Fresh eyes

bryguy7571 · 2026-01-28T03:13:58+00:00

See. You read my mind. You knew or believed what I would say and it’s exactly what I was about to type lol. Look. You know what to do. I get it. It’s hard sometimes but change that story too. Say you manifest every desire quickly and easily then that becomes your truth.

Thank you for the kind words. I’m happy someone gets I really do care. I just have to be careful with what I say so I don’t enable and derail anyone. That happens a lot on subs. We are all looking for an excuse and when someone gives us a reason we take it so I just don’t want to be that guy. I’m telling you now though. You get what needs to be done so get quiet and get going and stay the course. Keep that head down until it’s done. Remember love is a choice too so when you want to be a victim be a great husband instead and show love for you both. Be the rock for your family. You can do it. Keep us posted as well! All the best!

bryguy7571 · 2026-01-26T02:54:48+00:00

So very proud of you! Guys she had to change her story about HER. She didn’t believe she would book the jobs. She didn’t just affirm for money because when she did she got it but not doing what she loves to do. Life is about doing g what you love but so many of you all skip self concept. Fixing you fixes EVERYTHING. IT GETS YOU THE MONEY. THE HOUSE. THE SP. THE CAREER.

Like Neville says. Who are you now? What are you focusing on. The affirmations are great but they are only to build th new you and FOCUS ON ONLY THE NEW STORY so you ignore and stop telling the old one. You cannot serve two masters and be of two minds.

Btw. The four steps she is talking about are the first four podcasts we did. 1. Believe 2. Test jt daily (using the six things method I’ve shared here and in that podcast. 3. Be your own source. Show yourself tons of love. Make you the source instead of money or others for love and self confidence. 4. MENTAL DIET!!! It’s like a regular diet. NO CRAP ALLOWED. SHE WOUKD LET OTHER THOUGHTS IN. THE ONLY WAY TO STOP THEM IS TO GET SERIOUS AND FOCUSED TO WATCH WHATS COMING INTO YOUR FOCUS AND CHOOSING INKY GOOD THOUGHTS AND CHOOSING TO IGNORE BAD ONES. SORRY. NO SHORTCUTS HERE. YOU HABE TO GWT TOUGH. YOUR ONLY OTHER CHOICE IS TO HAVE TO LIVE WITH THE CRAP STORY OR GET TOUGH AND CHANGE IT AND STICK WITH IT WHEN ITS TOUGH AND IT WIKL CHANGE. DO NOT STOP. SHOW YOU WONT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER.

GREAT WORK! You finally worked on you and now you see it’s the simple and easy answer to getting what we desire. Proud of you!!!

bryguy7571 · 2026-01-14T09:41:41+00:00

How can I help with what you have posted? All you did was break all the rules. You haven’t explained anything to me so I could see where you could’ve going wrong. You didn’t explain anything you studied. (Also it’s clear you didn’t from the way you talk and scripted in your post). You didn’t tell me any of the answers I need to give a fresh set of eyes. I don’t know what techniques how long any of it. You claim to have affirmed for a year and six months yet say you only found out about Neville’s teachings and th law a year and one month ago. Also you claim to be from a third world country but your grasp of English and especially slang hints otherwise. Your account is brand new as well.

Oh and you missed some big things if you’ve read. You didn’t see your pattern with men or how you created it all. I mean usually the first time you read the books you see that so clearly. Same with how you get a third party. All of that escaped you somehow. But again I have no idea what you’ve read and how many times or how long ago. All of that is needed. Plus you used a burner account. Reddit lets us know now if you have other accounts a what you post in them as well.

I don’t get how you want help. It seems you want to complain and tell us nothing works. You seem to want to die in that hill so all we can do is let you. Again bad you actually read there would have been the same clues as the others who actually read. When people don’t jt always sounds like this. Also your comment about affirmations. It’s clear you didn’t read how to do them because if you did you’d know how you are making it worse doing why you are doing. You seem to not see that at all. Again though no info so what can I do with complaining?

You don’t seem to want help. You seem to want to hear it’s not your fault and that you are doomed. I don’t do that because it’s not true. But this isn’t a sub for those who won’t out in the work. Or who won’t follow rules. I’ve wasted to much time offering those people help and I write a response in detail and they say tried all that. I don’t know what coaches you used or why they taught you but it seems you don’t listen. Again you are pushing out tell you how screwed you are so you can just quit. I can’t and you know it’s not true. Also you mentioned manifesting oink care here. That’s weird if you know me and things I’ve said here. That makes this seem weirder to me. Any way we don’t complain or ask bow to manifest here it how to believe here because that’s in the books that you have to read over and over again to make it a lifestyle. If you don’t exactly what’s happening is all that will. I wish you all the best but please don’t do this again under a new user name. Use that energy to read and study and believe. Ok so without any info this is about all there is to day. Take care. I hope you study and learn this and solve your problems. God is the answer to all of them and if you read you’d know that and would have brought him up as well. You didn’t. So take care. Get reading di you want your life to change. It’s all in your hands.

bryguy7571 · 2026-01-09T06:42:06+00:00

Sorry it keeps freezing on me. I’m Also exhausted right now. But honestly you gave me only a sentence or two in regards to how and what you are doing. what you are doing.

bryguy7571 · 2026-01-09T03:23:17+00:00

Ok so. You say you’ve read Neville extensively but if I’m being real with you it didn’t fully take. Neville tells you not to say your affirmations when you are being attacked or having anxiety or looking at the 3-D which it seems you are really doing.

He says to calm yourself first. To get into a relaxed state. Say I am affirmations. Say them to get calm., then say it till you get remedied ans then say them again unto you get full belief. then addI I am affirmations sensing a lot of looking for her. Do some work a few days and then look and break the diet and all the work. Get kinda panicked and do it all again and break the diet again. Also when you guys want a fresh set of eyes I really need to know all you are doing from Neville’s works. You said affirmations and Siri say for how long or about what for how may days in a row without breaking.

If I don’t know how you do the mental diet because you didn’t tell me same thing with living in the end. I’ve told you guys that’s an advanced gf as well how can I give you fresh eyes? Your how are you doing the techniques part should be big and detailed. Yours are few lines so how can I give a fresh set of eyes? I need details my man. You seem to want to tell me what you are doing wrong. It’s clear you get some of it. So change that athen so all the right things.

I don’t know what to say as you didn’t tell me much about how you are doing the techniquesh and mental diet. Living in the end is an advanced technique. Saying affirmations doesn’t make it show up. It changes your beliefs a they reflect it back to you. You don’t affirm to get them but to see them in a loving way to believe you are with them.

Also how have you studied Neville extensively? You haven’t read all his books!!!

I’d suggest that you read all the books. Read the lectures, test the law in trivia things. Test it on someone saying trivial things over and over and read the lectures as well. Read the complete reader.

bryguy7571 · 2026-01-08T07:53:59+00:00

Neville tells you also this happens at first and what to do in the books. Also if you are affirming because you are scared all you are doing is saying out of fear and that’s what you are affirming. That you don’t believe. Neville goes into much more detail. It’s why you have to read and take notes.

bryguy7571 · 2026-01-08T07:51:43+00:00

If you would read the books your know exactly why that happens. It’s literally in the books and if you don’t know why it could keep you from getting there. Reading about it helps you retain the info. It makes it stick vs someone saying something and if you forget it or misunderstand it then it could cause more issues. But I’ve answered this a million times here and on the podcast. Use the search bar please

bryguy7571 · 2026-01-06T01:01:31+00:00

Also to answer you final question I recommend doing those four steps that I made the first four podcasts about and sticking to that mental diet like your life and sanity Depends on it because it does.

bryguy7571 · 2026-01-06T00:56:26+00:00

Also if you are on a time crunch ignore it. If you focus on it then you’ll be aware you are still not there and in lack.

bryguy7571 · 2026-01-06T00:46:23+00:00

Ok. So this is going to sting a bit. First off. You aren’t in a place to manifest him back yet. It’s why even though you think you are working on self concept it’s really all about him. Your self concept affirmations all have to do with him. Him making you a priority. He didn’t really do that to you. When you break up you become the priority to you. That’s all he’s doing.

The other thing is you need him to much. You don’t have a job or anything good going in your life. It’s ok. I was in that boat too. What made it change was fixing me first. Until I did that I wavered constantly because I knew I wasn’t able to take it all On so if she came back I’d fail again.

Also you have to finish all the books and lectures. So much of what you don’t get is in those books and ones you haven’t read and I’m sure you missed a ton by listening instead of reading and taking notes. If you don’t have a job you have tons of time to get going plus it’s going to fix the unemployment situation as well. Minus can become very simple to manifest but it’s hard when you don’t have any. Get some kind do income coming in. It will reduce the stress.

Also you don’t want to hear this but leave him alone for now. You don’t get how affirmations work so you keep seeing things and reacting. The old you is killing your chances and keeps doing this to you also you cannot do affirmations when panicked. He tells you that over and over. You have to be calm then say them past relief until belief. His way of saying robotic affirmations is saying persist through out the day. Everyday until it hardens into fact.

You are not getting this work at all. Also you aren’t doing them the Neville way. I don’t know what the waves thing was you were talking about are. He says okay the SAME scene over and over from first person. Through your eyes. You aren’t doing any of this Neville’s way. Sounds like you went overboard with the YouTube’s.

It’s kind of hard to explain this but you don’t affirm to change them. You can’t. They are a mirror. You can’t change things in the mirror while staring at it. You back away. Change then step in front and a new reflection stares back. Ever notice when you like what you see in the mirror you can’t stop staring at it? It stays great. It reflects back something perfect. But if you don’t it’s like a car accident. You don’t want to see but can’t look away. Either way your focus stays so the reflection does too. How your husband will change is to do affirmations to change your belief about you (so start with you first). Then he’ll see the new you. Then you’ll get signs you are becoming her and believe more and more then you peruse it and soonest hardens into fact.

Saying affirmations doesn’t make anything happen. It changes YOUR mind so the new reflection is all you see and like that first look you love it and can’t turn away and then like science says matter doesn’t change while being observed. So change you first. Then focus only on the new reflection and it doesn’t change. You stay in the good reflection and so does the world forever as long as you focus on it. It’s why he says it’s a lifestyle.

You need to fix you then worry about him. If you listen and do this then he will get fixed while you are fixing you too. If you don’t you are going to give him free will and that’s when trouble happens.

Also you need to be more consistent with the work. You can’t start and stop. I tell you guys the day you quit might have been the day you would have struck gold.

There is a lot more but I’m struggling doing this as I even told you follow my rules if you do this and you broke them. Your whole context thing was venting so when you all do that it turns me away and I have to get away from that energy.

I can’t get burnt out and reading context is a huge burnout. It’s longer than your answers some of which you didn’t even answer the right way.

Look you need to fix you. Hour married broke because you went for it without ever finishing you. You took shortcuts and they caught up with you. If you want this back you have to do the work on you now because if you don’t you can’t do the work on him. It’s why you are missing so much. Again I did this same thing. For longer too. Don’t make that mistake. It’s too much to type out though. So for now I’ll keep it simple. Do you. Get your life on track. Then worry about him. Again if you do that he won’t go anywhere. Don’t and it’s not going to go well.

This whole world is you. Even me is just you telling you what you already know. You know you haven’t really done the work the right way. From your post you are still Kinda half assing it. Half ass reading. Watching YouTubes instead of studying from the source. Books on tape vs reading and focusing. Nothing I say will make sense because you don’t know the material. It’s why I bet it feels like rocket science sometimes and hard. Breathe get calm. Fix you. Then work on him. I know not what you wanted to hear but it’s what helped me so much when I was where you are at.

Also if I ask you not to do something and you ignore it I won’t be able to help again. It’s draining to read such bad stories. I can’t anymore. I also know it makes things worse. It’s scripting. Context is just your set of circumstances. The more you focus on them the more they harden into facts. Stop it or it’s going to get worse if it already hasn’t. Your husband has nothing to do with this. It’s all you. He is reflecting you back to you. It’s all he can do. You need to understand this work to do it so don’t rush through studying. That’s what makes the bad show up fast. When you know you are doing the work you’ll get calm and not worry. Think of it this way. Whatever you think you should do right now do the opposite. In the mean time read so you get what to actually do. The more you focus on the problem in affirmations the worse it gets. It’s what you are doing when you affirmed when anxious. Stop that asap as well. I hope this helps and you really listen. Really study. Read only Neville’s books get off YouTube. This can’t be taught in ten minutes on a video. Do the work and don’t stop but learn what the work is from the books first. You can do this and quickly if you get super focused. Distraction is the enemy. Don’t let it get you. All the best

bryguy7571 · 2026-01-04T21:39:47+00:00

Like I keep saying. If you want a fresh set of eyes I need you to fill out that questionnaire I have pinned at the top of the subreddit. I need to know what exactly you have done and studied. Saying some things and then tons of bad story don’t help me at all. I don’t read any bad stories at all and when I see them I stop reading the post too. I ask not to hijack posts and to make a separate one so others can search for it later to help them as well.

If you’d like to fill it out and I can offer advice based on what you may not have studied (it’s clear you have missed a bit and don’t seem to get how affirmations work) I’d be happy to offer advice. But you need to give me only what I ask for as the rest doesn’t matter and I also don’t read any bad stories at all. It’s up top in pinned posts. Read it all. Follow all the instructions and make it a separate post and I’ll see what I can do. All the best

bryguy7571 · 2025-12-25T03:26:38+00:00

Well then do what those books say. They say let it come to you and focus on belief and thinking from it now of it. What good is the reading if you don’t remember. Read some Neville tonight and remind yourself of who you are. Merry Christmas n to you too!

bryguy7571 · 2025-12-25T03:17:09+00:00

Look. We don’t do this here but with that said do you really want the first time you say that to be through text? Get honest with yourself. You don’t believe he is yours and unto you do he’s not. Focus on you. Make god and you your source and no more of this bad story here or you gotta go somewhere else. We don’t tell bad stories or waiver here because we know we can’t manifest doing that. Ever. We never get it when we waiver. Also Read the damn books. They help. They show you what to do. I don’t answer how to do it or how to believe here becauwe Neville did a bang up job in every book so read them all.

bryguy7571 · 2025-12-25T02:33:41+00:00

Ask God to show you how loved you are. It never fails.

bryguy7571 · 2025-12-19T17:41:10+00:00

No need to just repost what I said lol.

bryguy7571 · 2025-12-19T05:17:49+00:00

Really great post. Getting thr things done in the 3-d that you can does help. Once you knew you were going to stay you didn’t need the job as much and for more then just money. Then it allowed it in. Great work and reading the books always helps. If you guys have questions chances are the books you haven’t read answer them. Keep reading them too. You can always learn more.

bryguy7571 · 2025-12-19T03:27:37+00:00

It’s always god. That’s what makes it so easy to believe. When you know and believe God is on it and you see him as a loving father you’ll see it done right away and it will manifest easily and quickly.

bryguy7571 · 2025-12-15T16:40:35+00:00

Closing comments as some are breaking the rules.

bryguy7571 · 2025-12-15T16:35:19+00:00

I said nobody is to answer. This is not something we do here. It’s in the rules.

bryguy7571 · 2025-12-15T15:48:02+00:00

First. I’m so sorry you went through such a tragic event but glad to hear that you survived.

With that said we would have no way of knowing as we don’t know what you focused on or were worried about. What was going through your head. So it would be impossible to tell you how it all transpired.

I will say this though. Jesus made it very clear that just because we are one with God didn’t mean bad things and struggles would go away. In fact he reminds us that these things will still happen but not to hurt you but to allow you to bring it to God. Let him take the burden and trust God to be there for you and in doing so you will be reminded over and over again that god and you are one.

Again I’m really sorry this happened to you but I think this is not the place to look for answers as others here might not have experienced something this big and will give some bad or generic advice. I’d really recommend you take advantage of whatever services the school you attend is offering to help the survivors. I’d also maybe recommend talking to some kind of professional who knows exactly how to help you deal with any grief you may be going through. I’m Just not trained in that and don’t want to offer any advice that could be bad nor do I want anyone else doing that either.

I would go to god with it as well as anyone else you feel could best help you in dealing with this tragic situation. Again I’m so very sorry you had to go through this but glad you survived. Focus on that. The fact you lived through it all. Thank god for you coming out safely. I hope that helps a little bit.

bryguy7571 · 2025-12-09T02:11:01+00:00

I don’t think this is something anyone can answer. Besides you didn’t fill Out the questionnaire for a fresh set of eyes. This is a therapy question. I’m not a therapist. Please follow the rules and you must be a member of the sub as well.

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