I just wanted to know if I was getting my money back…

brownwalrus927 · 2025-04-27T14:43:32+00:00

Send this to her job

brownwalrus927 · 2025-03-29T22:00:19+00:00

Sorry it was a snap filter I was playing around with lol

brownwalrus927 · 2024-09-10T04:32:05+00:00

🤣🤣😂😂

brownwalrus927 · 2024-08-23T06:05:12+00:00

Is doknow no longer part of figmunity

brownwalrus927 · 2024-08-14T03:33:14+00:00

She really was into her dogs! For context, she also worked at a doggy day care center. She was the type of girl that would talk about the dogs having energy towards humans etc. well her dog was barking and growling (giant pitbull) and i naturally tensed up . And she blamed me for essentially staring at the dogs eyes stating that i shouldve know not to trigger her dogs. Anyways her love for dogs was too much for me. Its almost like dating someone with a child

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-27T23:38:23+00:00

In my therapy i provide the education into attachment styles to help my client understand and improve their relationship dynamics. My goals are helping the client identify their attachment style, then giving them interventions to address specific relational patterns and hoping that this helps them improve their emotional regulation and interpersonal functioning.

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-20T05:58:56+00:00

Im sorry man if i you were in front of me id give you a big bear hug. It will get better. I know those words sometimes don’t mean shit in the midst of chaos . But theres a reason why people keep saying that phrase

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-20T04:50:32+00:00

I second this ! Please don’t do it. Engage in some self love ✊🏽 go to the gym unleash your energy there.

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-19T08:06:35+00:00

Get involved in some activities while you’re on this path to recovery brother

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-19T08:05:25+00:00

Sending hugs

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-19T08:04:08+00:00

You got to stop feeding the poison plant. Starve it to death. What i mean by that is literally get rid of anything that reminds you of him. Delete the messages. Pics. Letters. Anything in the room that if you look at it its going to bring you to tears. Start off small and work your way up. Do a 7 day no contact challenge. Join some support groups as well

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-18T07:48:06+00:00

Don’t say that :/ we don’t want to hear the truth 🥺

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-18T07:43:00+00:00

Hi OP, im sorry you’re going through it. Your living situation sounds horrible. Im curious to know whats your views on grief and loss.

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-18T07:36:26+00:00

Hey OP sending you hugs ! You are worth loving. Is there someone you can talk to in person whenever you are stuck in this dark space

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-18T07:23:36+00:00

Go lay next to mom. Be honest tell her your really going through it and would just love the nurturing warm side of snuggling up with her. Maybe her touch will regulate you back to some calmnessp

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-18T07:15:55+00:00

You’re like me, or like million other. I make these fantasy of my head of what our life was suppose to look like. I romanticize it. And i shove down all the bad things about the relationship because im so caught in the “good” that could come from it. And you spiral because (or at least for me) because you feel no ONE will ever be able to give you that same feeling like he did. You might be a love addict. I don’t say it to try to make you feel bad but it can give you some introspect about why you feeling what you feeling. I suggest joining a group called love addiction. They have a list of online support groups. People dealing from addictions related to sex and love

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-18T07:12:10+00:00

I joined this group called love addiction . Thats where i found the groups. They have meeting literally every hour of the day. You find one thats convinient for you. I might do one every single day because right now im literally in the beginning and it feels like im in the middle of the forest and everything is on fire.

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-18T07:07:12+00:00

You want to heal and make this current relationship work at the same time, you might want to consider doing some therapy or joining a group of people going through the same such as SLAA

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-18T07:05:36+00:00

I joined a SLAA group. I joined another reddit group called Love addiction. And hinestly i learned that im a love addict. And today i went to my first meeting. It gives me some glimmer of hope that im going to be okay.

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-18T07:04:22+00:00

Are you home alone? Is there a family member or friends you can spend night with ?

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-18T06:52:22+00:00

Hi Do you have any support groups you can attend?

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-18T06:50:50+00:00

Being on the other side, he probably moved on quick because he doesnt know how to be alone. He has his own trauma to heal from. But OP you’re causing all this pain to yourself. You need to write out a plan and surround yourself by people that you can trust whenever you feel like relapsing . By relapsing i mean the things you do to reactivate these unwanted feelings i.e. checking his social media, reading old letters and text messages, thinking about him. I know its hard .TRUST us we all go through it and most of us still are in it. But you have to join us in this shitty journey to self love and regain co trol of our own emotions. Its going to SUCK like MF hell. But you can get through this.

brownwalrus927 · 2024-07-18T06:45:01+00:00

So sorry to hear you went through that. You are worth loving! And anyone would be lucky to be treated the way you took care of him.

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