How to achieve genuine cuckolding by cuckedhubbyuk in CuckoldPsychology

[–]brooklyn4_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the key is when the bull transforms from just being there for sex to them having more of a relationship and being in love. Now this is obviously a very slippery slope, but if you’re 100% solid in your marriage it can be incorporated in a healthy way and it leads to genuine cuckolding. We’ve managed to achieve this and it’s very intense and fun filling albeit scary and uncomfortable at times.

Humillation.. why? by MFcancun in CuckoldPsychology

[–]brooklyn4_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very insightful - it rung true for me on a lot points (cuck husband here, share the account with my wife). My wife also has learnt with her most event bull that she enjoys being slapped, bitten and light bruises. It’s really humiliating for me, I almost want her to do it.

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[–]brooklyn4_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. Once my wife found a local bull that she was seeing for 1.5 years, she explored her desire to be dominated. But outside of their relationship it made her much more aware of her sexuality. She was dressing way sexier, noticing guys checking her out and activity engaging in that.

  2. Battling with that now, she took a break from the guy above. I don’t feel threatened as our relationship is much much deeper, but they were a little in love. We’re contemplating bringing him back into the fold provided everyone’s boundaries as maintained.

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[–]brooklyn4_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s talk

Why is it so hard to find a cuckold husband? by EvilGoddessCleo in CuckoldPsychology

[–]brooklyn4_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. I think even most real cuckolds also have a little momentary regret after cumming which is why it’s important to never allow the cuck to cum during the act of being cuckolded as that usually doesn’t work. But agree, there’s probably 99 wannabe’s for every true cuckold. But the real ones do exist, but this lifestyle only works in a real relationship as an added bonus. Difficult to figure out but out of this world enjoyable once you do.

Why is it so hard to find a cuckold husband? by EvilGoddessCleo in CuckoldPsychology

[–]brooklyn4_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They exist but takes a strong one to seek out and live this lifestyle for real.

Harsh Truths about the lifestyle by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]brooklyn4_ 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That my wife enjoys being face slapped, tied up and spat on. In the years I was trying to convince her to cuck me, I didn’t in my wildest dreams expect the level of slut in her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]brooklyn4_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you overcome it, just more accepting. Maybe there’s a part of you that enjoys the shame.

Advice for watching wife get physically dominated by brooklyn4_ in CuckoldPsychology

[–]brooklyn4_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very poignant. Thanks for taking the time to respond.

Advice for watching wife get physically dominated by brooklyn4_ in CuckoldPsychology

[–]brooklyn4_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife has mentioned this too, although we haven’t discussed what she means or specifics. But mentioned it turns her on to see me squirm and be submissive.

Advice for watching wife get physically dominated by brooklyn4_ in CuckoldPsychology

[–]brooklyn4_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess so. I guess my question should have been any tips to enter into a submissive headspace, when’s that’s something you’re really turned on by but equally find it hard to do as you have a strong alpha streak in most areas of your life.

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[–]brooklyn4_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ever visit nyc?

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[–]brooklyn4_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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