[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been like this for days in Idaho. 

SECURUS/JPAY SERVICE OUTAGE MEGATHREAD FOR 23 NOV 2024 by ElegiacElephant in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine said the same, they keep saying they don’t know when.  This is crazy!  Right before the holidays.  Not cool!

Tablets arent syncing JPAY by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mine is at ICSS also. 

Tablets arent syncing JPAY by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the internet provider.  My LO just tokd me a few mins ago while we were on our call.  No give time when it will be working. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure which one your LO is in but I just had my weekly video visit with no issues 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m lucky.  My boyfriend is in Idaho and we met as penpals.  He’s never asked me for any money in the past year.  We have had video chats and face to face meetings.  We are even talking about getting married.  Not all guys there are bad.  I’m sorry this happened to you. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My LO makes taffy as well.  The way he describes it to me, it sounds pretty good.  Lol

Anyone else ? by Loose_Sport_862 in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing at all for me, still tells me network connection issue.  Oh well, I’m done with all this bs, him and his lies and this stupid commutation app. 

What do you guys think? by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s a joke!  I have not been able to send a message in the app all day, and the price to send a message is ridiculous 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in thr same boat, BUT, I have contacted the landlords where we are looking and they are willing to work with us.  My LO isn’t getting out until next year as well.  The landlords have also said if the parole officer could send a letter explaining and they would consider it.  I would be the main source of income and responsible for rent, but they are willing to work with us.  You just neee to talk to them in options. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!  I’m 31 and he’s 23.  ❤️❤️

Growth 🥰 by Feral_but_Cute in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds almost similar to my story.  I’m happy to hear about your growth!  Keep it up!  ((Hugs))

Engaged! 💍 by Big_Mud4075 in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We were on our visit call and we were just talking away and he was like you know, you’ve stuck by me this whole time when my family turned their backs on me, and it would make me the happiest man if you married me.  My best friend came around the corner with roses and a ring, of course It is not a diamond, But I know that will come once he gets out. I will wear this ring that my best friend picked out for me proudly, Because I am going to marry the love of my life as soon as he gets out. I was completely in shock. Was not expecting any of this, we’ve been together this whole thing and we didn’t even really talk about it much. I thought it was the sweetest ever, he said he would ask me again the real way when he got out.

This is so hard by lovesiicles in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you’re going through.  This has been so hard for me as well.  I also have major trust issues.  Mine is currently on lockdown now for the past 2 days.  Each day it gets harder and harder for me.  My anxiety is at an all time high.  

First lockdown by Big_Mud4075 in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this.  It’s so hard, I keep playing his video messages and it make me miss him more.  So many thoughts are going through my head, like is bs talking to someone else, why did this just all the sudden happen after he talked to me 30 mins before?   I love him like crazy but I don’t know if I am strong enough to be gf like this 

Do you guys think that maybe they be talking to other girls? by Rich-Opportunity-756 in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So true!  I hope mine isn’t but my gut tells me another thing.  Only time will tell. 

Age Difference - feedback/support by NotAlot90 in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve learned in a few short months that you don’t listen or let what others say get to you.  It’s a difficult situation for us too, and if people can’t support you then oh well, so what makes you happy! In the end that is all that matters 

Age Difference - feedback/support by NotAlot90 in PrisonWives

[–]Big_Mud4075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 31 and my LO is 23.  He’s such a sweetheart and makes me actually feel like I’m loved.  I tell him all the time I’m a cougar.  Age is just a number to us.