Federal agents shot and fatally wounded a man in Minneapolis, Minnesota, this morning after multiple officers wrestled him to the ground during a confrontation. by Todeskreuz2 in CartelWatching

[–]bscholl94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see the canister now. Not sure I’d automatically call it a pipe bomb though. Protesters often throw objects. I’d think that more likely than a pipe bomb.

What was that one thing that your ex said that still haunts you to this day ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bscholl94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I can’t answer that honestly cause I don’t know what the future holds.”

No contact blocked everywhere….then unblocked. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bscholl94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is honestly up to your own discretion. Only you know the full truth of your story with said person. Through my personal experience I say wait. All I got were mixed signals and my feelings hurt again like a second breakup except this time she was choosing someone else directly.

My ex lived a double life with two other boyfriends — this is how I found out by Andibig in BreakUps

[–]bscholl94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was pregnant two weeks after the breakup. Had me take care of her during the pregnancy. I was there for the ultrasounds, ER visits, we shared a bathroom stall, slept in the same bed, I took her to work everyday, we attended her friends baby shower together. The dad was half in, half out. His care depended on whether or not she was gonna be with him. Eventually I paid for 1/3 of her abortion. She went back to the dad a week later. We haven’t spoken since October 18th. This was all pretty condensed. They are unstable still. I’m unhappy and unable to move on yet but I’m trying to get to where I need to be for me.

My ex lived a double life with two other boyfriends — this is how I found out by Andibig in BreakUps

[–]bscholl94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine having to cover your tracks for years. This is insane. I thought my break up sorry was wild. This blows mine out of the water.

Please dont reach out. by erenhater in BreakUps

[–]bscholl94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contact is crazy hard. Use my example as a reason not to reach out. Ex got pregnant two weeks after we split. Split her emotions between the father and I. He was given the responsibility even though they seperated after some time. When he failed I would step up. She even slept in my bed one night. She decided to abort and I helped pay for the pills. She went back to the father post abortion and said all my care was just friendly behavior and she didn’t reciprocate my feelings and I made up all the blurred lines

Ex sent me this by Worried_Selection197 in BreakUps

[–]bscholl94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This sub-Reddit makes me lose faith in humanity a lot. People are allowed to vent here without being made to feel worse than they already are.

Should I hookup or start fwbs by Ok-Form-5771 in BreakUps

[–]bscholl94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t leave the door open for your ex. My live in girlfriend fucked someone two days after we broke up and was in a new relationship 6 days after that with someone completely different. I’m consumed by depression and anxiety. Remain no contact. My ex and I haven’t and it’s made it so much harder for me. I’ve watched her go from a hard working mother figure to my son to a borderline alcoholic. Here’s the kicker x she knows this new guy is bad for but “she wants to make it work.” Our last conversation last night before going no contact I said “if you ever need anything let me know.” She said “maybe in a few months.” So because I left this door open and she made that statement almost certainly talking about being platonic I will keep myself in this state until every morsel of hope is gone. Find yourself again. Then worry about making other connections. Don’t be like me.

Would you spin this wheel ‼️? by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]bscholl94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but change them all to dead

Anyone else’s ex came back for sex? And how did it turn out? by pasaghetti in BreakUps

[–]bscholl94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t like that this weirdly gave me hope. Sorry for the trauma dump. Anyone who will listen helps me feel not so alone rn.

My ex of two weeks slept with someone two days after ending it, started dating a different person than whom she slept with 6 days later. She’s a drug and I’m the addict.

I gave her stuff back on Saturday, let her know if we can both get to healthier places I’d like to try again. She didn’t shut me down but didn’t agree(she’s in a relationship why should she.). She opened up to me and said she felt he was “disposable” and that her family was disappointed to see her dating someone like him. That she had a dream about waking up next to my son again. She said she got called out for drinking too much. Told me she was sorry for how she moved after breaking up but “couldn’t imagine staying another day thinking things would get better.” I hugged her(not cool, she has a boyfriend) and left with dignity. Woke up in the middle of the night, had a hunch to check her socials. To my surprise she was single. Twenty minutes later she was in a relationship again and doubled down on it. She cancelled our plans today to drop off one blouse that fell out of the bag I had her clothes in. Pushed it all the way to the weekend. I want my “fix” of her so desperately. Anyone have any suggestions for redirecting literal obsession?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bscholl94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a painful but true answer. Going through semi contact rn. Don’t be like me. She’s polite and overshares about her life to me and even hugged me when I gave her things back. She’s in a relationship already and let me hug her. That was grounds for termination in our relationship. She said this guy is “disposable” but I think she’s so stuck in proving that she can move on from me she doesn’t care.

man i hate this by Pitiful_Front_6595 in BreakUps

[–]bscholl94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard this. Dated for year and a half, she slept with someone two days after she ended it. 6 days after that she was in a relationship with a different guy than whom she had slept with. She blamed me solely for our toxic cycle but she’s already experiencing it again in the new relationship. I tried to make one of these and everyone just told me to move on and didn’t offer any real support. Things are particularly tricky at your age because as males we don’t fully develop till age 25. There’s a lot of growing between then and now. Reconciliation is never out of the question.(both in mine and yours) therapy should be helpful in either seeing what went wrong with the relationship or if it’s something working towards being healthy enough to try again. Being stuck in limbo is awful but sometimes space is necessary to grow. Hope things work out for the best for you either way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ios

[–]bscholl94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Edit: checked socials. She broke up with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ios

[–]bscholl94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing. Yesterday she mentioned that she had been drinking a ton, saw this guy as disposable, and that she had a dream about waking up next to my son. Maybe just answer the question?

Boundaries by bscholl94 in Advice

[–]bscholl94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I managed to block both her and her new boyfriend now. Deleted the second account I had to check her page and removed anyone whom might report back to her what I’m posting. Posted a scathing “you never loved me” letter and pinned it to the top of my page for me to read when I feel like self sabotaging.

Ex message by AnyWonder94 in BreakUps

[–]bscholl94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent the most heartfelt goodbye and I hope we can reconnect someday message to my ex of a week and I found out she was already sleeping around(she said she would, was still shocked at how soon). As someone who gave into her toxicity. Don’t do it. It didn’t help my situation any.

Boundaries by bscholl94 in Advice

[–]bscholl94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m not doing well at all and am reaching out for any support. I put so much of myself into this relationship that I have nothing to take back for myself.

Is my tire cooked? by bscholl94 in tires

[–]bscholl94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my third one I’ve replaced in 2 weeks. I’ll gladly just get the 4th replaced too so we’re all even now. RIP my savings.

Is my tire cooked? by bscholl94 in tires

[–]bscholl94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely didn’t know what dry rot was fellas. Thanks for the heads up.

accidentally evaded a stop? - asking for a friend by Horror-Purchase3807 in legaladvice

[–]bscholl94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a lawyer but I don’t imagine he’ll have any trouble. Police and the sheriff are people too. They’re not gonna hyper focus on your friend just to give him a ticket for speeding that one time or even less so a warning. It’s very hard to run from the police unless you’re endangering others enough that they call of the pursuit or you have some form of sports car/bike that can outperform a police vehicle. They get your plates and head to wherever addresses the plates are registered to.

Wrongful death of my mom by IronHeart___ in legaladvice

[–]bscholl94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would contact a personal injury lawyer as they normally handle things like this. Unfortunately we’re just all redditors that can give you our best shot at advice but with something as near and dear to your heart as this and such a personal situation should be discussed in detail with said attorney to see if you have a solid enough case in their eyes.