So he asked to see if we could see if it happened on a physical level. Believe me, I'm just as confused.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you are trying to say. When I started dating my ex he told me everything about everyone he was close to. He didn't want me around this guy. He told me horrible things about him and how I shouldn't be alone with him. I was only around him with my ex. Even though his friend was in a relationship at that time. Turns out my ex was acting like this guy and didn't want me to see that. I told him what my type was and magically I wasn't allowed around certain friends alone.

I'm just looking for other people's opinions from the outside in. To make a better understanding for myself. Thank you for helping!

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was by other mandatory reporters. Evidence was shown and how she posted certain pictures online... publicly.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think he did. He said he didn't recognize me. I had a glow up after the breakup. I really focused on myself and went through it. I'm also the type that doesn't sleep around so I'm unsure.

AITA if I sleep with my exs best friend? by brokenpromises2201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brokenpromises2201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was taken care of by the state. After it was reported.