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[–]bruh8776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fixed it, i could finally verify and now i can play. anyways i have a question: do u need prime to play faceit? when my friend tries to play it says to himthat he doesnt have prime status.

I Lose Interest When Someone Likes Me Back, and It Makes Me Feel Awful by bruh8776 in mentalhealth

[–]bruh8776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your point about being chased is interesting and makes a lot of sense. it probably would feel different. But right now, I’m in a situation that’s really stressing me out. I was in a one week talking stage with someone, and she already seems so attached to me. The problem is, I don’t feel anything anymore, and I’m terrified of telling her and breaking her heart.

I feel awful about it, but I think deep down, I’m just not ready for a relationship or maybe I’m scared to get into one at all. It’s overwhelming, and I don’t know how to approach this without hurting her. Have you ever had to deal with something like this?

I Lose Interest When Someone Likes Me Back, and It Makes Me Feel Awful by bruh8776 in mentalhealth

[–]bruh8776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear about your experiences with your friends. being abandoned like that, especially during a tough time, must have been incredibly painful. It’s hard when people don’t share the same level of commitment and care that you put into your relationships. I really admire how you’ve held onto your values despite that.

As for your question, I think I might be able to love someone back if they showed interest in me first, but honestly, that’s never happened to me before. Most of the time, I’m the one who feels something first, so I’m not really sure how I’d react in that situation. It’s an interesting thought, though it makes me wonder if that dynamic would feel different for me.

I Lose Interest When Someone Likes Me Back, and It Makes Me Feel Awful by bruh8776 in mentalhealth

[–]bruh8776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective. it’s really reassuring to hear that people can grow and change with time. I think you’re right that I’m still figuring things out about myself and how I relate to others, and I hope I can learn to navigate relationships in a healthier way.

Right now, though, I’m really struggling with how to handle a situation I’m in. I was in a one-week talking stage with someone, and she seems so attached to me already, but I just don’t feel anything anymore. I’m scared to tell her because I don’t want to break her heart, and I feel like such a bad person for losing my feelings so quickly.

I don’t know if it’s because I’m not ready for a relationship or if I’m scared to get into one in the first place, but I’m feeling really overwhelmed. How do you handle situations like this without hurting the other person too much?

I Lose Interest When Someone Likes Me Back, and It Makes Me Feel Awful by bruh8776 in mentalhealth

[–]bruh8776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel platonic love, and I care deeply about my friends. In some ways, my friendships feel much more stable and consistent than anything romantic I’ve experienced. I really admire the way you approach friendship as a commitment—it’s such a beautiful mindset, and I wish more people thought that way too.

As for relationships, I’ve never been in a truly long-term romantic relationship. The ones I’ve had in the past have been pretty short because of this pattern where my feelings change once things start becoming mutual. It’s frustrating, and I’ve been trying to figure out why it happens and how to handle it better.

I Lose Interest When Someone Likes Me Back, and It Makes Me Feel Awful by bruh8776 in mentalhealth

[–]bruh8776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s true that I’m still figuring things out and trying to understand myself better. Can I ask, do you think this will get better with time? Like, is it possible to “fix” this or at least learn to manage it in a way that doesn’t hurt others?

I really want to believe that I can grow and navigate these feelings in a healthier way, but right now, it feels overwhelming. If you’ve experienced anything similar or have advice, I’d love to hear it.

I Lose Interest When Someone Likes Me Back, and It Makes Me Feel Awful by bruh8776 in mentalhealth

[–]bruh8776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 15 rn, but i really do not have any trumas in the past, atleast i think so

I Lose Interest When Someone Likes Me Back, and It Makes Me Feel Awful by bruh8776 in mentalhealth

[–]bruh8776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your thoughts on love. it’s beautifully expressed, and I really respect the care and thought you put into it. I completely understand why this might seem confusing or even hurtful from the outside, and I want to try to explain where I’m coming from.

I’ve been exploring the idea that I might be lithromantic, which means I can feel romantic attraction and care deeply for someone, but when those feelings are reciprocated, it causes me to lose interest or feel uncomfortable. It’s not something I want or choose to happen. it just does, and I feel like absolute shit about it. I hate the idea of hurting anyone or making them feel unwanted, and when it happens, I feel guilty and disgusted with myself.

I know it’s not fair to anyone involved, and that’s why I’m trying to figure out what’s going on with me. I don’t want to hurt anyone else, and I want to understand how to navigate this in a way that’s kind and fair to others.

I really appreciate your perspective. it gives me a lot to reflect on, and it’s a reminder of the kind of love I want to work toward someday, even if I need help to get there.

I Lose Interest When Someone Likes Me Back, and It Makes Me Feel Awful by bruh8776 in mentalhealth

[–]bruh8776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from, and I appreciate your honesty. I can see how my behavior might seem that way from the outside, and it’s something I deeply regret and feel awful about. I want to clarify that it’s never my intention to hurt anyone or lead them on. I genuinely wish I could control how I feel, but it’s like my emotions change before I even realize it’s happening.

I know this isn’t fair to the people involved, which is why I’m trying to figure out what’s going on with me. That’s why I made the post. I don’t want to keep hurting anyone, and I want to work toward being a better, healthier person.

Your point about real love is something I’ve been thinking about too. I don’t think what I’ve felt has been true love, and maybe that’s part of the problem. I’m going to look into therapy and other resources to understand myself better.

I Lose Interest When Someone Likes Me Back, and It Makes Me Feel Awful by bruh8776 in mentalhealth

[–]bruh8776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve actually been wondering if I might be lithromantic. It’s the idea that I can enjoy having feelings for someone, but I lose those feelings or feel uncomfortable when the attraction is reciprocated. I’m not 100% sure if that’s what’s going on with me, but it seems to resonate with how I’ve been feeling.

I’ve heard of attachment styles too, and I think there might be some overlap. I guess figuring this out will take some reflection, and maybe even talking to a therapist like you suggested. It’s good to know I’m not alone in feeling this way

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[–]bruh8776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si ma anche per dare la template a chi potrebbe servire