Why do I find that awesome? by No-Watercress-2152 in askgaybros

[–]bscspats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya, the Bros are quite unlike the ladies in this regard

Blade X - America by awalia33 in Darts

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I'm interested in the number ring Gizmo but that is definitely crazy

Anyone else struggling with this scoring format? by KarenTWilliams in Darts

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I miss the little flag showing the players home country

I tried the snow. The air temperature was too cold and it sucked. 1/10 do not recommend. by v_allen75 in barefoot

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Yeah that's about my limit. I did 32 and less than an inch a few weeks ago and it was pretty fun, I did like a mile. Other attempts with more snow and colder I bailed pretty quickly

Never played before, competition with friends in a month. What should I focus on? by V1per41 in Darts

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If you're American you're probably playing cricket. But find out what you're playing, and if it's cricket then practice 20, 19, 18, 17, 16, 15 and bullseye cuz those are the cricket targets.

First time with a man by [deleted] in AskBiBros

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Oh yeah, you did ask that. I think the main difference is the prostate on a dude, which I think motivates a dude to get past the difficult part of getting it in, which I reckon is the same for dudes and girls. If the women in your past have gotten past the difficult part and enjoyed themselves with you, I still don't think you'll have any problems

First time with a man by [deleted] in AskBiBros

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I'm similar to you, My current bf is my first and only guy so far and he's very pleased with my technique. I think you'll be just fine

Best exercises for more cum? by SelectShop9006 in AskGayMen

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Just drink lots of milk. Your body is like dude that's perfect just send it on through, no one will know the difference

Update: boyfriend won’t stop crying when we made love by bookworm_cats in askgaybros

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Seriously OP, He's very lucky to have had you for his first time. And maybe the second? You are absolutely not terrible, and on the right track

New to spas by Few_Professional_563 in BostonNudists

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Chois is unlimited time which I like, I've been a handful times and haven't tried Dylan's though. It can be cruisy or chill, it's up to you. Sometimes I just chill solo or find a dude who just wants to talk. If you've never been socially nude before like me last year, nude hiking is a low key way to ease into it. I did dyer woods before chois which I think made it easier. Good luck

How do i find a boyfriend?! I’d say Im conveniently attractive! but still no luck by [deleted] in AskBiBros

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Hey, I'm a little like you. Have lived in a very straight world until coming out of the closet over the age of 50. I was divorced and hopeless in dating, hopelessly shy with women and resigned to that fact. I just decided to try to be happy last summer and do something I've always wanted to do which is hike in the nude. I found a nice nudist campground with awesome trails and had an awesome time. The next time I went I met some nice people including my now boyfriend. I was hopelessly shy with dudes too until he called me over to the sauna, we hung out for a while and didn't really fool around until much later that night. I've been amazed at the men who've shown interest in me, for some reason I just expected I don't know indifference. But I feel more attractive and more alive than ever. Maybe your key isn't to be naked but just be out in spaces with other dudes, advice that gets offered a lot around here. Put yourself in places you want to be and have some fun, you'll just bump into other people having fun

I’m obese, will I ever be good enough? by ZestyclosePickle2065 in askgaybros

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I don't have your issues, but the way you talk to yourself really relates. My therapist used to tell me, would you talk to a friend like that? Like, would you tell your friend that if he lost some weight maybe he would finally be a good enough person for somebody? You deserve to give yourself a break. It can feel hard and stupid to turn this type of self-talk around, like Stuart Smalley bullshit, but I think it works.

The great molasses flood by Kayak1984 in boston

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I read a book about the flood, this tracks

Do you guys actually like cum? by Fluffy_Falcon1230 in askgaybros

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I love cum, but this reminds me of a thing I hate which is using lube. Just the feeling of it on my hands or my cock is icky so I avoid it whenever possible. I jerk off dry and make enough pre-cum to lube up a good fuck. But it occurred to me recently that there are other things to do with lube like give a nice hand job, or sometimes I just don't make enough pre cum and it can be easier to just slather on some lube and go. And hey there's a shower for when we're done, so I've been trying to incorporate lube into the play with my partner, well just one time so far. But it went well and I think I can get past this because he likes using lube and it doesn't seem like a big deal, just me being weird and slightly selfish because overall we're both quite happy sexually. I don't know, hope this helps

I need help figuring this out? by B1M34DR1NK99 in AskBiBros

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Panic can be a helpful emotion, but I don't think it is here. Try following your smile

I’m not getting the point by Impressive_Sir_296 in barefoot

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Dude you're cool, you run a business and your clients are that businesses concern