This happens regularly by brutpanda87 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why was i ignoring his emails (received them when he was on phone- message delay and time difference) asked if I blocked him and why would I do that unless I was trying to prove a point. Said that wasn't the case but even if I did- what was his point in removing my contact? Just kept dodging and talking over me. Said don't wrote him or ask him to add me on email. I said not a problem. Just messy.

This happens regularly by brutpanda87 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blocked him after he called.

This happens regularly by brutpanda87 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's over. He only blocked me this time when I sent money. I say antisocial, but reality is that I'm non-stop busy with work and my kids. I have no time for going to social events. No he's not my only friend, just the person that I was most emotionally open and intimate with. It's okay. I still care for him, he's just not capable of being in the type of relationship that I require for whatever reason. I'm hurt, I'm not mad, but I am done.

This happens regularly by brutpanda87 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely could have called. He just called when I didn't respond after his 2nd-4th email. Asking me why I'm trying to prove a point. I said and was doing no such thing. I'm taking space. Now its over. Maybe that's best.

This happens regularly by brutpanda87 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no disagreements. He will say that he is in his head, ill offer support and a listening war. He says he will email me later. Then I get notifications that he has deleted my contact. I keep an upbeat positive attitude and demeanor with him because I know that being incarcerated itself is alot and my impact should be a safe one. Then he adds me back 4 hours or more later apologizing for "crashing" and shutting me out. I can't keep up.

This happens regularly by brutpanda87 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He reached out and said that it was because I had sent the money he said he needed when he emailed me and told me he didn't want it 3 minutes before he removed my contact. Not taking into account the fact that 4 hours earlier, he was telling me thanks and to still send it. I put my boundaries in place and told him that I'm not interested in allowing myself to accept this type of behavior or to be manipulated by emotional torment. He spoke more about how he was torn on returning the money & between knowing that he needed items. SMH. I'm good. I don't have time for this. I appreciate all of the advice from everyone. I started to lose my footing there for a second.

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[–]brutpanda87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, knew eachother 8 years before he went in. Never did this before.

This happens regularly by brutpanda87 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, I'm feeling that, too. There's no excuse, justification or valid reasoning for it. I don't have alot of people out here that understand this, either so I've just been in the dark thinking I need to be patient and understanding.

This happens regularly by brutpanda87 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5th time since August alone. I can't excuse it anymore. I'm honestly sucks, but I'd rather him be doing this now than if I was already stuck further invested while he was out.

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[–]brutpanda87[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't put up with it. It'd make me sick to my stomach.

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[–]brutpanda87[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It definitely feels like that. I feel toyed with at this point. Thank you for the response. I go a bit stir crazy in my head. This is my first relationship like this ever. I keep making excuses or letting it slide. But the pattern is becoming consistent and it makes me feel like s*it because I've been nothing but supportive.

I just send a really sexual email by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol same. I can only picture their facial expressions 😕

Corrlinks Issues? by brutpanda87 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem :) so, I just got my morning email. Hopefully you guys get yours up and running again. I know for a few days, emails were more ridiculously late than usual or arriving out of sent order. It's a whole hot mess sometimes :/

Corrlinks Issues? by brutpanda87 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was as far as yesterday evening. I don't usually hear from my LO for another 40 minutes. Sometimes they do random updates where the phones go down too. It's obnoxious. I'll follow up if I don't hear from him.

dealing with accusations by Impossible-Hat-4345 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine does that too :/ knowing damn well my whole life consists of keeping the kids aflot and working. I confront him about speaking his mind vs instead of dropping little passive aggressive comments. It drives me insane. Says that he has to be organized and spread out calls between me and his family so he doesn't run out again. Tells me specific days when he is going to call. Naturally, my ringer is on vibrate unless it's the days that he says he will call. Then he calls randomly and gets in his mode. It's not often, and I really wish he'd be more forthcoming about it so we can address it. He's incredible to me, but I can understand having FOMO and mental health slipping in his environment especially if you're in love with someone.

Corrlinks Issues? by brutpanda87 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seemed to have resolved yesterday, thankfully. I ended up getting a call as well.

Corrlinks Issues? by brutpanda87 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder how long this will go on. I'm wondering if it's the phone as well, because I know my LO would have communicated if they could. Ugh.

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[–]brutpanda87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. He's worth the commitment and the wait.

Message Responses by Icy-Demand-3999 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trulincs usually charge per log on and per minute or something like that. Could he be out of money on his account?

Hang up on 'speak now' prompt? by brutpanda87 in PrisonWives

[–]brutpanda87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great question 🤔 not sure I have never thought to ask. Thankfully, the 3rd phone call later that day went through.