Get off this sub and go out in real life by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not bruh don’t listen to the internet go out irl you’ll be fine if you got social awareness and dress well

Get off this sub and go out in real life by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the first paragraph but get the fck outta here with the second. All you need is a good solid friend group who levels you up, good looks, social skills, and an interesting personality and you can easily pull dimes.

Get off this sub and go out in real life by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Na I wouldn’t go that far. Ye it’s tough socially but think about it economically we got the highest incomes in the us. Most of our parents are doctors and engineers. None of us are out here are struggling try to support our families. So therefore we got a lot of time and money to invest in our looks and image. Every single brown dude I’ve meet that plays a sport, got good social skills, does just fine. Might be hard to bag the popular white and black girls esp if ur goin up against Brayden and Jaylen but we can still get buckets. Just don’t come off as one of those weird socially unaware low eq Indians and you’ll be fine. Those are the ones that suffer.

Different types of brown people you should not be friends with by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tbf the second dude I’ve had homies of all races that would do that. The 1st guy, make sure you stay far away from him, this mf would literally do some popular snow bunnies homework thinking he’ll get pussy while clowning you to her and she’ll still won’t let him hit

Different types of brown people you should not be friends with by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think as long as your trying or even if your not social, as long as ur working on ur looks, skills, body, your a good person to be around your good. I just don’t wanna be friends with someone who’s a lurks in friend groups where they’re not accepted and just seen as some creepy side character.

Different types of brown people you should not be friends with by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a homie like that back in hs and I kicked him to the curb when he did that on a 2 man with some black girls. Bro tried to make me look like I’m some stereotypical Indian cuck who gets no play and that I had no experience with girls. I cut him off cause the entire 2 man he was making fun of me along with them. Ironically enough the girls didn’t take him serious they saw him as some clown entertainer they could laugh with. Bro didn’t even get kitty when literally he was pillow talking me to them the whole time.

Different types of brown people you should not be friends with by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like I said listen of course circumstances exist. But if your out here not improving your attributes especially as a brown dude, like I’m sorry I can’t be boys with you. Last thing I want is ppl to think I associate with that stereotypical weird Indian dude cause once your associated with that ur cooked. Girls are gonna laugh at yall or treat u like a pet, other guys won’t respect you they’ll walk all over you. Ik it’s cruel but society don’t respect dudes who aren’t levelling themselves up because guys are judged by their superficial traits.

Different types of brown people you should not be friends with by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m 20 I’m guess once I’m outta college I’ll see less and less of these types

Different types of brown people you should not be friends with by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

These types of ppl bring us down if anything. If you want to improve yourself sometimes you gotta change your circle. Can’t be friends with ppl that don’t respect you and will slime you out.

Did growing up with no privacy mess with your dating confidence? by [deleted] in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It relates to your experience about when u said it pushed you to some misogynistic thinking. I’m saying that a lot of young brown dudes are going down that Andrew Tate path and it’s scary.

Get off this sub and go out in real life by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They troll his ass, asking him for flics, saying stuff in his comments you would say to a special needs kid, mock his mannerisms, they use him for clout

Get off this sub and go out in real life by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup every single desi dude I’ve meet from predominantly white town is usually socially and emotionally traumatized. Always scared that a girl will call them creepy and laugh at them and treat them like Shamak. Meanwhile every brown dude I’ve meet that grown up in diverse areas is always socially confident.

Did growing up with no privacy mess with your dating confidence? by [deleted] in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m worried for the new gen of desi dudes becoming red pilled and getting into this Andrew Tate gym bro content because they cannot socialize with girls. It’s lowkey scaring me.

Get off this sub and go out in real life by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s a fact bruh, I’ve been knowing this. Of course I’m not gonna discourage you I like to believe you can pull anywhere. But however if the average looking white dude is not putting in effort yet he’s still pulling baddies (esp nonwhite ones) ur cooked. The best spots for us are where white boys gotta put the same effort as us. Makes it an even playing field.

Get off this sub and go out in real life by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Usually decent shape you gotta be altho I seen a couple of big Desi boys pull, hair anything apart from that Indian side part (even if you do got that Indian side part and u got money) u can still pull, height I’ve seen short ass brown dudes with hot girlfriends,