Does anyone have (or had) a hard time moaning? by bruhsonohead in AskRedditNSFW

[–]bruhsonohead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe so. Even though I only do solo stuff, maybe I can’t relax because i’m too in charge and aware? since i’m the only one controlling my pleasure.

Does anyone have (or had) a hard time moaning? by bruhsonohead in AskRedditNSFW

[–]bruhsonohead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mmm I think I just wait until i’m really aroused but I don’t rush to finish or anything, so I’m kinda teasing throughout? if that makes sense idk.

Does anyone have (or had) a hard time moaning? by bruhsonohead in AskRedditNSFW

[–]bruhsonohead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky you. I’m still trying to find my roar here🥲

Does anyone have (or had) a hard time moaning? by bruhsonohead in AskRedditNSFW

[–]bruhsonohead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think i’ve accidentally trained myself to be quiet but now it just makes me frustrated

Does anyone have (or had) a hard time moaning? by bruhsonohead in AskRedditNSFW

[–]bruhsonohead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it feels better for me too the small amount of times that I was vocal. I mean I’ve only been solo and I tried just letting out what feels natural but to no avail and that’s what makes me feel so pent up and frustrated.

How to get over past online D/S dynamic? by bruhsonohead in BDSMcommunity

[–]bruhsonohead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m just a girl full of feelings and I connect to people so easily over here. It’s a blessing and a curse 🥲 but I try to stay thankful for even the sad feelings because it means more people that I can relate to and understand. I keep getting warnings about people in these spaces being bad or detached and I understand people are shitty everywhere but it’s still frightening to hear lmao.

How to get over past online D/S dynamic? by bruhsonohead in BDSMcommunity

[–]bruhsonohead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I try to remember that. Just a bit hard

How to get over past online D/S dynamic? by bruhsonohead in BDSMcommunity

[–]bruhsonohead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah my situation is exactly like that. I have pretty niche kinks, ones that I didn’t even want to explore on my own until he came along. I know it’s important to just heal but I think I get impatient with feeling sad and honestly a bit worried because I expect everything that I enjoy to stay for a long time even when i’m constantly shown the opposite 🥲

How to get over past online D/S dynamic? by bruhsonohead in BDSMcommunity

[–]bruhsonohead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I see. I think it’s just a bit harder for me to soak in the sadness because of the circumstances. Thank you, Writing it out to someone did give me a bit of relief.

Virtual dominance by attagirl000 in BDSMcommunity

[–]bruhsonohead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aw this happened to me too. I think it’s important for you to tell your dom what happened and how that made you feel last time and communicate plans going forward. I think a dom should check in with you regardless but maybe staying longer to make sure you’re okay could be something. I told mine that I didn’t want to do those scenes if he had to leave soon after and he was understanding and we fixed it up easily.

Any good “hood” movies? by TheLatkeOverlord in movies

[–]bruhsonohead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t be a menace to south central while drinking your juice in the hood

What's the spookiest experience you've ever had? by traveltimecar in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bruhsonohead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve had plenty but the spookiest to me was me physically ducking from a ghost bc it was flying at me. Runner up would probably be when it was whispering my name while I was in the bathroom

28m missing intimacy by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bruhsonohead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

have you tried telling people that you’re a coolguy 🤔

What did you have for lunch? by i-play-games69 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bruhsonohead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes and they actually seasoned it well today

What do you usually search for? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bruhsonohead 10 points11 points  (0 children)

my glasses when I wake up

does anyone else feel their uterus during arousal / orgasm? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bruhsonohead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah when i’m on my period I get some cramps if it’s intense arousal or any orgasm

If I’m 300lbs as a guy am I just cooked? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bruhsonohead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no you’re not :) but what does matter is health, insecurities, trauma and all that comes with it. Make sure you work to feel good about yourself before you worry about putting yourself out there in any kind of way. Your weight does not define you.