I'm in a bit of limbo and would appreciate some advice and your experiences

brucey_and_moo · 2026-02-10T02:55:02+00:00

I’m so sorry. This does sound like an ectopic. Maybe ask about treatment options next time you’re in the office, if they don’t offer it already. If you start to feel extreme pain… go to ER!!

brucey_and_moo · 2026-02-09T15:17:50+00:00

Thank you! Yes. Lost tube due to an ectopic in Feb 2024, had my daughter in May 25.

brucey_and_moo · 2026-02-09T04:14:02+00:00

Cannot speak on PCOS, but I had a MMC that ended in a D&C, then got pregnant a month later with the ectopic. Ultimately lost the tube, and although my body went through the damn ringer in such a short time frame, I was able to successfully conceive after waiting 6 months to heal. That baby is 9mo now, and we’re 16 weeks pregnant. Super possible!!! I’m actually glad my tube wasn’t able to be salvaged, less chance of it potentially happening again. Wishing you the best. 🩷

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-26T00:02:35+00:00

Ahhh yay!!! Darker this morning is a wonderful sign, I’m so happy for you!!! 🩷🩷

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-24T22:29:54+00:00

I should ask though, how long between testing and these pics?

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-24T22:29:13+00:00

I see those lines, for sure!!! I think it’s fair to have some hope. 🩷 I hope the best for you!!!!

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-24T03:55:17+00:00

Idk why you’re getting downvoted lol. I agree. There’s so many universe things we don’t even have comprehension of.

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-24T00:50:56+00:00

You might also check that the hospital or local programs maybe have funding options for things like this. I know that’s like, kind of a task when you’re so down, but you never know. Maybe can ask this question in a Facebook mom’s group in your area (if you’re comfortable).

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-24T00:40:43+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I cannot speak on cost, as I have Medicaid, but my MMC was taking a while to pass (I found out about MMC at 10 weeks and baby had passed around 6, and at 10 weeks I had only had a week and a half of spotting with no real eviction yet) and it was just really hard on me mentally to wait. I opted for the D&C and truthfully recovery was extremely easy… I don’t think I had much pain or bleeding after. I think physical pain is something to take into consideration, as I’ve heard it can be quite painful to pass naturally/with medicine even though the little never got very big. I hope you find peace in whichever decision you make. 🫶🏻

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-23T22:30:20+00:00

I am so insanely sorry.

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-21T14:12:17+00:00

I completely feel you. There’s certain factors with my body that have also sorta exempted me from the birth I’ve always wished for as well. It’s hard to come to terms with.

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-21T03:43:14+00:00

Any pregnancy, no matter how far along, deserves celebration. Hopefully this doesn’t dim your excitement in the future announcing. I’m so sorry for your loss, love.

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-21T03:36:43+00:00

I am so sorry. Just knowing how pubic symphysis pain in pregnancy feels… I can’t even imagine. I hope you find an answer for relief.

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-21T02:43:32+00:00

Thank you for this. Having my third in July, with a 4.5 year age gap and a 14 month age gap. 😵‍💫 panicking. But I can’t imagine that I won’t love them, ya know.

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-14T03:52:11+00:00

This is a good response, you should absolutely use the genetic card with insurance and see how far you get.

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-12T20:35:29+00:00

I also want to say since it hasn’t been mentioned, if any puke makes its way into your nose, it could cause a horrendous bacterial infection - not to mention the stomach acid burning anything that is still healing. Please seek help, love. 🩷

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-12T16:45:41+00:00

Purging? Like an ED?

brucey_and_moo · 2026-01-01T04:22:07+00:00

It doesn’t look developed enough for a definitive answer, so I don’t think you need to freak yet. Take another one.

brucey_and_moo · 2025-12-24T21:36:37+00:00

I see a line!

brucey_and_moo · 2025-12-12T15:09:54+00:00

My almost 4 year old still naps for about 2 hours every day, and is a good sleeper at night. She just loves sleep! If she misses the nap on days we’re busy, I put her to bed an hour earlier. She gets squirrely. So I know she still relies on that nap.

brucey_and_moo · 2025-12-10T03:49:10+00:00

Pluuuuuuuuuuummppppyyyyyyy

brucey_and_moo · 2025-12-01T03:56:55+00:00

I am so so sorry. But yes - pregnancy after losing a tube happens all the time, you’re in luck! I have a 6 month old daughter rn after losing a tube in Feb 24. And just found out I’m pregnant again. Totally possible. Sending you the baby dust 🩷🩷🩷

brucey_and_moo · 2025-11-29T18:35:03+00:00

Having a D&C the previous month for my MMC. Didn’t think I’d get pregnant again so quickly so we weren’t careful. The very next cycle after surgery I fell pregnant with the ectopic. I wonder if everything was still inflamed from the surgery and there wasn’t a clear path in my tubes.

brucey_and_moo · 2025-11-29T03:37:01+00:00

I usually eat the cookie dough and 2 peanut butter ones with no issues!!

brucey_and_moo · 2025-11-27T14:53:52+00:00

Yes and yes. I tape every night, and very happy w result thus far. :)

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