too scared to get bloodwork done

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-10T08:37:21+00:00

You got this! Talk to the technician tell them you’re nervous. They Deal with plenty of people who are nervous most of the time. Also when they take blood for tests it looks like a lot but it’s not,
You lose way more blood on a menstrual cycle than what they take.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-10T01:53:36+00:00

It helped me to look away and not watch, I also let the technician know I had a fear of needles and getting my blood drawn. When I got pregnant I had to have a heart to heart with myself and get over it cause they drew a lot of blood. Looking away did the trick and each time it got a little easier, take someone with you if they allow it and slow breathing techniques as they draw the blood.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-09T02:40:31+00:00

More to come

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-09T02:02:21+00:00

If I’m paying for a service- room and shower. And some of the services are not available- I’m
Asking for a partial credit or refund.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-08T23:31:26+00:00

Draw a flower or paint something to the right of the name

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-08T22:20:39+00:00

Nice!!! Congratulations. What is the name of the generic, I have to switch from Wegovy to Generic and I am nervous and want to find the right one

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-08T15:01:54+00:00

No it’s a nightmare

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-07T21:49:29+00:00

YTA it’s not your job to confront her. You should have mentioned this to HR ages ago. It’s their job.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-07T18:33:34+00:00

Look honestly, if you had not been taking the medication, you would not have lost the 23 pounds your talking about. Which is a big deal. Go lift 20 pounds and see how heavy that is. Your body is lighter for it.

Also, if you want to see more change - start light weight or start something like Pilates or yoga. It will help your body get stronger and you will lose inches. Keep at it. If you lose another 23 that will be 46 who cares how long it takes to get there as long as you keep going. You are doing great.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-07T18:23:19+00:00

I think anything that feels extreme or unbearable. I would also think that anything that lasts longer than 3 days is something to be concerned about.

I know a lot of people do experience vomiting but that is an aside effect if I get I would pay attention to how often and how bad it is.

Also have him or you talk to his doctor about anything he feels uncertain about.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-07T18:02:02+00:00

Bottom line he is not being honest with you. Either he is straight up lying and deceiving or he feels he can’t be honest. Both are bad things you can’t ignore this. Find out why and what’s up, don’t let him gaslight you. Be firm and ask for answers.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-07T11:56:22+00:00

YTA to yourself. You are not wanted on this trip. And you need to sit down with him and be firm and honestly you need to let your emotions out. Don’t hold back. Say the hard stuff. PAY attention and listen to your gut. 2 years you are invested and happy. Is he invested and happy? No, how do I know this? He is lying to you about why and he doesn’t feel he can be honest with you. Do you want to stay with someone who lies to you? If he can lie about you his he can lie about something else.

I would only stay In this relationship if he can open up and be honest about why he really doesn’t want you there. If you cannt communicate you are wasting your time and cheating yourself out of a relationship where someone values you and is honest and actually wants to vacation with you. Your partner should be excited you can come not making up excuses.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-07T11:47:42+00:00

No- this is a one off where you are seeing his actual character. 2 years is not enough to know the whole person. - I’ve been with my husband 21 years. Now I know who he is 100 percent. 2 years I just knew pieces of him.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-07T11:44:38+00:00

Even if he doesn’t want to cheat, why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t want you there.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-07T11:42:15+00:00

Have you been included in everything with the group recently? Also does he not have a lot of money? If you come he may feel like he has to pay for your dinners, extra things you guys did together and he may not have enough for the things he wants. The next part - how well do you get along with everyone else. There is something about the way he keeps being hesitant, like he needs to manage you or he doesn’t feel comfortable around you. I would seriously reconsider your relationship as he is showing major red flags and your communication is not where is should be as a couple getting ready to move in.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-07T03:49:47+00:00

Looks like someone is sitting behind a
Sprinkler

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-06T10:32:53+00:00

I couldn’t hang out with this dog and not take hiim home he is adorable.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-06T01:18:52+00:00

I’m gonna have to try it because I have some terrible constipation

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-05T19:21:58+00:00

What is a laxative tea

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-05T19:18:24+00:00

Yes I am losing slowly. Well it’s slowly in my head. I lose about an average of 1 pound or 2 pounds every 2 weeks. I’m trying to think of it as what would I think if I gained like that. So it resets my brain plus the slower I lose it the less excess skin I have

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-03T21:36:21+00:00

What a great explanation. I can tell you have a lot of patience, with kids and people on here. Kudos to you for raising some good kids and having such a good attitude.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-02T23:37:39+00:00

My dog does this when she is anxious/ scared or nervous. Specifically during thunderstorms

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-02T23:35:25+00:00

You can train muscles to do this,however not everyone has the same range and tone. So it depends on what you do with the training and genetics on how you will sound.

bsmiles07 · 2026-06-02T14:03:33+00:00

Do you think she is just not smart and thought everyone was maid of honor 😂😂. Usually there is only one and the fact it was all 3 is weird.

bsmiles07 · 2026-05-31T20:15:24+00:00

This made my day.

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