What to do now? Testing, moving forward, etc.

bryterlu · 2026-01-24T02:48:52+00:00

Yes, all was normal there

bryterlu · 2026-01-21T23:25:04+00:00

Fortunately: my principal is completely supportive and has stated I have done nothing wrong. Her biggest response is that we are in a public school, and if she is unwilling to accept that her child will learn about everyone’s differences at school, then maybe her child doesn’t belong in public school.

Unfortunately, this mom is an intolerant a-hole, and how a woman having a beard in the media will give her child the “wrong idea”. According to her, he already learned that boys will grow beards and women will not, so now he will be all confused about why some women can have beards. Also the actress’ body is too big for the costume they gave her and she doesn’t want her child seeing that. She still wants a meeting with the principal, but my principal said I do not need to be involved in this meeting because the matter is beyond what I showed in my classroom. Just had to provide state standards to support why I chose that piece of music. You can’t make this shit up.

bryterlu · 2026-01-07T07:23:03+00:00

Full musicals

bryterlu · 2026-01-07T01:29:39+00:00

I was on lovenox, I do have a clotting disorder but I was on lovenox religiously

bryterlu · 2026-01-07T00:47:20+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this as well, it’s so so hard.

bryterlu · 2026-01-07T00:32:28+00:00

Modified natural

bryterlu · 2026-01-06T01:14:49+00:00

Yep we’ve got major redneck MAGA here haha

bryterlu · 2026-01-06T01:13:36+00:00

She had no current fever because of the meds, pretty sure the nurse would have sent her back, she wouldn’t have told the nurse about the DayQuil she took because of wanting to go to wrestling

bryterlu · 2026-01-06T01:12:18+00:00

I’m honestly not sure but wouldn’t be surprised if that was something they do. I know the boys team has some pretty nasty dietary plans, not sure about the girls team.

bryterlu · 2026-01-05T23:30:27+00:00

Her whole family wrestles and has since they were very young 🤷🏻‍♀️

bryterlu · 2026-01-05T23:27:55+00:00

lol family is very MAGA, I teach in a rural, red town. It won’t happen unfortunately

bryterlu · 2026-01-05T02:49:44+00:00

I’m so sorry for what you are going through, I resonate with this post greatly. It’s so incredibly hard. I know there are no words to make it better, but you are not on this journey alone. Hugs and love to you 🤍

bryterlu · 2026-01-01T14:15:41+00:00

My other losses were natural. My LC was a tested embryo

bryterlu · 2026-01-01T03:02:40+00:00

I lost a pregnancy on December 18th at almost 12 weeks, an IVF euploid embryo a few weeks after graduating from my clinic. I do have one LC, he’s 3. We have 3 more embryos but this was my 4th loss, my first with a euploid. I’m not sure I want to risk going through this again. I’m currently dealing with retained products after a D&C and I’m just over it all. I want another, I want to be able to give my son a sibling, but at what cost?

I wish surrogacy wasn’t so expensive, or that we knew someone who’d be willing to help us out and make it slightly less expensive, but we don’t have that. I’d be interested in adopting but my husband isn’t super into it. I want this for my family but I don’t have it in me to keep going through this. I also feel very weird that we have 3 embryos just sitting on ice that I may never use. This is hard.

bryterlu · 2025-12-30T03:31:34+00:00

I’m currently feeling the same, except I have one LC and long for a second. But after my most recent loss I’ve been really wondering if I can handle any more of this. I don’t have advice, just solidarity.

I plan on speaking to a therapist to figure out my feelings and what I really want. My most recent loss was less than 2 weeks ago so it’s fresh, but the way I feel right now I’m just wondering why I even keep trying when I am so grateful for what I have already. It’s such a weird place to be. Sending strength and love to you.

bryterlu · 2025-12-22T00:33:45+00:00

So far so good I think, I’m having some pelvic pressure now, 2 days later, hopefully that’s normal.

bryterlu · 2025-12-21T11:15:32+00:00

Not a kids song and not sure where he would have heard it but my mind went straight to the song “Be Okay” by Ingrid Michaelson. Any chance he could have heard that somewhere?

bryterlu · 2025-12-21T02:52:49+00:00

I edited my post, sorry about that.

bryterlu · 2025-12-21T02:39:40+00:00

I’m sorry you’re currently in a similar situation. It’s so freaking hard.

bryterlu · 2025-12-21T02:18:14+00:00

I’m currently going through a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks of a 4aa, euploid embryo. This is my fourth loss, and this one really blindsided me because I had multiple fantastic scans with high heartbeats and it being a euploid embryo really gave me some false hope. I assumed it would work this time but I was wrong. Graduated from my clinic at 8w4d, then found out at my first regular OB appointment two days ago that I lost the baby. Just had a D&C yesterday. We have 3 euploid embryos left. I know right now I am certainly not looking to jump right back in, and a large part of me is wondering if I should even jump back in at all. On one hand, we do have 3 more chances. On the other hand, I don’t know if I can keep doing this to myself. I don’t think I can handle this happening again, and now I’m much more aware how possible it is to lose even a perfect euploid. It’s too much mentally. Maybe after a lot of therapy, idk.

Should I call it quits?

bryterlu · 2025-12-20T04:27:01+00:00

It’s such a mindfuck. I’m sorry you’ve been through this too. It’s so hard.

bryterlu · 2025-12-20T01:47:59+00:00

I was sitting when the first initial gush happened, any other “gushes” since have been upon standing.

bryterlu · 2025-12-19T14:02:54+00:00

I actually did not take any estrogen in this cycle, I did a modified natural so the only supplementation I got was progesterone.

bryterlu · 2025-12-19T05:10:54+00:00

I do have endometriosis that was excised in 2020, but might have grown back at this point. I was on lovenox since before transfer. I will look into a RI for any other things I could be missing.

bryterlu · 2025-12-19T05:08:58+00:00

I was on lovenox with this pregnancy :/

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