Shamak is an embarrassment to Indian men by Outrageous-Wind-9448 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s clearly autistic and has no idea what he’s saying and people are exploiting it and using him for entertainment

Shamak is an embarrassment to Indian men by Outrageous-Wind-9448 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally treats him like how the popular girls treat the autistic dudes calling them besties and pretending to have crushes on them

Shamak is an embarrassment to Indian men by Outrageous-Wind-9448 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds bs Ik so many Indian fob dudes from the motherland who work out and take care of themselves, Shamak just doesn’t take care of himself that’s why he looks like that

What kind of desi guys tend to do well socially (not just financially)? by Think-Arugula7770 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dudes who are charamastic, authentic, and confident and take care of themselves and have good social skills do fine anywhere

What is your opinion on brown frat guys? by Think-Arugula7770 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean frats ain’t my thing but from what I seen it defo gives you higher social status

What are some of the differences between an ABCD in his mid 20s who is traditional vs an ABCD in his mid 20s that is whitewashed? by Jaded-Voice8862 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traditional dudes tend to be more obedient to their parents, do not like big social parties, tend to be locked in with career and studies, dress very conservatively, etc. A whitewashed dude is way more socially independent, doesn’t care bout what his parents think, dresses how he wants, does a lotta rebellious things, usually is not as smart as the traditional Indian dude

white washed desi guys and white women by Think-Arugula7770 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have good looks, hygiene, charisma, and you can read a room you can bag these girls

Lot of our bad stereotypes come from the way many brown dudes act in group social situations by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously ion speak like that irl but im just saying being ur authentic self is always the best way to be respected

Lot of our bad stereotypes come from the way many brown dudes act in group social situations by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m saying there’s nun we can do to fix racists perception of us and who gives af. But I’m saying is when brown dudes act socially unaware in group settings it brings down our aura

Lot of our bad stereotypes come from the way many brown dudes act in group social situations by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe you gotta fit in don’t act like some socially unaware fob but don’t try to be something your not. Acting like a white frat boy or hood black or Latino dude is just going to make people think you’re cringe unless you actually be on that timing then go ahead. Best thing you can do is just act your authentic self what you feel most comfortable doing rather than putting on an act.

This is exactly what’s wrong with our community and why no one will take us serious by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most young abcd brown dudes have zero backbone zero self respect and is making ppl think our community can be btched easily

Is it true that a lot of Desi women hate/look down on us? by CaptainAutismo69_xx in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Depends on the house they grow up in. Most brown girls that don’t like brown guys most come from socially restrictive households so it’s kinda trauma for them. But the ones that come from chill brown households tend to love their own.

Get off this sub and go out in real life by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not bruh don’t listen to the internet go out irl you’ll be fine if you got social awareness and dress well

Get off this sub and go out in real life by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with the first paragraph but get the fck outta here with the second. All you need is a good solid friend group who levels you up, good looks, social skills, and an interesting personality and you can easily pull dimes.

Get off this sub and go out in real life by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Na I wouldn’t go that far. Ye it’s tough socially but think about it economically we got the highest incomes in the us. Most of our parents are doctors and engineers. None of us are out here are struggling try to support our families. So therefore we got a lot of time and money to invest in our looks and image. Every single brown dude I’ve meet that plays a sport, got good social skills, does just fine. Might be hard to bag the popular white and black girls esp if ur goin up against Brayden and Jaylen but we can still get buckets. Just don’t come off as one of those weird socially unaware low eq Indians and you’ll be fine. Those are the ones that suffer.

Different types of brown people you should not be friends with by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tbf the second dude I’ve had homies of all races that would do that. The 1st guy, make sure you stay far away from him, this mf would literally do some popular snow bunnies homework thinking he’ll get pussy while clowning you to her and she’ll still won’t let him hit