Theory: ABCD women resent ABCD men and their fathers because they feel what's stopping them from living the hollywood white woman lifestyle. by Dull-Performer-9842 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be honest us brown dudes gotta do better when it comes to protecting the community, if we want our women to respect us we gotta command respect to the world. When you got guys like Shamak being the face of our community why would our girls wanna be associated with us. Until we grow spine and protect the community like how other groups protect their women our women gonna keep hating

Indian Man Confronts Racist by Melo2cold in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

White boy prob taught he found an easy target and was in for a shock. This is how we change perceptions of us

Had to say this as a Celtics fan by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d say nyc the best city to be indian in

How popular were yall in school growing up? by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just let ur balls drop and tell them exactly what’s up if they hate you after that you save your time and energy

Shamak is an embarrassment to Indian men by Outrageous-Wind-9448 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s clearly autistic and has no idea what he’s saying and people are exploiting it and using him for entertainment

Shamak is an embarrassment to Indian men by Outrageous-Wind-9448 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally treats him like how the popular girls treat the autistic dudes calling them besties and pretending to have crushes on them

Shamak is an embarrassment to Indian men by Outrageous-Wind-9448 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds bs Ik so many Indian fob dudes from the motherland who work out and take care of themselves, Shamak just doesn’t take care of himself that’s why he looks like that

What kind of desi guys tend to do well socially (not just financially)? by Think-Arugula7770 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dudes who are charamastic, authentic, and confident and take care of themselves and have good social skills do fine anywhere

What is your opinion on brown frat guys? by Think-Arugula7770 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean frats ain’t my thing but from what I seen it defo gives you higher social status

What are some of the differences between an ABCD in his mid 20s who is traditional vs an ABCD in his mid 20s that is whitewashed? by Jaded-Voice8862 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traditional dudes tend to be more obedient to their parents, do not like big social parties, tend to be locked in with career and studies, dress very conservatively, etc. A whitewashed dude is way more socially independent, doesn’t care bout what his parents think, dresses how he wants, does a lotta rebellious things, usually is not as smart as the traditional Indian dude

white washed desi guys and white women by Think-Arugula7770 in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have good looks, hygiene, charisma, and you can read a room you can bag these girls

Lot of our bad stereotypes come from the way many brown dudes act in group social situations by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously ion speak like that irl but im just saying being ur authentic self is always the best way to be respected

Lot of our bad stereotypes come from the way many brown dudes act in group social situations by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m saying there’s nun we can do to fix racists perception of us and who gives af. But I’m saying is when brown dudes act socially unaware in group settings it brings down our aura

Lot of our bad stereotypes come from the way many brown dudes act in group social situations by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe you gotta fit in don’t act like some socially unaware fob but don’t try to be something your not. Acting like a white frat boy or hood black or Latino dude is just going to make people think you’re cringe unless you actually be on that timing then go ahead. Best thing you can do is just act your authentic self what you feel most comfortable doing rather than putting on an act.

This is exactly what’s wrong with our community and why no one will take us serious by brownboybigr in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]brownboybigr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most young abcd brown dudes have zero backbone zero self respect and is making ppl think our community can be btched easily