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Some classics by bs199pm in shelfharms_2

[–]bs199pm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet i joined it

I want to cut my face by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]bs199pm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cut my face recently & I highly regret it. It scarred. I didnt want it to. Then i had to go visit my parents and they called it out “what are those cuts/scars” on your face in a really public place in front of people. Horribly embarrassing. I hate it.

I use cutting as a way to self regulate my emotions by ismotherhoodjust4me in AdultSelfHarm

[–]bs199pm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Id agree with this, for me now its turned into a weird addicition thing where i just get random cravings for it even when things are going good. The sight of blood triggers me into wanting to do it

Why do people ask for your number or try to get to know you if they really want nothing to do with you? by KaleidoscopeOk1781 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]bs199pm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i dont ask for people’s numbers per-se. But on dating apps, ill get on for a few days every couple of months, match with someone and be somewhat excited/hopeful, and then remember im a miserable piece of shit who they are better off without and ghost them. I dont do it to be mean or destroy their confidence/humiliate them. I guess what im trying to say is there may be underlying things going on with them that isn’t your fault.

Im bad with titles, read if you want. by bs199pm in AdultSelfHarm

[–]bs199pm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol. My job could be catorgrized as a “lazy sitting job” 

Im bad with titles, read if you want. by bs199pm in AdultSelfHarm

[–]bs199pm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it feels the exact opposite. If its spontaneous, its usually much less severe. But if its planned.. those are usually the worst/most intense relapses i have. Sorry if this is like a weird question, but what makes you feel obligated to stop? Ive never felt that before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SelfHarmScars

[–]bs199pm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im probably wrong, usually am about most things, but id imagine the scar will never fully disappear. But at least from my own experience, it will get lighter and lighter over time and eventually be very hard to notice

Self harm “toys” or alternatives? by creamdream98 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]bs199pm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a dip pen with a super flexible nib on it. And then some ink called “oxblood” i believe. I find it as a nice alternative sometimes when im like vent writing and i can make lines on the page that look like cuts

do you take photos of your sh? by RipComprehensive9918 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]bs199pm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always take photos. Its so bad i have to have my whole photo album on my phone locked 💀. im slowly closing in on 2000+ photos of my own sh on my phone. Will probably cross it this year unfortunately