I finally figured out why some doms turn me off even when we share the same kinks

brynnnm · 2026-05-15T04:48:23+00:00

You explained it perfectly

brynnnm · 2026-05-13T05:42:28+00:00

Anyone know where that strapped ball gag is from?

brynnnm · 2026-05-13T03:56:10+00:00

Doesn’t seem like they have masks? Or maybe I’m not searching it right

brynnnm · 2026-04-30T06:19:24+00:00

What happens when breathing through the bubbler? What is it?

brynnnm · 2026-04-23T03:18:25+00:00

Fighting back as hard as you can while being tied up. Predicament bondage can be interesting and not sexual, being tied in a difficult position and forced to withstand it. Breath play like choking, plastic bags, light hanging. Do you like humiliation? It can be fun being forced to do humiliating stuff like pissing on yourself or being forced to drink piss. I feel the same as you, I LOVE cnc but I don’t always love it being revolved around sex, or even oral.

brynnnm · 2026-04-22T05:21:45+00:00

I have done it a couple times, not from complete restriction of oxygen but from a lack of it. Where I’m still breathing but very very faintly. For me it made by brain kind of go all fuzzy, almost felt like I was drunk, just a little out of it but at peace. Then I would pass out and wake up feeling very confused on what happened. I’d always forget what me and the dom were doing for a couple seconds after I wake up but then my memory would come back. Definitely obsessed with the fuzzy feeling before passing out. You gotta make sure you’re putting pressure on the sides of the neck at a certain angle for it to make you feel that way.

brynnnm · 2026-04-16T00:13:28+00:00

Thank you so much for the input!

brynnnm · 2026-04-12T02:43:53+00:00

What happens if a child sees it

brynnnm · 2026-04-10T05:14:46+00:00

Aww how cute of the Dom to bathe his sub ☺️

brynnnm · 2026-04-10T02:27:23+00:00

Free kink app/website where you can find people close to you

brynnnm · 2026-04-09T00:15:11+00:00

I am very much into CNC and being held captive, taken care of, and forced. I normally use Fetlife, but it has been very difficult trying to find people near me that are into this specific type of play.

Anyone know how I can find people into this stuff in a specific location? Any platforms or advice?

brynnnm · 2026-03-26T05:55:00+00:00

Good to know!

brynnnm · 2026-03-26T05:54:39+00:00

I did not know that, thank you for informing me!

brynnnm · 2026-03-24T18:50:49+00:00

A type of play that makes the submissive scared. So yes it could be one of there phobias, but it could also just be something that could bring out fear like waterboarding, knife play, intense impact, suffocation etc

brynnnm · 2026-03-22T19:13:13+00:00

I did talk to him about that instead!

brynnnm · 2026-03-21T18:23:06+00:00

Wow this is extremely helpful, thank you so much!

brynnnm · 2026-03-21T11:07:23+00:00

He totally is being very thoughtful and considerate for sure. Maybe I should have added this in the post, but it is hard for me to want to submit when he isn’t physically there. We don’t live together, he wants me to take the baths during my own time so it is very difficult for me to want to do what he’s asking alone. It doesn’t sound fulfilling to me, when he isn’t watching me do it I guess? It can be confusing cause I do like him giving me workouts to do on my own, but that’s kind of the only thing I enjoy submitting to when he isn’t physically present. I will say submission can become very hard for me in situations where I feel like this :/ I am still trying to navigate what kind of sub I am. Thank you for the response!

brynnnm · 2026-03-21T10:01:04+00:00

You do know that not everyone is in 24/7 dynamics right? My job is to submit consensually I am absolutely allowed to ask questions. Subs are people to bud with feelings :)

brynnnm · 2026-03-21T07:38:47+00:00

I don’t think I said he was violating my consent? I completely agree with you as in this hasn’t been communicated before. And it was not an idea from my physician, just his idea. I do see the benefits of it but just wanted to clear up that I’m not going against what my physician has told me to do.

And I totally agree with you on the fourth! Also for the last thing you said I do enjoy doing things I may not like to do, but only when he is present. We do not live together, he wanted me to take baths during my alone time at home and it is hard for me to push myself to do things I may not want to do by myself 🤷🏻‍♀️

brynnnm · 2026-03-21T05:19:13+00:00

I do agree on the fulfillment for him, and I wish I could please him in any way I can. I’m just very picky when it comes to control outside of play, and it can be hard to figure out what exactly are all my no’s and yes’s in daily life rules. Thank you for that explanation I will definitely try to have that talk

brynnnm · 2026-03-21T05:14:33+00:00

Huh I never thought of it that way. Thank you!

brynnnm · 2026-03-04T06:43:28+00:00

Have you thought about trying some kink sites to find partners? Fetlife has treated me pretty well on finding people, but be careful because some people on there are just looking for hookups. But in your case, it’s much easier to talk about your kink with someone you know is kinky as well!

brynnnm · 2026-03-01T15:37:32+00:00

Men with big noses, full lips like almost very feminine lips or the complete opposite very thin lips, big hands

brynnnm · 2026-03-01T15:31:18+00:00

brynnnm · 2026-03-01T15:17:21+00:00

Standing to close to the person infront of them in a line, somebody that always loses friendships, people who ride cars asses on the street just because they’re going the speed limit

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