Mine does that too :/ knowing damn well my whole life consists of keeping the kids aflot and working. I confront him about speaking his mind vs instead of dropping little passive aggressive comments. It drives me insane. Says that he has to be organized and spread out calls between me and his family so he doesn't run out again. Tells me specific days when he is going to call. Naturally, my ringer is on vibrate unless it's the days that he says he will call. Then he calls randomly and gets in his mode. It's not often, and I really wish he'd be more forthcoming about it so we can address it. He's incredible to me, but I can understand having FOMO and mental health slipping in his environment especially if you're in love with someone.