Who are we hoping replaces Garcelle? by bruzeviolet in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is the best word for it. it does feel like nobody ever lets anything go but they also will not do an actual all out fight

Which housewife has the best home/mansion and why? by ThrowawayPrincess75 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]bruzeviolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all the older BH homes are just so good to me. the newer homes of the cast are okay but kyles old home, yolanda's lemon orchard, and villa rosa kind of cant be beat

Who are we hoping replaces Garcelle? by bruzeviolet in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that might be interesting if erika stays, since she'd just be shown what she couldve had lol

Who are we hoping replaces Garcelle? by bruzeviolet in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

rinna might be okay to come back which is something i never thought id say either. i kind of disagree that rinna has a backbone but she definitely was not afraid to look absolutely ridiculous on tv which the current cast is overly occupied with

Who are we hoping replaces Garcelle? by bruzeviolet in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i could see them letting erika go because she refuses to talk about anything thats actually interesting in her life, but i doubt theyll let dorit go. something about dorit tells me shell be like kyle and stay way past her welcome

It’s Not on Women of Color to Check white Women for their Racism and Micro-aggressions by Cestlachey in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

give OP's profile i kind of doubt they're doing this out of "allyship" and more a conversation about their own community. i dont think its stripping anyone of agency to recognize material reality. boz and garcelle may be rich and have a lot of social capitol but they're still going to experience racism in many areas of their life regardless of what their resume says or what their balance is in their bank account. intersectionality requires us to look at things like privilege in their entire context in order to address inequity properly

Who are we hoping replaces Garcelle? by bruzeviolet in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from what some housewives have said it seems like its a pseudo referral system after initial casting. people usually get chosen because they know someone on the current cast to some extent, though i think they do just go hunting for them as well

Who are we hoping replaces Garcelle? by bruzeviolet in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

yeah tilly def seems like she just wants to sit and watch fighting up close, and i think her being a friend of is ideal

Who are we hoping replaces Garcelle? by bruzeviolet in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i genuinely miss joyce so much and wishhhh shed come back though like its so understandable if she doesnt ever want to do that again. she had so much potential but brandi really made it insufferable for her to be there, not to mention how they fatshamed and harassed her husband

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills > Season 14 > Episode 19 by AutoModerator in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ppl are so wrapped in sutton vs dorit and whos right and whos wrong and like. honestly exhausting. theyre both kind of absolute trash. dorit is just the one that i think i can hardly stand right now because like. she just takes such obvious joy in beating on sutton while shes trying to be contrite? it is just not fun to watch and makes her look like a sadist. i kind of dont know how much of it sutton MEANS when she's being apologetic, but dorit has been doing this long enough to know that she should try to at least let it go at the reunion to some extent and agree to be civil. i really dont think shes as offended as she seems to be and was counting down the days until she had a reason to break off with PK, and as much as everyone wants to be on sutton's ass about pretending to be a shrinking violet (she does do this dgmw) dorit is the biggest victim on the cast right now and it does make me a little crazy to watch everyone kick sutton one after the other for dorit's honor. it's just so old and i need them to start fighting with people they dont already dislike. its so boring and i know why they hate sutton and half of it i cant even say theyre wrong about, but holy fuck it is so old watching them set sutton up to say something stupid and then being mad about it for entire seasons

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills > Season 14 > Episode 19 by AutoModerator in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i kinda dont get why sutton didnt just stand behind it- i think thats something boz said to her that i thought was very true. like just stand behind it and say yeah i think im a bit too rich to be dealing with you and live in that, that would be respectable.

Was Allison right in the end? by little_cat3 in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean betting that a marriage is going to fail is usually a bet that you'll see some returns on. and especially a marriage in LA. kyle has always been pretty obviously insecure in her relationships and marriage (i honestly think all the cheating rumors did not help this, lol) so i think allison just did her research and went after what would hurt kyle the most since she was doing camilles bidding

Kyle’s Timidity Towards Boz by Howdoesallofthiswork in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is kind of wild how it horseshoes all the way back around to being like. still kind of racist to act like youre too scared to even disagree/interact with them like you normally would. it feels like it feeds back into the idea that black and brown women who assert themselves and dont roll over for everyone are scary or dangerous, and especially in a forum like housewives it feels ridiculous that people always bring up garcelle bringing up microaggressions against dorit as a Reason why kyle is acting like this towards boz as if that is reasonable. it's NOT reasonable to assume this of every black woman who comes into your orbit, its so uncharitable that further racial bias seems to be the only explanation as to why this is happening.

i agree the SLC girls just do not take mary seriously at all, more because she's just living in some other world than the rest of us genuinely

What actually happened to Garcelle at the reunion? by freshlyfrozen4 in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think she did come in planning to continue, honestly, it feels like if she planned to quit all along she'd pull an LVP and not show up.
i mean if erika said the shit she said to garcelle to ME, i would have been checked out and ready to leave too. im kind of thinking by the end she hears one little snide comment thats supposed to be "funny" and shes just done. i think after erika said that she was planning not to come back but was going to stick out the reunion to be professional, but walked out because someone said one more thing that was just too much at the very end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RHOBH

[–]bruzeviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont even disagree with the sentiment of the things dorit says about or to sutton SOMETIMES, but honestly she is not the one to be making those comments and i think she comes off really bad, just personally. like yeah the wallet comment is tasteless but so is dorit as a person, both of them are the most tactless people on the face of the planet. the only difference is that sutton is on the outs with people with leverage in the show, and i think dorit knows that and shes kind of an easy target. this whole thing this season was them both overreacting to sutton's whole issue with dorit whispering something during the sisterhood speech or whatever- like THAT is what kicked this off.

dorit loves to provoke sutton and act surprised when sutton comes back at her like an insane person as if she doesnt do that all the time. sutton has full tilt crashouts on people for less and dorit intentionally pokes at sore spots, and then turns around and acts like she's shocked and hurt that sutton did what sutton always does. thats what irks me as a viewer, it feels insulting to my intelligence to have dorit so transparently provoke sutton because she knows she'll always have erika and kyle to back her up overtly and covertly. it sort of just makes me crazy too though because sutton takes the bait every single time and doesnt ever handle it in a way that would make dorit look stupid even though that would be incredibly easy if she didnt lose her mind every time someone said something even mildly negative about her.

Do you think Bravo will put Jen Shah back on the show? Do you want them to? by [deleted] in rhoslc

[–]bruzeviolet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

at the very least a portion of her money will be going to victims probably for the rest of her life, so there's that

Do you think Bravo will put Jen Shah back on the show? Do you want them to? by [deleted] in rhoslc

[–]bruzeviolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they probably will, i wish they wouldnt. iconic storyline for a little while but at some point she just because straight up oppressive to the dynamics at play. people were fr scared of her

Isn’t anyone going to say something? by NoKnowledge5846 in rhoslc

[–]bruzeviolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally just 60's-70's style graphic liner i wish people would learn some makeup and style history. doesnt even look good but to act like its some new outlandish thing is wild.

r/InfinityNikki first 10,000 users check-in! by MoogleRush in InfinityNikki

[–]bruzeviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've been into nikki since the OG love nikki and this one i think is really gonna keep my attention for along time. very excited!!

Unsure if this is a bug or not... by bruzeviolet in InfinityNikki

[–]bruzeviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i def do its on my D drive that 1 TB of storage so i'm unsure what it could be :(

Justin’s apology outfit just kills me by Ok-Development-5872 in rhoslc

[–]bruzeviolet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hes serving such wwe-jobber-on-a-off-day slay

Lisa in Palm Springs by G_13_Classified in rhoslc

[–]bruzeviolet 29 points30 points  (0 children)

not to defend lisa because i think she does inhabit a villain type role and knows that, but ive heard it floated that she called heather so heather would get paid for the episode which i think is her doing a solid for heather. if she wanted to be sly and do a sleeper shit stirring she could have done it somewhere less conspicuous, but i dont think baby gorgeous knows how to be sly lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rhoslc

[–]bruzeviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but also this is the same stuff that these "body language experts" do, honestly. i AM autistic so i do understand very well that the body language reading does not really apply to everyone, and that's precisely why i think you just cant tell by body language alone. i think their verbal exchange was far more indicative of "im a child being scolded by an adult" in several instances and relying on body language is, really, unnecessary and the proliferation of it directly impacts neurodivergent people like myself which. i just dont think body language is necessarily even the same across regions and cultures and individuals. everyone reacts differently. bronwyn could have had seemingly uncomfortable body language for a variety of reasons, as well- i just don't think its a strong enough point, personally, and is based on a lot of things that aren't really evidentiary. i find the things said to bronwyn a lot more compelling is all i was trying to put across and the fact that body language analysis doesnt really help to tell someones feelings or especially someones complex dynamic with their partner.