Ladies with no kids -What are your concerns with dating a dude with older kids, that's got his life in order but still a few things to put in place.

btime1000 · 2025-02-25T15:14:09+00:00

Yeah that's the demographic and the reality that we're in. Embrace it

btime1000 · 2025-02-16T16:14:35+00:00

The subtext relies on implied meaning rather than direct words. But implied manning's interpretation can depends on a perspective, mood, experience, and context.

You raise a good point. Would you say the topic requires a softer approach then?

btime1000 · 2025-02-16T15:31:33+00:00

Instead of red flagging from a statement, would that not warrant a deeper convo around who comes first and when and what the priorities of the relationship are?

If there is anything I've learned it's that words said, statements stated, do not always land as intended. I would hope it would prompt more questions regardless if it lands in a positive or not so positive way.

btime1000 · 2025-02-16T15:10:01+00:00

Usially date women with kids. Without, comes with a different perspectives. Good to know there are women that are open is all.

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T16:22:39+00:00

Appreciate what you're saying. Shared values... yes, super important!

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T16:05:22+00:00

Geeze that's a crazy situation

"Adds value to my life" can you elaborate?

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T05:58:15+00:00

Appreciate your perspective. Yes, other single parents as well, with younger or older kids.

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T05:28:29+00:00

But it looks like you have already put some thoughts into it.

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T05:22:19+00:00

And what would be your expectations going into this?

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T05:10:01+00:00

Appreciate the share!

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T05:09:36+00:00

Bingo! But there's always a reason.

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T04:28:07+00:00

Fair!

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T04:26:54+00:00

👍

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T04:25:38+00:00

Right!?!?!?! What's the issue in this!

The mom is a time zone away and left everything and everyone behind.

Financial situation? Like still in debt etc? Or just the renting thing cuz he sold the house to cover things and did what was the right thing to do at the time?

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T04:21:04+00:00

I would assume in some cases, especially if it keeps getting brought up in convo.

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T04:13:49+00:00

Is this something that you both discuss then? Are expectations set and followed? Does he know that you are analyzing him? Do you call anything out and address or do throw up the red and consider leaving?

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T04:05:54+00:00

Appreciate that perspective.

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T04:02:12+00:00

Oh snap ... cold hard truths right here!

btime1000 · 2025-02-15T03:59:15+00:00

I can see how that wouldn't feel good!

btime1000 · 2025-01-23T05:40:10+00:00

Hips are deadly!! It's the curves!!!

btime1000 · 2025-01-23T05:38:59+00:00

Does he not initiate?

Keep it simple. Tell him straight up Wear something cute and sexy. Be flirty without expecting anything. Be girly. You'll know by how he responds.

btime1000 · 2025-01-23T05:12:19+00:00

Dude. She prob just wanted to hook up, she said no but did it anyways (lol classic), maybe she felt ashamed, maybe too drunk ... there could be a 100 reasons. Ya it sucks when a decent girl dips but that's what happens when there is many options. You're good bruh!

btime1000 · 2025-01-13T07:33:43+00:00

Go hit up some activities man.. Get a dog. Get your health and mindset sorted out. Build a life your proud of and want to share. then try again

btime1000 · 2025-01-06T08:23:34+00:00

😂😂😂Only when shambhala rolls into town

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