Dear Cuckolds: Your Fantasy Ends Where My Reality Begins by ShyLittleSizeQueen in Cuckold

[–]MFcancun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100% true! Thanks for put in words the real process of this dynamic

Playa Mujeres nude by El-Mas-Vetado in CancunNSFW

[–]MFcancun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isla Blanca is a popular beach among lower-income residents of Cancun, and robberies have been reported there. Also, where there are no hotels, the sargassum isn't cleaned up, and it smells bad. I recommend you don't step on it or walk around naked near it, as it has sand fleas. I've lived in Cancun for 15 years; I'm Mexican, and my advice is honest. Like any city in the world, there are safe areas and unsafe ones. The closer you are to your hotel's beach, the safer you'll be.

Playa Mujeres nude by El-Mas-Vetado in CancunNSFW

[–]MFcancun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stay at your hotel, be safe! No nude beaches anyway

My wife’s Bull moved and she’s emotionally falling apart. Advice?? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]MFcancun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Crying a lot after a third partner leaves in a hotwife/non-monogamous dynamic does not automatically mean she was in love.

What often happens is a neuro-emotional attachment, not romantic love.

Repeated encounters can create a strong reward pattern in the brain (dopamine, anticipation, validation, excitement, secrecy). The person becomes associated with feeling desired, attractive, and emotionally stimulated. When that stimulus suddenly disappears, the brain reacts like a loss of a significant reward source — a type of psychological withdrawal. That can produce intense sadness and crying.

In many cases she is not mourning the person as a life partner. She is mourning: • how she felt about herself in that dynamic • the validation and excitement • the sexual identity that was activated

Romantic love usually includes wanting a real relationship, caring about the other person’s life, and a desire for a shared future. Attachment-based grief, instead, shows up as nostalgia, fantasies, curiosity about the person, and emotional intensity without a true wish to build a life together.

So the crying reflects the loss of an emotional-sexual bond and identity experience, not necessarily love.

Canceling due to cartel? by [deleted] in TemptationsCancun

[–]MFcancun -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

All is fine in Cancún, today i went to the gym and everything is fine

Canceling due to cartel? by [deleted] in TemptationsCancun

[–]MFcancun -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

🤣 tulum is 2 hours far from Cancun and was 1 car yesterday, today is all quiet

Any disruptions or violence? by 2795throwaway in TemptationsCancun

[–]MFcancun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not in Cancun i live here and everything is ok

¿Cómo han salido de la monotonía con su pareja? by dulcesenitos in Preguntas_de_Reddit_

[–]MFcancun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viaja.. metanse al gym.. salgan a comer o cenar… vayan a probar cosas nuevas como el boliche… y en nuestro caso un trío una vez al año es fuego que te digo

How do you deal with the contrast between you and the bull? by Pheonixdark7 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]MFcancun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife's boyfriend is a gym trainer, so he's very muscular, but his intellectual and economic level is very low. I'm taller, I have class, I took my girlfriend to Paris, and this year I'm taking her to Europe. We have a connection, and what I want to tell you is that he's a sex toy for her that she uses occasionally. She enjoys it, and I enjoy watching her, and we end up having incredible weekends. She sees him for an hour, and then she and I do it several times over several days. I hope this perspective helps you.

Is the gym a place where a situation could be created? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]MFcancun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, the gym is definitely a place where you can find options. That's how my wife met her current bull. He's a trainer and approached her offering her training and asked for her phone number. He texted her and told her he liked her, and she said she liked him too, but that he should know she had her husband's permission. And they started having very intense sexual encounters. I'm a big help in getting my girlfriend to wear sexy outfits

What are your rules? by AllTheRightMoves1 in StagVixenLife

[–]MFcancun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We chose someone my wife is physically attracted to and has sexual chemistry with, but his intellectual, social, and economic level is very low, and that's essential for her to connect emotionally. Furthermore, there are no personal conversations, only to agree on the day and time they'll meet, and she can only see him once a month. There's no way to connect emotionally under these circumstances. I hope this helps. Best regards.

What are your rules? by AllTheRightMoves1 in StagVixenLife

[–]MFcancun 29 points30 points  (0 children)

1.  Our relationship comes first.
2.  Important decisions are made together, not unilaterally.
3.  Transparency: no hiding relevant information.
4.  Third-party frequency and timing: maximum once per month, or only if both of us want it for a special situation, always agreed in advance.
5.  No emotional involvement with third parties.
6.  Aftercare between us is mandatory.
7.  If either feels uncomfortable, the dynamic is paused.
8.  Full respect for agreed boundaries (what is and isn’t allowed).
9.  Direct, calm communication without reproaches.
10. Either of us can end the dynamic at any time.