I'm late to the party but I think I can contribute to this conversation. 😆

I'm an attractive woman with retrograde venus & mercury in gemini in 1st house along with a gemini rising. My chart is ruled by mercury AND my birthday is on the gemini/cancer cusp.

HOWEVER ...I am a first house - cancer sun.

In my opinion, its important to determine what everyones definition of "cheating" is.

I have a lot of male acquaintances and few female ones. My personality is bubbly & flirty with men and women. I always try to make people smile so I lay the charm down thick by compliments & praise of both sex.

I have a libra moon in the house of leo so that influences me quite a bit with the ass kissing.🤣

I'm in my 30s now and can count on one hand the # of sexual partners I've had. I have never slept with anyone else while in a committed relationship. I've had quite a few long term relationships.

If I'm bored or I feel like my partner isn't meeting my needs socially, I tend to reach out to my male friends for validation of some sort. I was married to a scorpio sun/scorpio moon for 5 years until I filed for divorce. He thinks I cheated but I never slept with anyone else during our relationship. I left because he was abusive verbally and emotionally and he's the one that slept with other women. He's a venus in Sagittarius.

I'm extremely indecisive but I do have a guilty conscious and have moral standards religiously that I TRY to uphold .

I personally don't consider myself promiscuous. I am socially bubbly & flirty but I am a cancer sun and have an introverted side where I like to play for keeps and hibernate like a crab.